Reading please I'm lost



  • Hi guys, hope you're all well. Can anyone give me a reading? I'm at a cross roads with a few thing and need advice particularly about a new relationship im in... My mother is terminally ill too so I'm grieving and wondering if it.s me that's getting an off feeling because of qll the emotions or if irks something else. Please heko!



  • What is your date of birth and the birth date of your current partner?



  • Hi the captain, my dob is 04/04/82. His is 06/04/81 thanks x



  • Is that 4th April and 6th April or 4th April and 4th June?



  • Apologies, it's the 4 th of April, and the 6th of April



  • This is certainly the attraction of similar personalities and it can seem to be very comforting and safe, being with someone who is so like you. The two of you are 'stellar twins'. But you both like to be the 'star' of the show so, if you live under the same roof together, things can get pretty chancy. You both need to be at the centre of things, which may be a simple impossibility. A love affair here is likely to be tempestuous, adversarial and probably mercifully short. Were you to run longer, you would both risk burnout in a massive supernova. Rebound from such an intense relationship is likely to be attempted with a much more passive and less demanding partner next time. After a torrid affair, the two of you are unlikely to continue as friends - there will not be much left in this kind of relationship after the passion has cooled. Should you both want to continue on to marriage however, it must be attempted only with great care and great courage. Ideally, it should involve shared work, common goals or career (for which it is best suited). Power struggles and stress will often build up exponentially in this relationship, depriving both partners of rest. In all honesty, you are both such extreme personalities that you would do better with more 'normal', less remarkable types than with each other. You will likely both want a partner to be something of an 'orbiting satellite' around you; should that partner be the seem type as you as is the case here, this demand will not be satisfied. The only way a relationship here can work is if you both have your own separate, mutually exclusive circle of friends (or 'satellites') or very different activities and interests.

    Universalheart, you may often find it hard to settle down in relationships. You are attracted to unusual, eccentric, unconventional people like yourself and it takes someone very unique and quirky to pin you down. Partners may feel confused by your constant changes of direction but, once you commit to a relationship, you bring a tremendous amount of energy to it, and that more than compensates for any inconsistencies. Still, you should surround yourself with friends or loved ones who can gently warn you when you are heading off course. You can be extremely impulsive at times and this is probably the greatest risk to your health. You may throw yourself in at the deep end without proper preparation and this can result in injuries if the activity is physical, stress if the challenge is mental, and anxiety if your emotions have led you in the wrong direction. It is extremely important for you to slow down every once in a while and consider the consequences of your actions before you jump right in. As far as diet is concerned, you should eat a wide variety of foods from all the different groups, and vigorous exercise is recommended to burn off some energy, as long as you don’t push yourself too hard. You would also benefit from mind-body therapies such as meditation and breathing exercises to help you feel calmer and more in control. Adding a few drops of lavender essential oil to your handkerchief to breathe in when you feel your heart racing will help soothe your body and soul.

    Perseverance and self-discipline are really the keys to your success in life. However, once you have learned to ground yourself in reality, you should always be allowed to generate and express your ideas. The world would certainly be a less colorful place without you. You are a catalyst - someone who can affect the lives of others in a profound way. Your creative energy is explosive, and both at home and at work, you should have little trouble initiating projects and inspiring others to join your cause. When you are inspired, you will typically throw your considerable energy, tenacity and organizational skills into a project, giving you huge potential for outstanding success. Above all, you like to initiate; you also have tremendous courage, often happy to strike out in a completely new direction. Too often, however, you may move on to the next crusade before the previous one has been completed, leaving those who are less impulsive to reap the rewards. You need to learn that seeing things through to their conclusion can be more satisfying and rewarding than initiating them. Giving up on things before you see them through to the end will not bring you success or happiness. You need to learn to persevere with things because this is the only way you will discover what you want from life.To find true fulfillment, you should settle on a goal and see it through to the end. If you cannot slow down your shocking pace, you may eventually wear yourself out, losing your unique and unusual energy.

    From your late teens unto the age of forty-six, you will tend to place an emphasis on security and stability - during these years, your dedication and enthusiasm are likely to have a positive influence on everyone you meet or work with. After the age of forty-seven, you will become interested in new learning and communication; it is important during these years that you establish your financial security before exploring any new interests. At any time of your life, however, remind yourself often that you can achieve anything you want to.

    2015 for you 2015 for you is all about delving inward. While you may see yourself functioning fairly “normally,” this is a year where you’ll be heavily involved in deep inner work. It’s a spiritual year - meaning you’ll have many opportunities to assess your sense of spirituality, however you define it. This is a year where your faith and trust will be tested. You’ll feel as though you want to retreat from the static of the outside world. You’ll feel more quiet and introspective than usual, so don’t let that surprise you. This is a year of introspection and reflection, a time to analyze your thoughts and actions, and pursue studies of an intellectual or metaphysical nature that interest you. During this year, you will want to explore life's deeper truths, either looking into philosophical matters or studying natural sciences. You will find yourself better able to solve problems, and come to a greater awareness of your full potential. Let things come to you in 2015, as this is a year when big thoughts and ideas can materialize. It is a good year to carry out plans that don't require involvement from others, and a year to guard your personal "alone" time, so as to avoid feeling irritable. A time to get "centered", you may find that at times during this year you feel lonely and left out. The main lesson is to learn to be alone without being lonely, to enjoy your own company. By the end of this year, you will likely be in a position to handle life with greater insight and efficiency. Your mission in 2015 is to explore the true nature of your personal power, your relationship with money, and your true desires about manifesting in the material world. Do the groundwork that you can put into action next year, which will be terrific for getting ahead in work, career or study and all money and material matters.



  • Thanks so much for the reading. It's given me a lot to think about x