All Things Gemini
LibraLibra rising.....If girls are with him in strip bars....it's only because he spends alot of money. I'm sure there's nothing serious besides his wallet. Personally, if your that sensitive...why do you put up with that? there should be no reason why he's there in the first place if he loves you. Might be time to leave him with his girls in the strip club.
I am also a Gemini, but i think you are wrong about Scorpios.
They are not evil or conniving, just very very in control of themselves and their environment.
I know this because my ex husband, best friend and current husband are Scorpio.
It is not easy being attracted to Scorpios when I am Gemini, I have learned to accept and give total honesty. and I mean TOTAL ..........it can sometimes seem painful until you realize that one must be able to accept what one dishes so easily. As one of the Twins I give total honesty, which means I have loads of acquaintences and few close freinds. Scorpios are not our enemies, they are just hard for us to get along with sometimes and equally as stubborn as we can be. The good ones appreciate our spontenaity even if it does scare them and put up with our chattiness because they find us upbeat and very very interesting. .....................after all how long can a Gemini be bored????...............only as long as it takes to find something else interesting.
Gemini woman here, I have a question.
I was born May 30th, and I also have a very hard time getting along with other women.
why is it that we cannot get along even with other Geminis?
I am not catty or jealous or have low self esteem, I love fun and am very flexible when it comes to when I can see my best friend as she has a very busy family and job. I just seem to have my ideas ignored, she then turns and does what I am dying to do with a friend, with other people.
She is my best friend and we are there for each other no matter what when we really need someone to talk to , however, any idea I came up with is overwritten, ignored, has the plans changed or I find out she did the exact same thing with someone else.
She says I need to realize she can have other interests and friends blah blah but doesn' t seem to understand I NEED to do the activities I keep trying to do and not just be the friend who understands and has plans cancelled and babysits at the last moment so she can go out and do things with other people.
What am I supposed to do to get her to let me pick some of our activities, get her to stop cancelling and do anything other than sit around in her or my vehicle and smoke and talk when SHE has time. I feel like she knows I need time with her and takes advantage of it . No one else has ever treated me this way and gotten away with it but she is my only close female friend and I fear it is her way or the highway. HELP
Here is a Taurus who would like to help (or would like to try!). Geminis actually get along with other Geminis, it's just that there can be a lot of conflict. No Gemini is the same as any other Gemini. Each Gemini is original and unique in their own way. When you put two Geminis together and want them to compromise, it is unlikely that they will agree on the same things. This is what a Gemini friendship needs to reach in order to become a dynamic Gemini relationship: compromise! So both of you bring something new and original to the table, which is good, but try to combine your ideas so that the outcome is something you both agree on, and something even newer and original. GIve yourself some time to think about this. Fleety-foot Geminis need to take a breather every once in a while. A change is as good as a rest!
Im sorry i have to disagree because i'm a gemini(June 17,?) and i and a couple of other gemini people i know(Boy friend ) we have very split personalities .
That's a lie those are very conniving and evil peole they use sex and lust to get what they want . As sick as this may sound this is true.
i agree with that because im a gemini female and i used to date a gemini male and we would always get in a convertation , he was so jelous and so unsure of him self it got on my nervse so bad , not to mention he was a siko but it's ok cause so am i , LOL
I don't get what you're saying, could you be a little bit more clear?
And wait, were you insulting Taureans or Geminis when it comes to getting what they want?
I am a Gemini, born June 12. I am actually quite less chatty than most Gemini, but there are always those times when I can ramble for hours. Otherwise, I'd say that I fit the bill for a typical Gemini. And I think that my method of communication is actually a very accurate example of the duality that epitomizes Gemini.
I have this theory that we Gemini are a collective consciousness and that we just trade off feelings and personalities as the day progresses. We are consistently inconsistent.
Hello i am a gemini, proudly the week of the seeker and i have a grand mother and sister who are may 25 and even step kids June 10 is a son I raised since 8 who graduates. I say we are twins because we want to goof off and enjoy life and give and then we see ppl are mean and take and dont care or return the love and we flip on them and throw all their faults in their face to defend our hurt of their taking advantage. That sum my last 10 years up lol.
Seriously i have an awsome advantage with a personology book published by readersdigest.
All the weeks of gemini are way different. The first week is cunning and manipulative, out of need often more than spite. My sister and grandmother are born on the same day the year of the dragon. I help both often and get more stuff stired in my sibling life< i have too many esspecially since im older and my mom moved away> It can feel very stressed. My son is the second week, very laid back we never had any problem until i needed him to do something he didn't want to do and then it was on. I am third week, and i love to learn and i love so much about life i love to travel and i am an emotion basket case and cannot help it. Most of my attitude that is aggressive is to protect my self from getting hurt and i have yet to meet any one in the fourth week. I think that all this is really only a fraction of anyone no matter how iroic. I have met a few week of the seekers and we don't really get along. It seems each seek his or her own thing and I have strayed from the social desires ive seen in my fellow third weekers. I had issues with being were the action is when I was younger and now I just want to raise my boys and find my calling to life being with a man who prefers me to work at home. I think I know quite abit about geminis and I could offer good well thought out opionions or share from my book.
Geminis are kool. I am a Taurus, but I would've been a Gemini (June 6th) but I was born on April 29th. I do have some characteristics of a Gemini: Talkative, clever, easily bored, adaptable. Oh, and I have a twin.
Goofy girl RN,
I'd bet money he's cheating. Lots of it. Any cheater wants you to think he's misunderstood. Besides if he knows this behavior upsets his wife why doesn't he stop? If he can't stop going to strip clubs he could be a sex addict.
Faithful men do not exhibit that kind of behavior.
I used to be the bar manager of a strip club. It's fine if the guys come in once in a blue moon - literally! Or maybe he is the straight guy that drank too much and got dragged along into it. But regulars normally have a world of issues.
And as a good priest told my friend, when there is smoke there is fire. I'd lay money on it.
Just life experience.
"Gemini woman here, I have a question.
I was born May 30th, and I also have a very hard time getting along with other women.
why is it that we cannot get along even with other Geminis?"
Most women are very insecure and have been raised to be so. Many women compete with each other in the office or real life to see who is the most attractive and they get territorial about it. Hate to say it is so but it is true. On top of this irrational behavior about who is the prettiest trick in shoe leather - to quote Rhett Butler in GWTW - it plays right into the hands of male chauvinists who use the behavior to point out why women don't do well in the work place. It is used against us and many women refuse to do anything about it. Not your fault.
"I am not catty or jealous or have low self esteem, I love fun and am very flexible when it comes to when I can see my best friend as she has a very busy family and job.'
Just because you are not catty or jealous doesn't mean you friend isn't. You sound like you have all it takes to be one of those women hen-pecked. You're fun and flexible and probably a real scream to hang out with. You probably are really attractive and possess a great sense of humor. Very attractive qualities in a woman. But misery loves company and if your friend is any bit insecure she will pull the passive aggressive stuff she is exhibiting in the next bit of your post.
"I just seem to have my ideas ignored,"
Love does not hurt - even in friend ship.
"she then turns and does what I am dying to do with a friend, with other people."
Major passive aggressive behavior that is, YES! designed to hurt you for being what she is not. So she takes your fun ideas and goes off with other people that way you can't take the credit for coming up with something fun. She is trying to be like you because she envies you. Again, not your fault. It is her lack of imagination and pettiness. It happens a million times a day.
"She is my best friend and we are there for each other no matter what when we really need someone to talk to ,"
This is the carrot before the horse. She is there when you are down but not when you are up? Love doesn't hurt. You gotta share the good times and the bad.
"however, any idea I came up with is overwritten, ignored, has the plans changed or I find out she did the exact same thing with someone else."
Again you are probably a scream to hang out with. Men probably flock to you and that has her jealous too.
"She says I need to realize she can have other interests and friends blah blah..."
Oh brother. Drama queen. Well you need those things too and you're not getting them from her. Just what purpose does this friendship serve you? It would be different if she wasn't stealing your ideas and you were at home acting like a wall flower waiting for her. Which I hope your not. Don't tell her anymore ideas and go out and do them yourself.
"but doesn' t seem to understand I NEED to do the activities I keep trying to do and not just be the friend who understands and has plans cancelled and babysits at the last moment so she can go out and do things with other people."
Stop babysitting, take the time to find new friends, and go out and do the things you want to do. It's her kid, it's got a father, Daddy can watch the kid or she can cough up the dough for a sitter. You have your own life to leave and you're hanging on to maybe one day she will treat you like she used to. Go out and get a life again on your own without this leach.
"What am I supposed to do to get her to let me pick some of our activities, get her to stop cancelling and do anything other than sit around in her or my vehicle and smoke and talk when SHE has time. I feel like she knows I need time with her and takes advantage of it . No one else has ever treated me this way and gotten away with it but she is my only close female friend and I fear it is her way or the highway."
Many a good time has been had on the open road and many a good friend to be found. You can move on. Perhaps one day when she sanes up and sees how hurtful she's been but it ain't now. You don't deserve this.
I hope that advice does. Please take it.
I , too, was born June 12th. Interestingly, on my parents' anniversary. My father was 5/12 my grandfather 7/12. Both are very strong thoughtful men. I go through phases constantly of high and low energy cycles. I don't have strong family attachments. (I am not bipolar, just Gemini) People are always picking my brain to try and figure me out, you know, put me in a box to understand me.
I am an critical care nurse, which suits my personality to a tee. I get bored once I have mastered a job and like to move on. In the ER there is constant change and new learning experiences.
The people I work with are all very different. Lots of marital discord and drama. I don't share. I learned a long time ago to keep my personal life away from my job. It will always come back and bite a Gemini in the Butt.
Just a few random, Gemini thoughts.
I have sacrificed the love of my life 3 times over for a family for which I hold little regard. I have a son who is profoundly mentally retarded and a husband who is emotionally abusive. He holds my past over my head like a mallet. But for some reason I can't leave. I even bought a house and filed for divorce. I have never gone through with it.
Treebeard, are you out there? I am drowning.
hello gemini family i have a question and i hope there is someone who can answer it HAVE ANY GEMINI LADIES EVER DATED A PISCES MAN? if so could you tell me if you understood him,what was your relationship like?and/if you are still with him? same goes with a PISCES MAN ABOUT A GEMINI WOMAN? I need answers
I'm a Gemini to the bone, born on june 15th. It's quite complicated to express the way we see the world; good thing we're efficient communications.
I communicate openly and I always mean what I say, because I usually have time to think twice before speaking. I can find things to talk about with virtually anyone, even if I don't have a clue about cloning sheep, growing peach trees and so on (you get the ideea),
My best friends are there for me, but, sadly, I don't feel any emotional attachment to them. I analize and look into every move they make, before making my decision. I often find myself lost in my own thoughts apparently without any reason, but I do a lot of thinking. I never ever turn my back on them when they need me, and they come to me for advice when they feel it's appropriate, but I never ask them to do anything for me; I only work with other geminis (and they're so rare! lucky my big brother is one).
The only person I feel I can truly trust is my boyfriend (who, incredibly, is a Cancer). I really do care about him and I know he shares my feelings.
Maybe my saggi arising is to blame for my philosophic side, but I do know how to have fun and enjoy life at the fullest and adapting to almost any given situation.
About the pisces guy issue: I once dated a pisces, and believe me, it's a challenge.
He's very, very complicated to understand, but also cristal clear. That's because he, like us, has a dual nature of some sort.
The guy I dated for a while was a writer; a small one, but still. They've got great sense of humor, that I can guarantee. If the two of us started cracking jokes, our friends would almost suffocate. But under that sense of humor and apparent superficiality, lies a bunch of mixed feelings. You can't ask a pisces guy to tell you his agenda for tomorrow; the guy I dated never planned anything.
He was very emotional and showed his feelings in a very unique way, but you can't ever be sure.
I hope I helped :).
Thanks. This pretty much sums me up!! I am a GEM born June 13, 1964. I am about to divorce because of jealousy, insecurity and being accused of cheating (which I am not). I am a hair stylist and vey much people person. He is a Virgo!!! I was with a Cancer for almost 10 years before him. It was always interesting. He taught me how to ride a Haley. Somthing I had wanted to do all my life.
VENUS IN GEMINI
In love, you are more
interested in a person's sense of
humor and intelligence than in
their physique. You like a partner
who is mentally alive and who keeps
you guessing a little bit, and you
become restless and bored with
someone who never asks questions,
never changes or surprises you.
Talking, sharing ideas, going
places together, and learning new
things together is very important
to your happiness. You need lots of
social stimulation, are something
of a flirt, and like to have many
friends of both sexes. A
possessive, jealous partner is very
stifling for you.
VENUS IN 11TH HOUSE
You are a very sociable,
congenial person and you wilt very
quickly without the company of good
friends and people to share good
times with. You thoroughly enjoy
working with others on group
projects or community activities.
You are quite happy when you are a
part of a club, support group, or
team of some sort.
JUPITER IN GEMINI
You have the ability to see
connections between seemingly
unrelated ideas or worlds, and to
bring them together. You excel in
any field requiring clear
intellect, and verbal and
communication skills. You have an
insatiable curiosity and may read
or watch television constantly in
order to satisfy your need for
mental stimulation. Your mind never
JUPITER IN 11TH HOUSE
You have good fortune working
with groups, organizations, and
others who share your ideals. You
go further if you unite your
efforts with others, as in clubs,
networks, or civic associations.
Social improvement, or benefiting
your community is very important to
Cosmobaby - I was married to a virgo for 15 years!!! I am now happily married to a Leo....and am able to go back to being me....motorbikes,socialising,loving life etc etc. My father is a cancer and he used to encourage me to be myself too. Somehow I seem to attract virgo males.... and,thankfully Leo males!! My venus is in gemini too and the above description fits me to a T ....my sun is gemini;moon in aquarius and libra rising....!!!
I can tell you first hand that Gemini's and Pisces are a great match. My second husband was a Pisces, and we had the most amazing relationship. We did everything together and truly loved eachother. So, what happened you ask, apparently, my Gemini ambition proved to be too much for him. He felt like he could never completely be the man I wanted him to, (I wanted him to be as successful in all his business ventures as I was), unfortunately, I was to young to realize I was pushing him away, I thought he liked all the ecouragement I showered him with daily. Don't make the same mistake I did, if you want to be with a Pisces male, let him be who he is and I gaurantee you instant love connections!!!