Trouble Cancer Man
Wow dear those guys mean big trouble.....no messing around hey ahahah
I just met a cancer guy last December at my gym as soon i passed the door he was right at my face , full on me
But as soon i show him i was interested to know him, he started to be cold, not replying, just weird
responding to txt in one little ligne or most the time not reponding at all
He asked me to meet up but as soon i say yes he change straight his mind
That went on 4 times before i put the guy in his place and told him i felt he was messing me about and i am not going to stand up for it
He then stop contacting me at all but i kept contacting him about flat and rooms as he said his looking for a place as his ex cheated on him.
I wasted my time and my friend time to trying to get him a place as he said it was urgent
Each times i sent him the details of something he never respond or show little interest on what i was sending to him
It's only when i asked him if he was interested to find a place that he told me know, so selfish
I started to feel very unconfortable at my gym because of the whole thing and because i didnt know what he want and why he was so friendly at the start with me but now he is so cold
I told him right at his face by txt that i find him immature full of s.h.i..t and that he can get you knocking when his around but when his not with you you really wonder if you met this person at all
I told him clearly that i liked him but i felt in this time of my life i was not ineterested to just like someone
i needed someone that liked me too and show and return my affection thing that he couldnt do at all
Whatever he seem like when i met him that is[ responsible, mature, loving, caring and looking for help and love] was not what i find with the real him later
I told him i pulling away as this is not working for me and i also told him i met someone else that is very nice
He then went to his FB and put that his now in relationship ahahah
I txt him and congradulate him on his relationship and new love and i was happy for him
He didnt reply to me
I was going to stop to go to my gym but really after reading everything [That sound perfectly like him] i feel so lucky i didnt get involved OH MY GOD, serious problem hey.
I am going to keep going to my GYM and Smile and do my life, i didnt do anything wrong.
And i dont care about him i dont know him ever
To all the ladies out there, think about it, this kind behaviour from this kind man doesnt and cant possibly make you feel loved as it;s very painful for sure.
The mind games oh dear, the insult
You may stay because you remember the bite of romance at the start but really is it really worth it
I was a bite bother when i told that guy i didnt want to be involved with him
i felt Old as his 21 years and i am 35 but i was well i prefer be with myself and wait for someone i have a greta connection with then feeling S.H.I..,T inside with someone
This guy goes around the gym and in 15 minutes tells you all his misery from his ex cheating on him to him been kicked out on street by both his parents and exposing his hard life
I mean COME ON thats is not normal the guy been praticing before, he goes around and target anyone that is new to the gym, i mean girls
He said he was looking for a place i think he wanted a free room to exchange with S..E..X
I offered him a room in my house as i am landlord but in exchange of deposit and a rent, i dont think he liked this much ahahah
But yeah fall in love but try to open your eyes to what is happening
If someone treat you badly is because in way you let them do that to you
That person will never change because HEY? what would they, it doesnt bother them
Cancer man seem to look and behave at the start like sweetheart and wonderful people looking ONLY for love but boy as soon you try to get close and give them your love and try to meet somehow in middle to get they love too
The trip fall short
It's very easy for anyone to take then to give
Thats no surprise of life and no breaking news ever
And that things goes well at the start well thats not big surprise ever it;s what happen later that matter
Any feedback or comment go for it:)
As we didnt even date this should be the end of this story right, i mean it seem i will never hear from him again
what everyone think?
Hello star2U - It's been awhile, seems like your doing good. Question for you though, have you ever wondered why you attract married or involved men? interesting to say the least....
ON record.,, this is not a zodiac sign typical behavior. BUT it IS a cheating mans way. If it aint a gym, office, local club, country golf club, or where ever.
men like this will use whatever line to get that itch scratched. no intention to leave the mrs. its all a ruse to oh do feel sorry 4 me n aid me to itch that itch. it has no hold. n the find of new abode, hello small hole cave to bring more cheats to have fun with.
Above all its not a useal cancerian way, but a cheaters way. letrs face it women cheat as well as men. n they use the same lame lies like my partner doesnt get me, my partner n i dont see eye to eye, my partner n i r seperate we´ll divorce soon n so on n so forth.
Sad to say its one of the OLDEST n MOST used lines n tricks cheaters use, REGARDLESS of their gender n zodiac signs.
In end what i am saying is, this is not zodiac sign culprit, but cheaters culprit.
So my advice, move on, cut him loose, block delete n if u meet him again let him know ure on to his cheating eff
I never met any married men be involved with one ever
Involved is not the word, immature it is
i think we all meet one in our life
whatever it is meeting them have push me to look more at myself and to find out more about who i am and what i want and dont want in my life
i am changing with myself and it help me a lot i still meeting those guys but turn away from them quicker then before but yes working a looking at your own self help
judging him or anyone doesnt help
even judging yourself, we are only human trying to do our best with what we know
I agree with you but it's so weird so many site on the net speak of the same trait about cancerian man
how things start with them are all the same [look like ] for everyone
the person hit off well at the very start then behave in way you don't know what you did or what happen
I have told him straight this was not what i am after very quickly and cut him off deleted and blocked all his contact
I still do to the gym and when i go i surround myself of male friends around me and laugh with them
this seem to bothering a lot
He came to me trying to speak and be friendly
I told him i was sorry but i do not believe is a nice person and anyway i don't feel comfortable to communicate or be in contact with him anymore
so i am here just to work out at my gym so will appreciate if i can be left alone to do just that and not getting drama by him his staff and i am a customer that's it
I brought my Gemini aqua attitude to be cold and aloof right on board and just ignore the guy his bad news
He should leave me alone now
I been working on myself now for 1 year, and been single for 1 year, i was in therapy, group help and just do things that makes me happy like training, course and new activities
I do not feel the need to have a partner as very essential and these days if i meet someone like that Cancer man and he behave in way that make me feel unsafe or not loved
I communicated to try to get a better outcome but if i communicate and he simply ignore me i just drop him as i dont think ignoring people you care about his respectful or loving
its a kind violence in way
its a silence pain
Not all his perfect but at lease i have peace with myself and joy in small things
What help is to be aware what you want in relationship and learn about your boundaries and be awake
Beware of the charm attitude lucky you at least not to long to recognized that kind of bad behavior,
While me more than 4 yrs and I'm totally wrecked cos I was used and abused by the dog who is a gold digger and material things and money is all gone and yet he has an upper hand to press charges to me the bastard we will melt down show I will finalize my court case this coming 18th of this month I'm sick of the stupid mind games and manipulating mind tripping and he was gonna be so shock once he receive the notice I got all the proof and my legal council telling my stand material things is not recovery cos its a give but the money transfer and verbal agreement and SMS and my diary is enough to pay me Off... They are pain and burden poor thing to them they never know what is affection and attention I wonder why it's on his front what he really needs all his life but still asking for more and getting greedy, good luck to him
Keep up with the leave me alone im over u attitude. sooner or later will he try n swoon someone else who may or may not be swooned by his actions.
Hi annielan, seem like you going through a hard time but seem to have realise who is this person.
Yes, wit that cancerian man we didnt date as he wanted to move fast on me by dropping to my place late and i told him this is not what i am after
After this he go quiet and made another attend and when i say yes to meet up he straight said he had something else to do
after the second time pulling that card on me i told him straight up i felt he was messing me about and i didnt like it and better we stop the flirting and stay just friend from gym
I noticed at the start how much he looked like a victim and looked hurt and only wanted to be loved
he gave the perfect card of the guy that want to take care of you , he said many times he paid everything for his ex that cheated on him
when i find out his been telling every girls around the same story i realise this is not normal and this guy is after something for himself
I was right
he told me he was looking for a place i tried to help him with one but he never really took time to show interest in them
then i offer he moved to mine as i felt so sorry for him to have such tough childhood
he said that will be better for him
I am a landlord and if you move to mine you need to be rent and deposit
he changed his face when i mentioned this to him he thought it's was going to be free
soon he told me he had a comfortable place now and not in rush
what happen he got one the girl at the gym to give him free place to be her man and she has a car
last time i saw him his eyes was more on the car then her
and he still give me eyes at the gym, whatever move i do he follow me
it's so sad
i use to find him attractive now i just see nothing of this guy at all
he remind me of monkey with muscle thats it
yes his after material gain and security and love his something his very afraid of
it seem his open book when you meet him and his such perfect and nice guy that just want to settle
but this image wont last as the real him will come out very soon and you get the cold from his behavior and don't know where you stand with him or what you did wrong to get ignored and rejected in way
the more affection you want to give the more cold you get
the best is to walk away
Actually i will say with any man that behave this way you need to be ready to drop it and love yourself
but a lot ladies prefer to lose themself for what they think is love
they stop thinking
If they take the time to look inside themselves to realize they feel about his doing they will know they are not happy or getting what they deserve or receiving a loving response from their partner but most women prefer to excuse their partner bad behavior
Yeah that attitude is already in me naturally , you can imagine as been an aqua woman
and my flirting side my Gemini ascendant got some lesson to teach that CRAB about flirting and charm
yeah he was depressed
agitate and seating sad ahahah
i was wondering what the difference between the crab and Gemini , both are charmer but crab have serious issues with low self esteem
you can break him with a look ahah
I am enjoying myself
what i noticed this week about him despite we never dated or kissed or anything his behaving like i am his property what i speak to another guy
i find this so strange
Be careful bc not ALL cancermales are like that. AGAIN i mark n underline powerfully that AGAIN this behaviour is NOT zodiacsigned specifically to any given zodiac sign. EFF he could b a scorpio, an aries, a capricorn, a virgo a libra a pisces or a leo , whichever, this cheating behaviors is NOT a specific zodiacsign trait. its a PERSONALITY Trait.
I say it again n time agAIN bc too often when a certain sign has been a jerk toward us we automatically THROW ALL of them out with the bathwater. we label n box them in.
what happens if the next say 5 guys are all of different zodiac sign n they all are jerks in many ways ? are ya gonna eliminate those zodiacsigns also?
just cause one apple is rotten do u toss the entire barrel out?
ladies ladies ...............................
This is is not what i said i cant speak for all zodiac out there all i said is i noticed many people reporting similar experience withe mine and i find this interesting
its is n its a fluke they r all cancermales. All imsaying is its a fluke. N that we shouldnt box em in., next we´ll hear we´re shrews, ´banshees, hyssterics bimbos with no brain n big boobs
non of us like that now do we?
i guess a reason y cancermen seem to b the one complained about most is proilly bc they are easy to get to fold. the other may b better at it. dunno juss wondering hahaahahahaha
Star2u - towards your last comment.
It is because it's easier to find alliance by giving the "problem" a recognizable name. In this case the zodiac sign.
i dont know man this is my first cancer i met all i am saying is i been looking around the web and spoke to people that dated those people and amazingly they all had similar experience thats all
in end the day we all have the right to our opinion about it
base on the experience i just had and what i read about those cancer man well shocking how similar they are i find this so amazing sometimes about zodiac of any sign
i am very thankful of the people out there that share their experience as sometimes you realise it's a waste of time or some people has some pattern
i dont say they all like this but when you read one post after another online from people all over the world the phenomenal is quiet amazing
i most stress out my decision to leave this guy is not base on his star sign but his behavior toward me
never mind his sign it;s not acceptable
FINALLY!!!!!!!!!!!! The dime FELL!! WOOOHJOOOOO that was my point ALL ALONG: never mind his sign BUT THE BEHAVIOR NO NO NOT OK BY A MILE NO WAY!!!! WOOOHOOOO
i KNEW somewhere we all agree on the same thing LOL
ahahahahah we as long we get along hey:)
yeah the behaviour forget it my friend and i am not even sure his out my life baby but hey i get behaviour too to share like everyone else ahahaha