Advice on a cancer man



  • Hello everyone,

    The dreaded cancer question....

    I've known this cancer guy for about a 9 months, we have been intimate, but I find him really hot and cold. I just want to get to know him on a deeper level, in a friendship sense, but he just seems to close down and disappear whenever I do.

    It's a nightmare cause I'm quite a guarded person so when he keeps being so hot and cold I find it difficult to just relax, be myself and be open with him, so I just come across as being really awkward.

    What is the best way to show him that I he can trust me? And to show him that I really do care about him as a friend.

    I'm a gemini by the way.

    Thank you x



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