In a relationship but attracted to someone else, HELP!



  • So Im 21 years old (cancer) and my boyfriend is a 23yr old (scorpio), and Im attracted to a 29yr old (scorpio) go figure. weve been together for almost 8 months and have been living together for quite some time... not sure what to do?



  • hi barbara,

    I think you are very young, and should become independent without serious ties to anyone until you figure out what it is you do want.

    Know where you are, where you want to go, and why.

    Being attracted to someone doesnt always mean a great relationship awaits. You probably find the maturity of a 29 year old interesting.

    I learned the hard way that when you have a diamond in the hand and toss it for "possibilities",

    what is of true worth in that moment is lost forever.

    So put the situation squarely in front of you, weigh all things wisely, and act in line with the values you hold most dearly.

    Wishing you the best.