Would Like A Reading, Please
Hi! I'm not sure whether I've requested a reading on this or not, but I don't think another would hurt. I ran into a situation with one of my professors at school. I was wondering whether or not things will get better between us when I go back. Am I better off avoiding him? He has a tendency to put me down and make rude comments about me behind my back. It seems to be worse when he's under stress. And when he's confronted, he denies everything. I just want to make sure I do the right thing and don't put myself into a bad situattion. Also, what will happen if I talk to the dean about what happened? Will he finally stop or will it get worse? I've been getting conflicting advice on this. Thanks!
I am a clairvoyant reader that comes to this site when I have some time to give.
I feel he has his own issues to deal with and he feels inaduquate in some areas of his field or career. I also receive that you speak up and out to him making him feel more inferior at times and anger sets in and you are there to release some on.
Suggestions I received for you is to right now at this point turn the other cheek and even take him an apple , as I feel he needs some reassurence and could really use a friend, not that you feel it needs to be you. Show him the respect he feels he needs and he will show the same in return.
Thank you very much for sharing your time and abilities, Shuabby. It surprises me that he would need a friend because he seems very popular. But, now that I think about it, he seems like he might have a lot of shallow relationships in his life. I think the way I've handled some of the issues with him hasn't helped things. With me, anger tends to build up and it takes time before I can deal with it and express how I feel. So, when I speak up it can sound very harsh.