Help me urgent...full tension
d.o.b 02.April.1983 time morning 11:00 name is nirmala. I am born in andhra Pradesh in kurnool
My husband sreedhar d.o.b 08.08.1981 born in andhra Pradesh in adoni I don't know his time of birth. Also our date of marriage is December 13th 2008. Always my husband shows anger on me every day. We used to have quarrels.eventough we were staying together in Bangalore where he has job. His parents were in village in andhra Pradesh. Suddenly in December 2016 we got a phone call that his mother fell down.we thought she is fine. In the night we got to know that she was admitted in hospital in andhra pradesh. My daughter exams was there and same time I was also working in school as a science and maths teacher.so he said he will go alone to andhra. He went Andhra and brought her and his father and sister and brother in law to Bangalore. She had minor surgery and along with my husband convinced his father also to get his leg also operated as his father had leg pain. Both got discharged in the month of January. And came to my house. They just used to sleep and eat. My husband brother was staying with us only with his wife from long time. I am an teacher and have to go school by 9 am in the morning, my daughter is 5.8 years old. I used to get up, fresh up,bathing, waking up daughter and bathing her, I will prepare breakfast and will go school taking my daughter. After me ,my husband fresh up he will eat and will go office by 9:30. My brother in law goes office late so his wife also very late in her works.. I come home at 3:30 afternoon. Till that time that lady will cook for them lunch. Night together we prepare dinner. Her husband take cares of her very well.
My husband he talks with others nicely but shows anger on me and my child. One day February 26th 2017, my brother in law went to search a rented house to live a long with his wife. His father on the same day when that couple went outside to eat pani puri, he slowly started fighting with me he called me prostitute and etc words and said because of u only my son's getting separated, I will put you garland,unnecessarily we married you....I saw my husband face, he was sitting on chair taking deep breath watching tv. When ever his father scolds me, I only go and talk to him again...actually before this incident already like this 2 incidents happened ...
His father every time scolds me only.he won't scold the other daughter in law.
I felt my husband support his father only..he won't support me..I wanted to die but daughter is small so I left Bangalore on 27th Feb 2017 and came to andhra pradesh. I love my husband everyday I am not able to live with out him..please tell me if he will realize it and come to me to take along with him.....my daughter name is roopashree.s time 5.50 am d.o.b 22nd March 2011 place of birth kurnool Andhra Pradesh
Here is a reading picked off your feelings, sometimes it helps to see it from a different perspective. There are influences that you do not have control over but only you can make your decisions.
Don't forget who you are, know your heart is good and that you have the best interests of everyone at heart, don't lose that even in hard times.
There will be little gains here and there, take those success as encouragement.
There is tension in the relationship which causes indecision...and neither side wants to give in
Your sad and disappointed that things have not turned out differently
it feels like a different influence, a older woman wants things her way, she is only looking what will affect her.
You want things to turn out right but waiting and not acting, just hoping it will, I don't feel will work out how you want. You will have to make choices, plan and think them through so you know they are the right choices.
Someone will give you good advise to help you make a choice.
You are not going to make a decision right away. Look inside yourself and build the right answer.
don't get upset and think nothing will work out, if you do you will fall in the trap of everything I try doesn't work out and end up doing nothing but sulk in misery.
There will come a point where things calm down, little success will build you courage to continue
There will also be a point where new ideas will happen allowing a different road to travel
Hope that helps,