Captain! :)

  • Captain..

    You come highly recommended! Please may I have a reading I am going through a time of struggle. I'd like to know what my life purpose is and if you can look into my love life too. Thank you!!

    Prathna ( 4th November 1991 )

  • Prathna92, you are here in this lifetime to make a commitment to your unusual thinking or way of doing things by articulating it and bringing it to the attention of a broader audience. Highly observant, you have a unique talent for seeing things in a different way, and your resulting opinions and insights are always original. Often your singular viewpoints are brilliant, but you may keep your quirkier observations and thoughts to yourself for fear of being viewed as strange or different. There will be struggle but, if you can learn to be more secure in your approach and make a commitment to doing things your way, you will be propelled to the heights of career and personal success. With patience and determination, you will achieve the recognition you so sorely desire. Your core lesson is to overcome the fear of rejection or humiliation and lose any attraction to the darker side of life. Your goal is to dare to be different, using your gift of a magnetic, exciting and supportive personality to achieve success and happiness.

    Your challenge in life is being less provocative. The way to deal with it is to understand that being controversial is not the only way to make people notice or remember you. When you are self-deprecating or humble, you bring people closer to you and make them more likely to want to help you, because you are admitting you have the same fears as everyone else.

    Although you can sometimes come across as conformist and sincere, as soon as you start interacting with others, your provocative nature shines through. You have a talent for uncovering hidden weaknesses and insecurities in people and situations, and for luring everyone you meet into your tangled web of controversy and excitement. You are an extremely persuasive individual and, in your mind, you know that you have the ability to win over almost anyone to your point of view. This is not to say you are manipulative. Quite the opposite; you are principled and honest. It is just that it is almost impossible for you to believe there are any alternatives to the truth as you see it. Above all, you are an 'ice breaker' wherever you find yourself. You make full use of the element of surprise and are somehow able to articulate what is unspoken or unacceptable in the most humorous or convincing way, so that others are lured into either agreeing with you or at least reviewing their own position. Unfortunately, however, your shock tactics can work against you. You may, for example, find that the situations you have stirred up have gotten out of hand or the views you are expressing have truly overwhelmed or offended someone.

    Until the age of eighteen, you may have come across as shy or intense. After the age of nineteen, however, that state would have slowly receded to be replaced by a growing need for freedom and the desire to expand your horizons through study, education or travel. After the age of forty-eight, there will be another turning point in your life when the emphasis will turn to financial and emotional security. Whatever age you are, however, the key to your success is to use your common sense and become more aware of the way your stance toward life is affecting others and, ultimately, yourself. When greater self-awareness and self-discipline is combined with your intuitive perception and natural leadership qualities, you will be capable of achieving not controversial or shocking but truly spectacular results in life.

    Love: you can be quick to throw yourself into social situations that can maximize your chances of attracting admirers and potential partners. Once you learn to love yourself for who you are and overcome hurts from your past, you will have the potential to attract and hold on to your ideal partner - someone inventive and intelligent like yourself. Your standards however can be so high that they are hard to live up to. Either you are judging everyone by these standards or you're setting an almost impossible example as you strive to be perfect. You may have trouble expressing or even knowing how you really feel because you have learned to focus on the 'best way' to feel and then to wear that mask. You need to tune into your authentic feelings and needs. You may have trouble with long-term relationships or making commitments, especially when you are focusing on trying to find the 'perfect' relationship. Or else you may start out by projecting your idealized romantic image onto another person and then feel disappointed or even deceived when they turn out to be only human after all. You may even set out to improve that person whether they want it or not. You need to become much more flexible in relationships. Focus more on expressing your own needs rather than 'being good' or pleasing your partner. Being in control of yourself is not as important as letting go and enjoying yourself. Yet relationships may never be the greatest priority in your life - your work/career may always be more important to you.

    What you really want to find is not so much a person but an environment in which to feel safe, protected, cared for, and doted on - a place where you feel you truly belong. To achieve this, you must be willing to let go of the idea that one special person - or group of people - is going to provide it just because you think you need it. Instead, you must take charge of creating what you need for yourself. By pursuing a goal or work that energises you, or by finding an ideal or set of principles that builds your self-respect, you will develop feelings of belonging in whatever circumstances you find yourself. You need to find a focus beyond your scattered emotional needs and those of the people around you. When you bring yourself into alignment with a higher principle or spiritual belief, you will feel protected and nurtured. Your Achilles' Heel is dependence. The desire to be taken care of ("If there's no one to take care of me, I won't survive") can lead you into the trap of an unending search for security, where you develop emotional dependencies on others. But you can never get enough reassurance from others to feel safe, so you never gain the security you think you need to be a capable adult and take charge of your life. Run the risk and assume full responsibility for the consequences. Take charge of your own life and security, and create what you need for yourself. Once you take responsibility for yourself and find a goal that's important to you and stand by it, you feel secure and in control of your own destiny.

    Health: you need to be aware of the powerful link between your physical and emotional or mental health. When you are feeling run down or have succumbed to a bout of illness, the chances are a period of stress, uncertainty or unhappiness was the trigger. Although a certain amount of illness keeps your immune system in working order, if you find you are lurching from one infection or virus to another, you need to take a long hard look at your life and relationships to see where the weakness might lie. It is important to ensure you schedule into your busy diary plenty of time for rest and relaxation. As far as diet is concerned, the fresher and more natural your food the better; you could have digestive upsets if you eat food too rich in additives and preservatives. Regular exercise, in particular long walks in the park or countryside, is highly recommended to help you gain a sense of balance and perspective. Wearing, meditating on and surrounding yourself with the colour green will help bring greater harmony and hope.

    Career: you are a born social reformer. You need to be in a career where you can reach the widest possible audience, so you may be drawn to acting, writing, journalism, and performing, or even politics and social reform. Other career options that might appeal include business, commerce, medicine, psychology, education, and the worlds of religion or philosophy.

    Your life's goal is to learn to take a more neutral, balanced perspective. Once you are able to tone down your enthusiasm to a level that supports but does not offend others, your destiny is to effectively present your viewpoints to instigate reform.

    2014 for you is all about hard work and focus. Your thoughts and energy need to be directed to career opportunities, business, work, and security. This is a year to build a foundation, make important connections, keep your nose to the grindstone, and save your money. Expansion now will be slow but positive. Try not to feel too restricted. This is an opportunity to consolidate and retrench, as your life will become very active and expansive in 2015. Build firm friendships and strive toward balance in family relationships. This is a good year for engagement and marriage, a good year to follow a routine, pay off debts, start a diet or exercise routine, or quit smoking. In other words, you are well advised to get your house in order in terms of relationships, body, mind, and spirit. It is possible that long awaited opportunities will come your way before the end of this year.

    2015 for you will focus on freedom and adventure: This can be a time of upheaval in your life and it is possible that more than one crisis will unfold for you at this time. Always remember that the Chinese alphabet characters for crisis are actually change + opportunity. Not all change needs to bring distress, and it is also just as likely that there may be very pleasant surprises and opportunities in store for you at this time. To reap the benefit of these opportunities, you will need to remain positive and optimistic in your outlook. Read about the Law of Attraction as 2015, of all years, is a time when it can work very well for you. This will be a time of liberty and expansiveness, and it is possible that you will find yourself driven by a desire to break free from your usual routine, delve into unknown areas, and reconstruct your life in a way that feels more authentic to you. This will be a time for taking action, expressing yourself (particularly through writing), and finding new people, new places and new situations.The main problem with the year will be a tendency to scatter your energies in all directions. Your ability to do detail work will be limited and it may make you feel very confined. In all, however, this should be a free-wheeling year that is liable to bring major changes to your life; your career, your family situation, or your residence.

  • Thank you Captain, very helpful and accurate.

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