For Blmoon, Daoilite, The captain, and Luv2laf - a reading please if you can.

  • Need advise on a relationship between:

    Me DOB May 8, 1980

    Him DOB July 5, 1980

    Thank you in advance for any insight you can provide.

  • Your love affair can be deep and passionate. You Choladito have a deep weakness for this unconventional man and can give yourself here without reservation. You can encourage him to reveal his more hidden or unusual side within the safety of the relationship. Both of you have a strong need to express your points of view - here is a relationship geared specifically for that very thing. The thrust of this relationship may be breaking through barriers to communication and opening up common avenues of expression. There may be an intense curiosity in uncovering hidden and perhaps unappreciated aspects of the other person - in coming close, studying, learning, and above all understanding. You have a lot to teach this man but also much to learn from him about how to be yourself without compromising your individuality in the face of social pressures, or enslaving yourself to the demands of work, study or family. Indeed, pride in individuality may emerge as an important theme here.

    This man may see you as a bit staid or even dull in certain respects but he will appreciate your enthusiasm for learning about unusual subjects and activities. He could well teach you how to lighten up and laugh, especially by finding the humour in the bizarre, and he will also enjoy your stability and security. In all these ways, the relationship can be ideal for the both of you. In a love affair or marriage, the danger exists however of the two of you becoming too isolated or cut off from the rest of society, being too exclusive and living in your own private little world. Hours may be spent together in mutually fascinated discussion of each other's different ways of being, and of not only daily experiences but occasionally miraculous or even psychic ones. Your partner has strong needs for love and sex. Be careful not to be too inwardly oriented towads yourselves rather than outwardly oriented as a unit interacting with others. Antisocial tendencies can be destructive. Follow both your heads and your hearts here. You Choladito may have to deal with a fear of love and intimacy in case it traps you and keeps you from being independent and free.

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