Did a reading for a friend, insight?
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Hi!
Me and my best friend are in a similar situatiion with two brothers, she asked me for help when I told her I sometimes use tarot cards, but I need a second or third opionion on this because I feel as if there is something I am missing. Astra did a crossed celtic cross reading for me so I took some of those questions and added some of my own
I first started out with pairing up the arcanas one by one, major by itself and minor by itself and putting them into order: wands, cups, swords, pentacles and major arcana on top before mixing them. I shuffle between every question.
What do u guys think about my friend and the guy?
Situation and crossing card -
Him: hanged man- king sword
Her : 6 wands-king wands
To me the hanged man is about seeing something in a different way, the king is a powerful man with a lot of power and demands, he is used to be obeyed
6 wands to me means good news and triumph, king wands is someone who is smart and gives good advices
Together: wheel of fortune
Things that are destined, sometimes good news, the wheel goes round and round
Above / below:
Him: 4 sword/the world
Her: 3 pentacles/9 wands
4 sword: empty bed, problems in the lovelife, being alone, retreat the world: a travel and changes of location
3 pentacles: knowing and things that are appreciated, 9 wands problems to solve, an attack, to gather up strenght
Together: 5 sword/9 wands
5 swords: criminal actions, loss, ruin, 9 wands- problems to solve, an attack, to gather up strenght
Past / Ahead:
Him chariot/king cups
Her 10 sword/knight pentacles
Chariot, two horses which I think represents him and his brother wanting to go different ways, however they can´t because they are joined together through the chariot
King cups, someone who is sensitive and nice, as long as you behave
10 sword to me is abandoned, loss, tears, hurt, depression, knight pentacles hard work, someone you can trust
Together: 6 pentacles/9 wands
6 pentacles: gifts, a happy time 9 wands problems to solve, an attack, to gather up strength
Future environment:
Him: temperance
To adjust and save things, to retreat
Her: Justice
Triumph of justice, control, truth
Together: Knight wands
To go away or stay away, sometimes changes of how to live
Outer Influences:
Him: 4 wands
Her: page wands
4 wands: happiness, unexpected luck
Page wands good news, a loyal lover
Together: knight sword- a knight with his sword high up ready to fight in full speed
Hopes and Dreams:
Him: 2 sword/page sword
2 sword agreement/ page sword to be let down, spies, a fake person
Her: 7 pentacles/ ace sword
7 pentacles loss of patience, ace sword exaggerated of all, the triumph of will
Together
9 pentacles/the lovers
Something goes right, success, Lovers: difficult decisions, love and attraction to make a choice
Outcome:
Him 10 sword
To be abandoned, pain, sorrow, tears
Her 2 pentacles
Obstacles and pain, re-creation and news
Together
4 sword
empty bed, problems in the lovelife, being alone, retreat the world: a travel and changes of location
Are their Path combined?
5 wands- some kind of struggle
king cups a sensitive man, a questioner
king pentacles material safety, someone responsible
ace wands birth and heritage
2 pentacles Obstacles and pain, re-creation and news
the sun I was once told this means marriage, positivness, everything that is good
ace pentacles a great possibility, changes economicly
Changes coming up
Him: wheel of fortune
Things that are destined, sometimes good news, the wheel goes round and round
Her: the hermit
Isolation, disapointment
Together:
the tower unexpected disaster
king pentacles material safety, someone responsible
king cups a sensitive man, a questioner
ace cups true love
Where are they heading?
Him the magician
Selfconfidence, being smart
Her the world
Traveling, being selfconfident, changes
Together
4 sword
empty bed, problems in the lovelife, being alone, retreat the world: a travel and changes of location
the hermit
Isolation, disapointment
10 cups
Love fullfilled
the moon
Enemies in the dark, being accused on false basics
the hanged man
To me the hanged man is about seeing something in a different way,
If my friend wants him, what must be done?
8 cups
To leave the past behind, a difficult decision
king swords
decisions that are final, someone who has a lot of power
knight wands
To go away or stay away, sometimes changes of how to live
Is he the “one” for my friend?
The hermit
Isolation, disapointment
8 wands
Acitivty and speed, great hope, happy ending, communication, messages over distance, actions and decisions that are quick
8 pentacles
Success due to hard work
3 pentacles
Knowing and rewards
Should she let go?
King cups a sensitive man, a questioner
knight pentacles
a responsible person, hard work
2 swords
Some kind of agreement
8 cups
To leave the past behind, a difficult decision
Why is the other girl in the picture?
5 pentacles
Being poor, material loss
the tower
some kind of ruin, unexpected disaster, loss, something fell apart(I know he started to date her after ending a 2 year long relationship with the girl he and everyone thought he was gonna be with for life)
the devil
something that is destined
4 pentacles
Safe assessments and gifts
the sun
marriage, positivness, everything that is good
wheel of fortune
Things that are destined, sometimes good news, the wheel goes round and round
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rockofages
I thought your reading was very detailed and shows a lot of insight on your part. I am having a little trouble understanding exactly what the situation/concern is, however that could be just me.
What did your friend gain from it?
I tend to see the cards a little differently, however we all have our opinion of such things. 5's I tend to see simply as changes (hopefully for the better) for example. However I thought all of your comments on the cards were very well articulated. Plus you show a very structured way of approaching the reading which is excellent.
I think its great!
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But what should I tell me friend, should I tell her the reading told her they are not a good match or to keep on fighting for him? It seems more to me he is destined to be with the other girl, however I can be wrong because the sun and wheel of fortune came up for my friend and her guy aswell...gaah