Captain, your thought please?
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Hi Captain,
I recently met this guy on a dating website. He told me that he has cancer and is going to die soon, that he decided to go home and die in peace. It's weird that someone would approach me with this kind of story. he told me he would like to talk to me and have something important to share with me. he said he has nobody by his side now. I dont know if I can trust him? If he's telling the truth, and really looking for someone to talk to, I dont mind. In fact, I am more than happy to do so! Just wanted to make sure I am not being fooled here. What you think, Captain? Shall I proceed? Thanks.
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I'm sorry, but that is a common scam. After you become friends, he would ask for money for an operation to save his life. Don't be sucked in. It's all a lie.
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Thanks for the reply, Captain. I am glad I asked
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Hi Captain, I have another question if you don't mind - i have this friend I met a couple months ago. It's nice talking to her as she appears to be quite wise and fun. But recently I started to question her attention being my friend. I just dont think shes being soncere as a friend. Am I wrong? Shall I pull away from her? Or shall I continue being friends with her?
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Follow your gut instincts. You sense she is more into herself than anyone else.
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Captain - I have a new question if you don't mind.
I have been trying to talk to this woman for a few days. The only way I can reach her is to send her an email. The first email went through and she responded, but after that, she never responded. I sent her emails twice after. My friend is also have the same prob with her. We are wondering if our emails went to the Spam folder? Or did she ignore them? Thanks Captain.
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She doesn't exactly ignore them but they don't seem very important to her, so she doesn't give the replies a top priority if she has other email to answer.
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Thanks Captain. I will simply wait and see. Won't bother her too much.
Having another question if that's okay? - is he logging on to see if I were there doing online dating(like a stalker) or is he looking for a new girl for himself?
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Who is'he'?
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My boyfriend? Or shall I call him my ex? Probably better
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He is doing both. Not stalking you, but his ego wants to know how soon you get over him.
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What u mean by how soon get over him? Does that mean he would take it as a sign that I get over him by starting online dating again? I already told him not to contact me anymore... Although he didnt respond. Thanks Captain.
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"Does that mean he would take it as a sign that I get over him by starting online dating again?"
Yes.
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Thanks Captain
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Wondering if he will contact me soon?
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And has he gotten over me yet?
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Is this the guy who said he has cancer, or another guy?
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Another guy. That I dated for several months
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Well, he wonders if you are seeing anyone but he wouldn't contact you if he thinks you are seeing other guys. Which is why he checks the dating websites.
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Thanks captain. Pretty interesting. Am on that site but am not using my real pic and I'm not actively looking for anyone... How abt him? Is he seeing anyone now?