Relationship Reading help
Please if there is anyone out there that can help me i would really appreciate it. I feel so lost can confused. my ex an i broke up in march we were engaged to be married next year. we have a son (21mths) together who he struggled to bond with and still does now. it is a constant conversation between us to get him to see him more. we speak unnecessarliy often and he visits my house to see his son when i am there instead of taking him off. Should I write him off or give him a chance to get himself together? please please please
If he doesn't want to spend time to bond with his own flesh and blood....I would move on. That is hard to shallow and even though I am not a mother I would think that you want the best for your son. I would move on and spend your energy into yourself and building a life for your son. I know many men, including my own brother who is not present for their own children and well, it's their loss.