Hi



  • i want to put forward a general question: what if the person you love is in a relation with someone else at this time, and you didnot know this when you fell in love with that person. now the dilemma is be with no one else and wait for things to change ( like months or years) but be true to your feelings because thats the person you feel real love for/OR/ be with some one else half heartedly becuase you know the practical person will move on in this situation and select the second best.



  • If your partner really loved you, he would end his other relationship to be with you.



  • i fell in love with that person, he wasn't necessarily, we had just started talking...for 3 months, had no discussions as such, we were just two people knowing each othher as acquaintances, classmates...

    what if the person you love is in a relation with someone else at this time, and you didnot know this when you fell in love with that person. now the dilemma is be with no one else and wait for things to change ( like months or years) but be true to your feelings because thats the person you feel real love for/OR/ be with some one else half heartedly becuase you know the practical person will move on in this situation and select the second best.



  • If this person is with someone else and doesn't return your feelings, there is no point hanging around and hoping on the slim chance that things will change in your favour.


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