Can hanswolfgang give me a reading reguarding my love life



  • dear hans, sorry to bother you again but i would like to know if you can give me a reading reguarding my love life... i can truly say that it's in a mess. i haven't had any good partners and feel as though i should just give up and stay away from men period. i just wanna get one last try but if it doesn't work than i know it just wasn't ment for me to be with anyone. i'm getting older and would like to be able to have some companionship . my dob is 4/20/81 i was born is staten island richmond county don't know the time i was born though... it'll mean alot hans! thank you ... joe bull...p.s my initials are j.h[last name initial].



  • joebull,

    i would like to know if you can give me a reading reguarding my love life: you are able to charge things energetically. Contemplates your own integrity without regard to the good or bad consequences your actions may have wrought. Stand or fall, you must be true to yourself.

    After being promoted to a high position in

    government, one man visited the town where he was born.

    "I suppose the folks here have heard of the honor

    that has been conferred on me?" he asked a former

    schoolmate.

    "Yes," came the gratifying reply.

    "And what do they say about it?"

    "They don't say anything," was the reply. "They just

    laugh."



  • so are you saying that i should just hang it up hans or wait? i just got out of a relationship of 8 years and not sure on what i should do.



  • joebull

    so are you saying that i should just hang it up or wait? just hang it up.

    i just got out of a relationship of 8 years and not sure on what i should do: try to serve with answers and knowledge.

    But man´s blindness, deafness, dumbness, seems to be infinite....



  • Hi hanswolfgang

    Sorry if this is inaapropriate but I would really love some of your insight on this question I have posted elsewhere on this site. I hope you can help me see the right way forward. Sometimes I think this man is confused and hurt by the past sometimes I think he is selfish and uncaring: Thank you in advance.....

    met my scorpio on a dating site. He is ten years younger, and has mars in

    Scorpio, Venus in Sag and the moon in Taurus.

    I had feelings for him from the start but he said he saw me as just a friend.

    I said that it was hard to be friends and we mutually agreed to part and to

    contact each other only if and when something significant happened.

    After 18 months I get a mail from him. I was very upfront with him and told him

    that I still loved him and was this wise to get back in touch. He then confessed

    to having this dream that had aroused feelings of hidden lust and desire for

    me.

    All the moves initially came from him and we have been intimate just twice even

    though he makes all kinds of excuses to stay over with me.

    He has visited me at my familiy's home and invited my friends to dinner with us

    at his place.

    I gave him the option of endidng things as I wasnt "feeling" him. We would

    share the same bed and he wouldnt even try to touch me (I didnt either call it

    pride and/or fear of rejection.)yet in his sleep would move over to my side and

    snuggle up.

    He appears not to respect me and seems to prefer spending time with his family

    on the phone or going out with his friends. I am always on the back burner and

    it is killing my sense of self worth and self confidence.

    If he is not into me why is he not ending things? The only thisng he said was

    that we had taken things too fast and that we should have a "normal" courtship.

    I asked him if we must keep our options open and he said its not the kind of

    thing he does when he is in a relationship.

    Its almost a week now and although there have been emails and texts there have

    been no plans made to see each other. I hesiitate to suggest it as I KNOW

    something will come up and I will be left twiddling my thumbs?

    Should I persevere or just cut my losses and run?

    He refers to his ex as his soulmate but he cant say if she loved him too and he

    says he will never take her back cos he deserves better. She left him to take up

    a job abroad and was on antidepressants at the time.

    Please help me understand this confusing scorpio man.

    Date of Birth: 26 January 1967

    Time of Birth: 12:13 AM



  • XenaB,

    I would really love some of your insight on this question I have posted elsewhere on this site: with temperance find your inner equilibrium.

    I hope you can help me see the right way forward: you have to look into everything at once, all the matters you are identified with.

    If he is not into me why is he not ending things? He wants to achieve all and cannot live without this illusion.

    I hesiitate to suggest it as I KNOW

    something will come up and I will be left twiddling my thumbs? No.

    Should I persevere or just cut my losses and run? just cut your losses and run.

    Please help me understand this confusing scorpio man: He is in a waiting position. The needed rain finally pours down, bringing a well-earned time of rest. It is Nature's time to enrich the crops, so leave it to her. To work the fields in the rain and mud would only undo all good effort. Do not seek more; the gibbous moon seeks to be full, but once full can do nothing but wane.

    Date of Birth: 26 January 1967: There is satisfaction and stability in both health, work and all affairs in general. Recovery from illness and any work-related problems can be expected. It can mean working hard and steadily, but usually this is a welcome situation, making you feel more secure and stable in your life. Essentially, this means security and foundation in your life. You will always achieve this kind of satisfaction.

    A king came to visit the monastery of a Zen master.

    The master took him around; he was very interested in

    knowing everything about the monastery. He took the

    king to every place except one -- the central temple.

    And that was the most imposing building, and yet

    whenever the king asked, "Why don't you take me to the

    temple?" the master would behave as if he had not

    heard.

    Finally, the king was very angry, because he was even

    taken to bathrooms and toilets. He said, "Are you mad

    or something? Why don't you take me to the temple?"

    And the master said, "For a certain reason -- because

    you are constantly asking, `What do you do here?' In

    the library we read: I can take you to the library. In

    the bathrooms we take baths: I can take you to the

    bathrooms. In the kitchen we prepare food. But to that

    temple I cannot take you because we don't do a thing

    there! That is the place where we move into non-doing,

    into non-action. And it will be impossible to explain

    that to you -- that's why. You are a great king, you

    are a great doer, and you are so much engrossed with

    having more and more. You understand the way of the

    mind, but you will not understand the ways which are

    not of the mind."



  • This is profound...thank you!



  • You say I should cut my losses and run biu also suggest I should wait....should I run and wait for him or is this waiting for someone else?...thank you...



  • XenaB,

    should I run and wait for him or is this waiting for someone else? you should run.

    Be aware of your conditioning. It starts with every child, because the

    parents would like the child to be just a carbon copy

    of them. Their ego would like the child to represent

    them -- their philosophy, their religion, their

    ideology, their politics, their nationality, their

    race, everything. The child has to be the carrier, the

    vehicle, the medium of all their ambitions and desires,

    of all their frustrations, failures. They are hoping,

    "We will die but part of us will live in the child" --

    so program the child in such a way that "what we have

    not been able to achieve, she will achieve."



  • Hi Hans,

    It looks like everything is slipping away.

    Can you pleas tell me what is in his mind??

    does he love me??

    he looks so programed, but I don't understand what is his direction, coming or going??

    what should I do regarding him??

    so confused!

    thank you! a



  • arsia,

    Can you pleas tell me what is in his mind?? Tensions.

    does he love me?? yes.

    what is his direction?? clarification.

    what should I do regarding him?? True to yourself to the end, inner light radiates from you and warms him in the glow.

    But when are you going to see your beauty? He can only

    be an arrow. But the arrow is always pointing towards

    your center. The arrow may be beautiful, you may

    appreciate it, that was not the purpose of the arrow.

    The purpose of the arrow was for you to move to where

    it was pointing.

    You have to see your beauty.



  • Thank You a lot Hans!!

    You radiate love ! 🙂



  • arsia,

    there is one more dimension to love. In the first, love is a biological need; in the second it is a psychological sharing; in the third you are love. In the first it is a relationship, a possessiveness; in the second it is a relatedness, a friendship, a friendliness; in the third you are love itself. Your very being is love, you radiate love. Only then has love come to its crescendo – it has achieved the ultimate, the last – you can call it godliness.



  • Hello Hans,

    thank you for your generous adds.

    so I understand the first and the second type of <3. I just don't get the third one. I wish I did. at least believe it.

    how do you get there??

    do you have to go through the first and the second first to get there???

    or you do get there without need of the first and second??

    so how??

    ❤ ❤ ❤



  • ❤ is the encoding for the word love

    I don't know why tarot.com doesn't recognize it??

    🙂



  • arsia

    Hello Hans,

    thank you for your generous adds.

    so I understand the first and the second type of <3. I just don't get the third one. I wish I did. at least believe it.

    how do you get there?? just by going.

    do you have to go through the first and the second first to get there??? no.

    or you do get there without need of the first and second?? no.

    so how?? it is a one-way connection, because love

    itself is a fulfillment. There is no question of any

    future fulfillment -- there is no future in love. Love

    knows only one time and that is this moment, now. Love

    is the means and the end. It is fulfillment, it is

    contentment, and out of this fulfillment is the

    fragrance.

    I don't know why tarot.com doesn't recognize it?? That is not so bad as that tarot.com DOES recognize so many words (hell, sex, etc.) (h-ell, s-ex) and thinks if it deletes it, it would not exist anymore.

    All that I can suggest is: be silent so that you can

    hear the still small voice of your heart. And it is

    always speaking, but you are so noisy you go on missing

    its message.