Shaubby need reading please
My stepdaughters (Heather-6-30-77) husband (Richard -3-18-? supposively
43 years old) left her 8 months ago. She is not working. Financially he still
support his family.He has his own place and he visits his kids regularly but
only communicate with her when its about the kids and expenses.
Even after what he did he still provides for them. We dont know his plans. He doesnot
like to talk to any of my stepdaughters family. My husband tried calling him twice
he never returned his calls. I just told my husband to leave him be we are only hearing one side
of the story.
They have a 3 year old girl and a 4 month old baby. We are all
in limbo. My husband asked his daughter what her plans are. She said she is
not going to do anything until he decides what he wants to do??????
So we are all lost. Is he going to divorce her? If so when? She is just waiting for him
to make a move. My husband told his daughter to make a decision cause this is not
a life for her to continue on like this. Its nice he is providing for them but we dont know
how long he is going to do this.
I just listen to them I dont say any of my opinions to them.
Thank you so much for your help & many blessings
You are a wise woman to stay in the background and not make judgements.
I feel that your husband daughter knows why her husband left her and that is why she is waiting now for him to come back. Eight months of his being gone is telling that he does not want to come back home unless there are some agreements that she can make with him.
I feel he does not want anymore children. He likes his life on his own without the pressure of a family and a wife in which communications feel difficult.
Unless she and him can go to marriage counseling I don't feel that they will reunite.
Thank you so much for your help. My sense tells me he is not going to come back
but I needed a second opinion. Of course this is my secret alone.
I know my stepdaughter. She is a very stubborn person and always wants to get her way.
When I found out that Richard who has never been married before and is going to marry my stepdaughter
honestly I said to myself what a big mistake he has made.
I feel sorry for him. Of course I didnot tell
my husband this.He always thinks his daughter does no wrong. Well my feeling was right then.
THANKS AGAIN AND MANY BLESSINGS