I'm Unsure if I should Take the Leap and Tell Him?

  • Hello everyone!

    I am hoping someone with an 'energy sense' can help me with this question. I understand the 'piratical' wisdom of the situation but I guess what I'm seeking is 'insurance' that I'm doing the right thing.

    I'm a transgender woman with no intentions of getting bottom surgery, and so far me and this guy are starting to hit it off really well. It's just starting to go from friendly to flirty, though on his part as I'm trying to not lead him on through flirtation. I have been playing it off and keeping it platonic though that'll only work for so long...

    Point is...does anyone know or have a strong feeling of what will happen if I tell him?

    Thank you.


  • Shock, even anger. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't tell him. You should be honest or anything that you build between the two of you in the meantime is on a faulty foundation.

  • I told him last night and it went really well...I was very surprised. We might have even become closer because of it. Thank you Watergirl for you insight 😃

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