With Scorpio man (why are they so hot and cold)
Excellent! Your self-worth and self-love must be strong.
They are just very scared of getting hurt and that is why they do the push and pull thing. Deep inside, they are a softie @ heart and terribly sentimental. It takes me a long time (and gone thru' an awful lot with his hot and cold) to realize this. They keep up such a tough facade that it is very difficult to get close to unless you get to spend a period of time with them to let them develop trust in you. I find it exceptionally challenging and discouraging at times. It is their undying loyalty and being there for you that won me over ultimately.