The heart of a Virgo man



  • @Jayann Oh gurl sorry to hear that. Guess what I am having terrible health issues too. Just done the MRI of my spine yesterday and my whole spine is fkd up. All my cervical and Lumbar spine bone has irreversible gaps.I am having bulging disk along with , spinal canal stenosis and disk degeneration. Boy the pain is unbearable. My hands are getting numb and tingly if I lie down to sleep. It could lead to permanent paralysis. I am fkd up already.



  • @SagittariusLady1234 I laughed at how accurate your description was. My Virgo was big on mirroring, but I think that's because they don't think we'd like them as they are. He stopped doing that and being bossy and harsh does turn him on. He always asks me how I can be so direct, how I'm not ashamed to say certain things, etc. Big on dirty talk and kinky stuff. I found it weird in the beginning, but now I see it as fun. Big on communication but oftentimes express himself wrongly. Great dad and a really great support. He cheers for me more than I do. Big on compliments and gentlemen like things.
    How long were you guys married? How it felt after longer time? I have a friend married to o a virgo who's a serial cheater. Of all Virgo's I know I don't know anyone that's not 😂so sometimes I ponder on that.
    Really great to read your thoughts and glad you joined after years of observing and reading our horror stories



  • @Momycrab , that's terrifying. Isn't there any successful treatment for such issues? I hope it won't become worse. Take care of yourself 😘❤️! @Jayann meds are numbing and horrifying, but they do help. I hope you'll see results quickly. Waiting for positive news❤



  • @Totitoti He never cheated and I don’t know of any man who truly loves you that would cheat on their wives. My ex could never figure me out and I always put myself first. So it doesn’t matter the sign, it only matters how you treat yourself. If any man thinks you’re more in love with him than he is of you, then of course they are going to take advantage because men are hunters and they want to win you. That’s just basic human psychology. When you start chasing things, it eludes you. When you relax and allow things to happen and come to you, it happens faster.

    After 10 years of being together, we just grew apart. He’s a good father and provider. The biggest problem was that he was always working and never wanted to go anywhere or do fun things like I wanted to and I couldn’t see myself suffering a lifetime like that. He got me at a young age and he had already lived his life. So maybe I made the wrong decision and settled. However I decided to ultimately leave the marriage while I’m still young so that I can have the love and adventure that I’ve always wanted.



  • @Totitoti ty so much take care



  • @Momycrab
    So sorry to hear that you are so ill. I hope you get better soon. Please remember to let the doc know how much pain you are in especially if it is the treatment that is causing it,
    take care stay safe and good karma to you and Ricky



  • By the way, this will be my last post. I’m getting off of this Virgo journey. I’m glad I was able to help in any way. Hope you ladies start putting yourselves first and know that a man is just a man. You’re creating your own reality. You are the master of your fate and the captain of your soul. Take care ladies.

    Signed- The original Sagittarius Lady.



  • @A-Former-User
    Wishing you good karma and the best of luck for the future.



  • @Jayann @Totitoti I am in alot of pain lately,pain killers are not helping. Lifting heavy weight,bending is strictly no no for me. I am having disc bulge ,disc gap and spinal canal stenosis which is putting pressure on my nerve roots. I really don't want to get disabled right now as there is no one else to take care of lil rick .Taurus is busy with his job lately and my mother is acting crazy so yeah I will have to stay alive and healthy for Ricky.You take care of yourselves.Sending Lots of love your way.❤❤❤



  • @A-Former-User aka sagittarius lady bye and take care ,it was nice to meet you. ❤



  • @Momycrab so sorry to hear that you are having so much medical problems. When one had disc problems it is very painful and tricky, When I was young only surgery could sort the problem,
    Please think carefully about possible treatment. Take care of yourself especially for Ricky.
    Whishing you good karma .



  • @Jayann I am not sure about the surgery for now but if things get worse I will have to opt for it in future as the pain is wayyy too much to handle.
    Take care.❤



  • @Momycrab
    have you see an physiotherapist? a neurophysiotherapist? they know more that doctors.
    Swimming and aqua aerobics can help.



  • @Momycrab I'm so sorry you feel this way. I'm sure you're aware of all healing options and I hope you do have a good medical care where you live. Also I'm sorry you have to go through such unpleasant situations with your mother. I'm sure that adds a lot to your discomfort. Have you tried acupuncture. My dad had severe back issues years ago, acupuncture was the only thing that's helped him. I really hope you feel better soon. Kisses to Ricky and you. I wish I could do something to help.



  • @Jayann Yes I've opted for
    physiotherapy. Getting physio massage and exercises. I am not sure how long will it take to work but the physiotherapist is very experienced and he has told me that he needs 3 months to put the spine in order but still I'll need to do the exercises as long as I live. I will not be able to carry rick in my arms by standing up anymore or else it will put pressure on my lower back☹️.

    @Totitoti Yes I have good medical care in my area and there are options too. I have also considered acupunture in my mind but I'll have to find a very experienced one or else if I get in wrong hands I could get crippled for life. On top of that my depression is back again to f*k me.😞
    I think my stars are acting weird in the sky LOL. Time ain't good for me right now. Each and every situation is going against my ass. I am not giving up any time soon though.Hope this passes soon.

    Love and light ❤❤❤



  • @Momycrab
    I have beck problems (nothing as bad as yours) so I did a back course on how to take care of my back. It was run by a physiotherapist who specialised in "Backcare", We used the Sarah Keys book "The Back Sufferers' Pocket Guide by Sarah Key" PUBLISHER Ebury Publishing to learn how to listen to our backs, keep our backs in good shape, stop over working the muscles in our backs and to strengthen our core, Next time you see your physio ask him about it.
    I understand about Rick not being able to lift him up as the same thing happened to my mum and me but because of another problem,
    I remember my mother coming home from the hospital and me begging to be picked up, me sitting in the road crying, me being hauled off the road and into the house by a cousin still crying. my mother never comforted me cuddled me, or held me again.
    Having said that it is an ideal time to create a secret gesture that when you do it says to Ricky "I am standing up with you in my arms hugging/comforting you my precious boy". Remember you will be doing it when Ricky is 6' plus grown man.
    Sorry about going on about my experiences
    wishing you good karma
    take care and stay safe both you and Ricky.
    💞 💞 💞 💕 💞 💞



  • @Jayann Thanks for the info dear, I'll definitely search for the guide book you've suggested. My physio is going well but the condition of my back is really bad. Time will give me more pain I know. When your stars are bad everything will work against you and I'm feeling that. Very sorry to hear about your mom , it broke my heart.😢. I can understand how a child needs his/her mother in every phase of life. I lift rick while sitting on a sofa or on bed but can't lift him while standing. He knows mamma is in pain and acts accordingly,he is a very matured toddler lol. I don't want to miss anything with him as he is growing up so fast. Yes one day he will be 6' and I will have to look up to talk with him.😃

    Love & Light ❤❤❤❤



  • @Momycrab
    ty
    thinking of you and @Totitoti



  • @Jayann ❤❤❤❤❤❤



  • @Jayann thinking of you and @Momycrab too ❤❤❤❤️Hope everything is going well!


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