Request for 2016 Reading
Hello I would like to request a reading of this month of December and the year 2016, especially on career, finances, and love life. Thanks in advance!
For you, APA, 2016 will be an inspiring twelve month journey in which you will find exciting connections between your past, your present, and your future. Eventually, you will be able to use this information to set an ambitious goal in motion. But make no mistake, what happens this year is going to take perseverance and, above all, great patience. First, you must slow down and stop pushing to get results. What you want is going to take longer to achieve than expected, so tone down your high expectations of yourself and others, and pay patient and meticulous attention to the details of all situations. You must learn to move more slowly, attentively, and with mutual interests in mind. If not, you will miss too many clues and connections to make any kind of measurable progress. Widen your lens. See a bigger picture. Discover your connection to everything that is influencing your life.
Of course, it can be difficult to slow down when you are so sure that you need to be moving faster, but until you do slow down - enough to see the finer and often overlooked details of your reality - you will have no idea of where you have come from, who you are becoming, where you are, what you're doing, why you're doing it, where you're going, or the roles that others are playing in your life. Clarity is one of the principle gifts of 2016 for you, just as long as you slow yourself down enough to be able to claim it. Try to accept everything that happened in your past and, simultaneously, live in the present. This is no easy task but, if you make this your genuine aim and do not struggle with the slowness of it all, or repress the emotions that it triggers, the insights you gain this year will carry you into a future of your choice. Let go of all that stress by letting your emotions flow freely. Once they have been expressed out of your body, you can relax. Being relaxed is being at ease with yourself. Dis-ease (illness) manifests when you are not relaxed or when you are ill at ease. If you hold on to stress and refuse to slow down, your body will become even more burdened by the pressure of the year's slower speed. Illness, can result. Remember: stress is the pressure of feelings that cannot leave your body because they are being held in rather than expressed out. Whether illness is involved or not, if you do not significantly reduce your pace and your stress this year, 2016 will find a way to do it for you. You cannot compete with the year's energy because PEACE is its nature. There is no need to push yourself. If you do, the results you desire will not materialize in the way you desire. But you will be amazed at what you can accomplish when you live your life at the same pace as the year's energy you are in.
You may find yourself retreating from aggressive and stressed-out individuals this year. If you cannot physically move away from them, you will only prevent their problems from becoming yours through a relaxed and patient frame of mind. This is a time of deep awareness, civility and kindness. You are about to leave the human "race" for a year and become the human-being you may have forgotten you are. As your understanding of other people increases, you will realize that even those who appear aggressive may be covering up great unhappiness inside. You will need to be tactful and sensitive to their feelings and find a way to create harmony. Even if you are the one who feels vulnerable and unsure of yourself, try not to respond with aggression or defensiveness. Be patient with yourself, and you will find it easier to be patient with others. A little lightness and humor will go a long way in easing this year's unavoidable tensions.
Correct timing and patience will be major aspects for you in 2016. Your goals are either being taken care of behind the scenes where premature action cannot harm them, or they are dependent on other factors that first have to 'happen' before you can proceed. Patience does not mean merely putting up with adverse conditions. You must stand up for yourself as needed. But, for the most part, this will be a year in which to quietly and conscientiously pave the way for future success. This entails careful attention to detail, and really listening to what others have to say. Take the emphasis off you. Achievements will develop through teamwork and egoless cooperation. Use your abilities in ways that will benefit others. You will be unable to move forward unless you are patient; unless you wait for developments to happen in their own time, and unless you relax your tensions and long-term concerns.
You will feel a need for more warmth and affection, more acceptance for your feelings, and for the feelings of others. True prosperity and security cannot be realized through war-like competition and aggression. Truth, peace, cooperation, and tolerance are now your only means of moving forward. From this quieter and more peaceful perspective, you will find ways to change the parts of your life that you do not like. When you live on a moment-by-moment basis, you will understand that the present is your only exit from the past, and your only gateway to the future. The past and future are connected by the decisions you make and the actions you take in the present. This year you must decide to quiet your mind, develop your intuition, and rely on it to make decisions that are right for you. You will know if something is right by the way you feel about it. Despite the slowness of the year, you will be making significant progress. You will become more sensitive to the metaphysics of life and be able to sense reality rather than rely on others to tell you what is what. You may experience intense flashes of intuition and inner knowing. Strange dreams will not be unusual in 2016. Don't be afraid of them. They are trying to tell you something important. It would be a good idea to keep an ongoing record of your dreams. Write them down upon waking. No matter how abstract or bizarre they seem, you will soon see a pattern emerging which will provide insight into the issues of your everyday life.
When you recognize and feel the nurturing energy of the year, you will want to relax right into it. You will want to flow with it. In this gentle state of being carried along, your understanding of freedom and love will expand. You will know that aggression and denial of reality have almost killed your capacity to think, feel, move, and enjoy. This year's events will show you that Free Will is the next step of human evolution. Free Will is the future. Without it, we are just slaves. This year's distractions, delays and diversions are designed to develop your power of patience. Each situation contains an important lesson or opportunity. Patiently assess everything that is going on around you and inside you. Learn to feel and sense your way through life instead of forcing your way through it or going into denial. Be sensitive. Sense your reality.
Little effort is required when it comes to your personal ambitions. This process of delay and intrusion is actually helping them along. If you do succumb to frustration and surge ahead, you may force yourself into the wrong place at the wrong time, and you will need more than mere diplomacy to get yourself out of the mess. The circumstances of others will also slow you down. Teamwork is highlighted, and you are likely to have a specific role to play within a group, partnership, or relationship. Be diplomatic and considerate while you figure out what these people have to teach or show you. Some will be teaching you 'how to', while others will be teaching you 'how not to'. If anger arises, allow yourself to feel it, preferably when you are alone. Get it out of your system. There is no need to confront people unless your feelings tell you it is absolutely necessary. Listen to what your anger or any other feeling is telling you, and you will soon understand why your circumstances are as they are. Ask yourself, "What is really going on here"? And then hear all the fear and judgment contained in your replies. A strong intent to feel what your feelings are telling you will activate your intuition and provide the answers you seek. Feeling your intuition takes time, patience, and a genuine desire to cooperate with it. Once you do, you will realize that intuition is a tool for understanding and improving any situation. You will also understand that humanity is made up of individuals who have a right - and a duty - to rescue their free will from those who would seek to control it by sensing and 'feeling out' the truth. Intuition comes from your inner feelings and not your outer thoughts.
There is no need to lose your dignity or become a 'doormat' in order to cooperate. This year, you will be developing a confidence and grace which will allow you to deal with all situations calmly and efficiently, without becoming enmeshed in other people's problems. Your ability to notice and take care of details will make you respected and indispensable. That is a powerful position to be in, but your high self-esteem will not allow you to become so indispensable that you cannot walk away from or change an adverse situation. If you do not develop a warm and willing attitude toward others, you will find that your main experience is nervousness, conflicting relationships, blame, guilt, anger, fear, oversensitive and insensitive reactions, and unrelenting criticism. If any of this occurs, you may be trying to control another, or you may believe that others have the power to control you. Interacting with others requires you to feel their singular presence; to listen not only to the words they are saying, but also to the overall message they are trying to convey; to see them as they are, in their entirety instead of focusing on one aspect, and to become aware of how you are connected to them. Even the slightest act of control or manipulation is likely to work against you. This year, you must release your control over others or break free of their control over you. You will discover how much more loving and lovable you have become in the process.
In 2015, you learned about the importance of your individuality and independence. This year you will learn that everyone is operating according to their own energies; everyone has their own story to tell; everyone is of equal importance; and everyone feels. The way we treat and relate to others affects feelings and behavior and the quality of life. The year will make you aware of patterns of behavior that impede your freedom or someone else's. In these turbulent times, being able to tolerate, understand, and cooperate, is an exact and extremely valuable talent - and this is your year to show just how talented you are.
Thank you Captain, you've hit the nail on the head as usual. I am burned out from working long and hard hours to meet my career goals, but neglecting myself. Thankfully I am on vacation right now and can focus on my own needs now.
I do have a question that has been nagging me since I've heard something shocking from my client. Has my co-worker/friend secretly been sabotaging me behind my back at work? I rarely know the client and not sure who to believe. If that is the case, I have been losing money and clients since I've started working with her.
Also, where do I stand with J this year? I feel this year we have more opportunities to work together and it is awkward since we both know we have a crush on each other even though we haven't told each other. I look forward to hearing your response.
What is J's date of birth?
And I cannot tune into your co-worker/friend unless I have a photo or date of birth.