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What do you see in matters of the heart? There is someone I am interested in but not sure if it's a relationship worth pursuing (long-term)?
Can you give me both your date of birth and the birth date of your love interest so I can pick up and compare your vibes?
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I would like your insight on any upcoming promotion or job change.
I have NOT missed a day of work at my current job ;I have posted out to other departments so that I can earn better pay. So far no luck!
Do you see me changing departments ; or, do you see me with another company or career opportunities? ?
Date Of Birth: April 21, 1973
Thank you The Capitan. Mine is 2/12/1969. Unfortunately, I do not know the DOB of the person I am interested in, although I know he is a Taurus-if that helps. I have not seen him in a few weeks, and so need some guidance.
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You are most kind TheCaptain I'm really in need of guidance. I often times feel lost and stagnant, and I would just like to have some reassurance or guidance about my future or life in general. I would greatly appreciate your help, thank you.
StandingTall, 2017 is the year when your working life will improve greatly - in fact, it will be your best time in a long time for career and money matters, Make sure you give all your attention to that aspect of your life and don't get distracted by other matters.
Nicky643, I cannot read your love interest's vibes without a birth date to connect me. But I can tell you that this year is a bit too up-and-down and changeable for you to see things clearly. Next year will be much better for love matters and for settling down in domestic bliss. For the moment, try not to have too many expectations and just go with the flow. Ride out this year of big changes and 2017 will be much calmer and more harmonious for you.
KeionaN, from around the age of nineteen, you should have been increasingly drawn into public positions that require strength and confidence. During these years, you should guard against inflexibility and uncritical belief in your cause. After the age of forty-eight, you will enter a new phase which brings practical issues to prominence, and you will become more analytical, observant and methodical. If you devote yourself to a cause that is worthy of you, you have the potential to rise all the way to the top, and helping others rise with you. The opposite is true if you make the wrong choice, so learning to make the right choices and decisions will be your major challenge in life. You will, however, be able to make the right choice with ease if you work with your intuition, investing time and energy to listening to your inner voice. Your intuition is a gift that can bring you good luck, success and happiness. Because this gift can make you feel as if you are different, you may choose to repress it or only reveal it to those who know you well. But you owe it to yourself to listen to it and trust it.
Yet when it comes to personal matters, you also need to be able to step back and examine your situation through objective eyes, in order to see what is really going on. Your mild-mannered charm will often attract admirers but, when in a relationship, you need to watch your tendency to always know what’s best for everyone, especially as you tend to be attracted to enterprising, successful people who are determined to succeed. Once in a loving relationship, however, you can be extremely affectionate, generous, loyal, and loving.
Careerwise, you will thrive in any job that involves people and an element of risk. You might make a great firefighter, paramedic, police officer or emergency care worker, for instance. You may also be drawn to sales, negotiation, promotion, law, publishing, banking, or politics. Any occupation that deals with items for the home, food or caring would also be a possibility and your love of the dramatic may lure you to the world of art acting or entertainment.
Whatever path in life you choose, you will be at your happiest when you are surrounded by those who are working toward a common goal. Ironically though, for someone so focused on communal identification, you are also quite a private individual and prefer to keep your own feelings to yourself; opening up to others won’t be easy for you. Despite your reserve, your dedication and loyalty are matched only by your courageous spirit and desire to defend and protect those less fortunate.
In summary, your life path is to understand that some of the answers you are looking for can only be found by searching within. Once you are able to connect with your excellent intuition, your destiny is to devote your considerable talents to the common good.
2016 for you will focus very much on relationships, all kinds of relationships. Anything to do with diplomacy, dealing with people, networking, communication, human relations, and cooperating/working with others will be lucky for you. Any new ideas, relationships, or projects that were begun in 2015 should either start to gel or it should become clear, through lack of energetic support from the universe, that you will need to release some emotional and mental blocks that stand in your way. It is possible that issues in an existing relationship will come to the surface to be dealt with. Follow your inner voice in matters of the heart. This is a year to focus on your emotions and love. Last year was all about your work/study - it was a “me” year; this year is an “us” year. This is a slow-moving year, designed to test and build your patience. It’ll feel like you’re moving three steps forward, four steps backward at any given time. Concentrate on intimacy and relationships, fostering appreciation for yourself and your loved ones, and speaking your truth gently yet firmly. Don’t expect anything to transpire at a rapid pace. You'll need patience, patience, and more patience. Your personal energy will be focused on “us,” relationship, and harmony. Yet the energy of the year will demand dynamic action and a bit of self-centered achievement. It’ll be a delicate balance for you in 2016. It will pay off to circulate and impress people with your talents and abilities this year and to be balanced, sociable and intuitive. It is a time to cooperate and form new partnerships with others, to have patience, lay your plans, and bide your time (for success is sure to come if you are willing to prepare and plan well), but not necessarily to take on any big projects that may overwhelm you with details. In 2016, you are well advised to rest, reflect, and gather knowledge. Part of that process may be taking a well-deserved vacation or taking classes that are of personal interest to you without being overly demanding. Next year will be your big year for fun and socialising, so you will need lots of energy and focus to get through it.
2016 is asking you to find ways of creating more harmony, stability and balance in all areas of your life. Indeed, you are searching for ways to make life easier for yourself, for example by letting go of a specific type of emotional behaviour which is preventing you from enjoying life fully, or perhaps by moving to a property closer to your job instead of commuting for hours every working day. In order to bring more balance into your life, you may need to look at situations carefully, weigh up which need to be changed, and then be prepared to do something about them. In 2016, you may also find yourself in situations that are the very opposite of what you had expected, but in order for you to find your ideal balance, it may be necessary for you to experience them. This cycle can be a time for major decision-making, but before doing so you are likely to consult your partner or best friend and talk it through thoroughly, and you will also pay attention to your intuition. If you started a new job, moved house or took on new commitments during the last year, by now you are beginning to find your way, and hopefully you are feeling more at ease with these changes. There may be a feeling that you want to backtrack on decisions made last year, but more often than not, these are based upon emotional fears which need to be kept in check in order to make steady progress. Indeed, any fluctuations in finances or emotions may be a part of the process that encourages you to work harder towards a balanced life this year. During 2016, you may find yourself hopelessly in love and experiencing undying romance; it is time for a blending of souls. Perhaps you may also seek out a special friend to share your hobbies and interests with, or merge your company with a new business partner. You will often find that you are attracted to acting as a couple. Whether you are living or working with another, you may find that other people distinctly fade into the background as you fully explore the relationship dynamic this year. Wanting someone to hold your hand so that you do not experience life alone may be a problem for you, along with relying on them for emotional support. However, you may discover that by learning to give to others, you feel connected to life, which opens up your heart a little further and makes you attractive to love. Negotiations of any kind may spring up and dominate your life during this cycle, but you may be required to work at compromises. You can even find yourself mediating on behalf of others, over which you will usually be calm and diplomatic, even if your emotions do try to get in the way. You can also find yourself defusing uncomfortable situations easily because you are able to keep your emotions in check, and because you do not take sides in an argument.
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Can you tell me please watch do you see me doing career wise in 2017?
I want to make sure I go on the right path and not get distracted!
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Hi The Captain,
I replied to a different thread you started but you seem active on this one so I will post again.
What do you see in my future career wise? I am a senior in college and accepted a full time job offer but still searching for other positions because of higher salary and a location on the east coast. Will I be happiest at the job I've already accepted or do you see me being happy somewhere else?
Also, I would like to know what the future holds for my relationship with someone. My DOB is 10/03/94 and hers is 9/29/93
Thanks in advance
StandingTall, I see you continuing in roughly the same profession but with a promotion or better salary and conditions.
Jackie103, next year will be full of big changes and opportunities for you and you will have to be open-minded and flexible to achieve the best outcome. Be prepared for anything! I feel you will change your job several times over your lifetime before you hit on exactly the right one (and know exactly what you want), but you will be gaining invaluable experience throughout it all. Do try the job you have accepted though as it will be important in the process of showing you what you do want.
I'm afraid your relationship can be problematic for love. It's not a full romantic 'soulmate' connection, even though you have some similar personality traits and can learn a lot from each other. But it is an 'interesting' mix of ease and demand. At times the two of you will be content to loll and laze, but at other times the relationship can develop the fury of a hurricane. Such unpredictable swings of mood will have to be evened out if a modicum of psychological stability is to be achieved here. Competitive urges will often arise between you and can become the focus of this relationship. This can manifest as either competing for the spotlight within your families, or social or professional groups, or competing to surpass a stated objective or to outstrip each other. In either case, this adversarial relationship does not necessarily have to involve animosity and can be quite a friendly rivalry if you work to make it so. A kind of affection, even love, is predicated on the very conflict that at times seems to indicate hostile conflict. However, in both love and marriage, competition for the attention of your mutual friends may temporarily drive you two apart.
You Jackie103 are drawn to people with an adventurous streak and an inquisitive mind just like yourself; but you also want someone with whom you can build a secure and welcoming home. You can be extremely loving and giving as well as charming, and need to ensure you make strong rather than superficial connections with other people.
Your friend is exciting and interesting but her need to constantly challenge, question and shine can cause great tension in her personal relationships. However, as she is also passionate and romantic, loving heartfelt gestures such as flowers, hearts and poems, her partners tend to forgive her. Because her life tends to be unpredictable, she thrives best with a partner who can offer her stability and security. But her feeling of not entirely fitting in can make her insecure in company.
Advice: Beware of unproductive competition between you. Strive for greater understanding. Sometimes winning is really losing if it drives you apart.
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Wow, thanks TheCaptain! As for my career path, yes, I feel like I don't really know what I want to do and would like to try out different positions before really settling into one. I'm looking into rotational programs, as I think that would be the best for me.
For the relationship part, I think your reading was pretty accurate. Me and her would have great times together but we would also often have pretty bad fights/arguments over little things and over misunderstandings. She would constantly challenge me and my motives and that's when I would blow up. Having been broken up for a couple of months, I've been able to reflect on the relationship and realize that I may have been immature in the relationship, but I know I am not the only one to blame for our fights and arguments. Additionally, I guess my self-esteem kind of lowered while with her, as she would always get attention from other guys when we went out because she is extremely beautiful and I felt like I just looked trash next to her. You are also correct about her being insecure.. she often feels like she's awkward in a group setting.
I've sort of matured through these past couple of months a realized how I would and could be a better partner in the relationship if she were to realize she wanted to come back to me. I couldn't really tell whether your reading said if she would ever realize what she lost and try to come back to me after she lived up the single life and possibly dated some other people? I understand her reasonings for breaking up with me and wanting to experiencing other things so I am willing to look past the past to reconcile.
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I'm wondering what you see for the future between myself, born June 15 1985, Taurus Moon & rising, and a friend born Nov 21 1979. I feel like we have a strong connection, but circumstances have been keeping us apart lately, and his lifestyle is also different from mine (he has a young child).
I also wonder if my recent choice to settle in a new city rather than constantly travelling, as I had been doing, will bring me what I was hoping for... deeper connections and perhaps a longer lasting relationship.
Woolgatherer11, sorry, but I feel that your connection with your friend is more spiritual than romantic and that deep down you are both too independent to surrender to a long term affair, anyway. I feel you won't attract the right partner for you until you build up your confidence in yourself more.
And a different location doesn't change who you are or what issues you may have with love and relationships. You are very charming and attractive but you may have trouble believing in your own desirability. Mostly you just want to feel appreciated by other people. You want is to merge with someone else's energy and feel mutual empowerment. You are looking for total, permanent commitment. You want a partner whom you can count on to take care of all your material needs, and you will take care of all your partner's emotional needs (or vice versa) - a synergistic relationship that is mutually empowering and completely dependable. To successfully establish this type of relationship, you must be discriminating and find someone with similar energy and values. The shared goals must be innately valuable to each of you as individuals. For this to happen, you must first get in touch with your own values. You must become strong within yourself, aware of what you want, and tune in to what is real and meaningful in your life. The challenge is to establish your own energy systems and figure out who you are as an individual. As your energy becomes stronger, you will automatically attract mates of similar energy with whom you can form successful partnerships.
Your Achilles' Heel is seeking self-worth through others ("I can only feel OK about myself through the validation of others") which can lead you into the trap of an unending search for a soul mate. ("If I have this one special person's energy, I'll feel complete".) In truth, you can only achieve a sense of completeness within yourself - it will never come as the by-product of a relationship, even with a soul mate. No matter how much support and validation you get from others, you always think you need more. In fact, for you, validation is a false barometer of whether you are on the right track. Living according to standards you KNOW are right for you, regardless of what others think, will help you develop a sense of self-worth. At some point, you must stop being enmeshed with others and involved in their business, and simply walk your own path instead. The irony is that when you begin to do this, others will support you, both financially and on an energy level.
You should ensure you are as honest with yourself and others as possible in relationships, and don’t place being popular, wealthy or attractive over a sense of personal achievement. You are attracted to beautiful, intelligent people and enjoy a good debate, but you need to be careful that you don’t value outer over inner beauty, or get caught up in arguments and power games. Once you find the perfect partner, you can be loyal, gentle and loving.
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Thanks Captain, that's true about my self confidence and also what I'm looking for. It's just frustrating because I feel like I've been trying to work on these issues and make better choices in regards to relationships for years, and I'm not sure if I've gotten much closer. I have some different things to think about now though, thank you.
I really hope I'm not still in the same situation in five years. Do you have any sense of how long it will be before I find the right partner?
Woolgatherer11, you will attract the right person for you once you become the right person inside yourself ie. the real you - the confident, desirable person you truly are - and that you must believe you are. Until you believe in your own lovability, no one else will, either. If you want someone to love you, love yourself first.