When do you know a cancer male is done with you?



  • Just to give a background story we dated for 4 months. I felt like we had a strong connection and I know the feeling was mutual for him. When we looked into each others eyes it was like we were one which he said. He said that his previous relationships ended badly and that he hadn't felt the way he felt with me for a very long time. He said he wanted to take things slow because he cared so much about me (but in my mind this meant he didn't want a relationship with me). Although throughout our 4 months together he never once asked me if I was a virgin or made a move on me to have sex. He was a complete gentleman. Which was weird b/c he had a reputation of being a man whore. But me not being use to his ways I found myself constantly getting upset with him when he would be passive by withdrawing and retreating into his shell. I tried to talk to him about the situation multiple times like adults but we never got that chance to talk.

    So eventually he had to find out on facebook that I was in a new relationship with one of my friends that I'd known for a long time. He sent me a random text message that made no sense a week later (I didn't respond) and literally 3 days later he was in a new relationship. So in my mind I'm thinking he lied to me about taking things slow since he was so quick to get into a relationship after me. Plus he hadn't been in a relationship in years, so for him to get with another girl after we stopped talking was a slap in the face, even though I was the one who technically moved on first. I've been with my bf for 8 months now but I don't feel the chemistry I felt with the other cancer guy I was talking to. The cancer guy has had a rocky relationship with his now current gf b/c he changes his status every other month. I texted him once anonymously but I know he knew it was me. He actually responded which I wasn't expecting. But that was it. I'm thinking about texting him again and reveal to him how I really feel and have that convo we never got the chance to have, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea. It's been 7 months since we've talked. Maybe he's moved on with his new gf. So my question is how do you know when a cancer guy is completely over you? I'm thinking about texting him but I'm not sure if it's a good idea. Should I try again or just move on?



  • The best thing you can do is move on. In answer to your question, they are done with you when you are done with them. Too many fish in the sea. They keep there foot in many doors at once which is why it's so easy to move right into another relationship. Obviously, this means the one they left measn nothing to them. So, either you move on, or, if they marry they will.


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