Dear Shuabby, please - what does Spirit see?



  • Hi Shuabby,

    Really need yours and Spirit's advice. Will keep this short.

    Things were going well with B, the guy I was seeing. But he seems to have drifted away and has stopped contacting me. It might have something to do with us having been intimate last month.

    You had advised that he is emotionally detached with relationships and guarded, so I'm trying to heed your advice to be his friend - I'm just keeping a distance for now.

    But I'd like to know - does B want me to go away and let go? Or does he still want this, and just needs his space at this time - and will reconnect with me later, without my prompting?

    I felt a connection with him. Does Spirit see that there is any merit to what B and share on a relationship level? Should I keep my heart open to him?

    Thank you Shuabby 🙂



  • Hi Shuabby,

    He did contact me but it is very infrequent. I feel I'm in limbo. This started out promising and but now I do not know if he is sincere about me anymore and whether it matters or not if I'm in his life.

    Really hope you can help on this one.


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