The heart of a Virgo man



  • @Mommycrab
    I am glad the baby Ricky is doing so well.
    I hope you are doing better and have some hope for the near future.
    Please take care of both yourself and Ricky.
    Hugs
    💕 💕 💕



  • @Jayann I am so stressed out right now. Having financial problems as I have already left my job in the past to take care of Rick.Plus the covid situation has sucked out the money. Rick is a very active boy and is very naughty lol. I don't trust any daycare or nanny so I will look after him by myself until he is fully potty trained😆. He breaks things , falls down and runs out of the house whenever he finds the front gate open.😆.
    My love life sucks. Hope it gets better with time. I despise taurus now.

    BTW A new virgo is sending me msgs on FB lol. An old Taurus flame has also returned. I am in chaos. 😂😂😂😂



  • Hi everyone!! i am cancer woman, cancer rising, aqua moon, venus leo, mars libra, who had an 11 month “situationship” with a virgo man and i wanted to share after reading a bunch of this tread(:

    So, kind of a long story so far, but i assume most are. so, taking it all the way back to a year ago (august 2020) i met virgo man (virg sun/ moon/ mercury, venus libra, mars scorp) at the spur of the moment in a completely low point in my life; i felt very unlovable, very insecure, and very worthless in my own person. I was about to give up on dating altogether when i randomly met virgo man online and we started talking. from there, we had an instant instant connection, even through just the phone (virgo man is from my town, but went to college about 3 hours away from me). once we met online (august) we started talking everyday 24/7 until i finally met him in person after about a month and a half of just talking through the phone. during this time though we became very close and very connected; it was if i had always known him from the start. i even remember having conversations with him where we would both say things like “why do i miss you even though ive never met you” or he had told me he loved me within the first two weeks of talking and when i called him out for it, bc i thought it was insane, he would say, “i can tell im going to fall in love with you” and i felt very much the same in all ways and said the same back, just very connected and very close without ever meeting each other. then fast forward to our first meeting (end of sept) and things were amazing, but a few days afterwards he ghosted me and did not talk to me for 5 days. then randomly after this time, he came back and we talked like normal. from there our relationship only got stronger, now we were very close and we were very tied to each other- he frequently told me he loved me (not extremely serious bc it couldnt have been, but he would say it) and i would definitely think it back. then, all is well, and virgo man is coming home for Christmas- we see each other and we hang out (have amazing sex) and all is fine until its not fine, out of nowhere he gets distant and doesnt talk to me very much and then eventually does not talk to me for about 3 days. in this time, i thought our relationship was over, i thought he was done talking to me for good, i thought he was gone, but i always felt this energy pulling us together. i even remember one time crying about him (thinking its over) but saying to myself then why do i feel this energy between us??? and i mean like a very very strong energy between us. and that is all before i ever even found out about twin flames or karmic relationships or anything like that, i just remember feeling like this incredible energy in the universe that he was not gone, and sure enough, 3 days of no contact later, he comes back and we again (slowly) keep talking as normal, eventually building stronger than before (but now at this time he is back at school and i am 3 hours away). then, fast forward about a month down the line (end of january) and virgo man comes to me and tells me that he has to put an end to our connection bc he cannot do a long distance relationship, i said i understand and respect that and i assumed we would stop talking then, but we did not. during this conversation i told him “okay can you stop talking to me bc i like you too much and i dont want to hang on”, but he insisted that he not leave, and so i didnt, and we talked like normal; growing our connection deeper and stronger going forward. then fast forward, maybe another month down the line (febuary), virgo man comes to me and tells me that he is now dating a new girl- at this point i said “okay, i understand and respect that, now stop talking to me?” but again, he did not want to do that. he insisted on still talking everyday and being “friends” - attaining the failure of our relationship to “he cannot do a long distance relationship.” So (as messy and sad as it is/was ) i still talked to virgo man everyday like normal, he didnt want to let me go. and now through this time, our relationship became extremely extremely strong. he would talk about me moving in with him, would joke about marrying me, talk about kid things, talk about our future, tell me things like “hes never felt this way about a person before” or that he could trust me more than anyone hes ever met or that he felt like he couldnt see himself talking about his problems or opening up to anyone else like he can to me. I frequently felt very bad that virgo man was cheating on his gf with me though. i would ask him if he ever felt bad and he would say “uhh i think so” and sometimes we would sext (he would ask me, i never ever asked him) and when i would ask him why hes so nonchalant about cheating on her he would say, “i think the difference between sexting a girl and watching porn is minimal” and even though i would point out that that is not true bc he has feelings for me and we have been intimate in the past, he would write it off. and so anytime during the spring he would be home, i would see him and we would hang out as “friends” (no sex in person, just casual sexting). now, yes ik he was dating girl and that made me feel very bad, but he would tell me things like “if you lived here or if i lived there we wouldnt have this problem, we would be the ones dating” or “im sorry i know this isnt fair, but we have to do it” and he also wanted me to move with him so we would just talk about the future or just times where we would be able to be together and i would forget about her. he also told me he didnt really like her (less harsh, but that was the jist) or she didnt really like him or anything that told me they were not that serious. he also would indirectly tell me that when he moves to his new city after graduation we would be together and he wouldnt be with her, it would be us and he’s just with her for the time being bc it would be weird to live next to each other and “breakup” for “no apparent reason” (meaning, he didnt want to tell his gf he has been cheating and just go off to be with me). well, fast forward again and virgo man moves to new city (july). i come to find out that he never broke up with other girl and so i had to call her and tell her that he has been cheating on her the entire duration of their relationship thus far (emotionally and sometimes sexting through the phone). then, virgo man comes to me and i apologize for “ruining their relationship” and now i assume man will not talk to me anymore, but he says no, i still want to talk to you i am not mad at you. at this time he also told me that he was sorry if he ever made me feel like he wanted a relationship from me when “he did not” he told me, “i was honest with you in january when i told you i only wanted to be friends” but that is bullshit considering all the (apparently empty) future promises and plans we made. i called him a narcissist and a compulsive liar at the time, but still tried to keep my cool and stay strong willed. and then now, i dont know what happened, but after that conversation, he ignored me for two days and then straight up blocked me on all social medias (after he told me he wanted to continue our conversation “later”). now, we’ve been in no contact for 15 days and im just confused. i want to say that i still feel this connection and energetic pull to him like i did in the past, but to me it just feels like hanging on, i just want to try to move on from this feeling. i do definitely still feel like he wont be gone though and i definitely still feel an energetic tie together, but i dont want to put false feelings into my head and make me think something that isnt there. to me, i almost feel like me and virgo man were a karmic relationship in that he taught me 1,000% how to love myself, he showed me my self worth, and he showed me that i can be loved and that i am worthy of a partner and he is meant to be gone. but i also think the lines are a little blurry. during the entire 11 month relationship i had with virgo man we had a lot of highs and lows, but i would attest that to him pulling away from me and then coming back, making me extremely confused and thrown off balance. i also get confused because he literally tried to date another woman, but couldnt let me go. he never did not NOT talk to me any day that he was dating her, and its not really like he got anything out of doing that, we just talked about our days and life and anything under the sun while flirting and being close and whatnot (sexting maybe once or twice a month). its just, i have this similar feeling from christmas that like, he is not gone but it seems like on his part that it is over. it just doesn’t FEEL over, but i cant tell if im giving myself false hope or not. I also get extremely angry bc I know he knew how i felt about him and if he “only wanted friendship from me” he should have been more clear and not have lead me on for fun. it took me a very long time to realize that he was playing a game with me, keeping me around for whatever selfish need he needed fulfilled, or a nice stroke of the ego or i dont know, but it was extremely hurtful. he is a narcissist, compulsive liar who has a deep seeded fear of being alone. he doesnt even know that he is his worst enemy in love. i told him i feel very sorry for him because he doesnt know how to value people and he keeps ruining his own connections by his selfish ways. I also want to point out that he had EXTREMELY toxic relationships with all of his ex’s- there even is a twitter hate group dedicated to just a whole string of women and men who have been either directly (women) or indirectly (men who’s gf’s cheated with him) by him. they all state similar things that i had encountered. his ex was constantly being cheated on by him and he would always have other girls that he was sexting during their relationship too. I dont know how i actually encountered the worst human on earth, but i am very upset i did. I loved him a lot a lot, i would always tell him that, but apparently we were only ever just friends. This man lead me on so hard and I just dont know why. I am so mad i want to hurt him, but i have let that thought go since I know he will ALWAYS hurt himself more than i ever could.



  • Hi! I am a cancer, cancer rising, aqua moon, venus leo, mars libra, who had an 11 month “situationship” with a virgo man and i wanted to share my encounter after reading many on this thread 🙂

    So, kind of a long story so far, but i assume most are. so, taking it all the way back to a year ago (august 2020) i met virgo man (virg sun/ moon/ mercury, venus libra, mars scorp) at the spur of the moment in a completely low point in my life; i felt very unlovable, very insecure, and very worthless in my own person. I was about to give up on dating altogether when i randomly met virgo man online and we started talking. from there, we had an instant instant connection, even through just the phone (virgo man is from my town, but went to college about 3 hours away from me). once we met online (august) we started talking everyday 24/7 until i finally met him in person after about a month and a half of just talking through the phone. during this time though we became very close and very connected; it was as if i had always known him from the start. i even remember having conversations with him where we would both say things like “why do i miss you even though ive never met you” or he had told me he loved me within the first two weeks of talking and when i called him out for it, bc i thought it was insane, he would say, “i can tell im going to fall in love with you” and i felt very much the same in all ways and said the same back, just very connected and very close without ever meeting each other. then fast forward to our first meeting (end of sept) and things were amazing, but a few days afterwards he ghosted me and did not talk to me for 5 days. then randomly after this time, he came back and we talked like normal. from there our relationship only got stronger, now we were very close and we were very tied to each other- he frequently told me he loved me (not extremely serious bc it couldnt have been, but he would say it) and i would definitely think it back. then, all is well, and virgo man is coming home for Christmas- we see each other and we hang out (have amazing sex) and all is fine until its not fine, out of nowhere he gets distant and doesnt talk to me very much and then eventually does not talk to me for about 3 days. in this time, i thought our relationship was over, i thought he was done talking to me for good, i thought he was gone, but i always felt this energy pulling us together. i even remember one time crying about him (thinking its over) but saying to myself then why do i feel this energy between us??? and i mean like a very very strong energy between us. and that is all before i ever even found out about twin flames or karmic relationships or anything like that, i just remember feeling like this incredible energy in the universe that he was not gone, and sure enough, 3 days of no contact later, he comes back and we again (slowly) keep talking as normal, eventually building stronger than before (but now at this time he is back at school and i am 3 hours away). then, fast forward about a month down the line (end of january) and virgo man comes to me and tells me that he has to put an end to our connection bc he cannot do a long distance relationship, i said i understand and respect that and i assumed we would stop talking then, but we did not. during this conversation i told him “okay can you stop talking to me bc i like you too much and i dont want to hang on”, but he insisted that he not leave, and so i didnt, and we talked like normal; growing our connection deeper and stronger going forward. then fast forward, maybe another month down the line (febuary), virgo man comes to me and tells me that he is now dating a new girl- at this point i said “okay, i understand and respect that, now stop talking to me?” but again, he did not want to do that. he insisted on still talking everyday and being “friends” - attaining the failure of our relationship to “he cannot do a long distance relationship.” So (as messy and sad as it is/was ) i still talked to virgo man everyday like normal, he didnt want to let me go. and now through this time, our relationship became extremely extremely strong. he would talk about me moving in with him, would joke about marrying me, talk about kid things, talk about our future, tell me things like “hes never felt this way about a person before” or that he could trust me more than anyone hes ever met or that he felt like he couldnt see himself talking about his problems or opening up to anyone else like he can to me. I frequently felt very bad that virgo man was cheating on his gf with me though. i would ask him if he ever felt bad and he would say “uhh i think so” and sometimes we would sext (he would ask me, i never ever asked him) and when i would ask him why hes so nonchalant about cheating on her he would say, “i think the difference between sexting a girl and watching porn is minimal” and even though i would point out that that is not true bc he has feelings for me and we have been intimate in the past, he would write it off. and so anytime during the spring he would be home, i would see him and we would hang out as “friends” (no sex in person, just casual sexting). now, yes ik he was dating girl and that made me feel very bad, but he would tell me things like “if you lived here or if i lived there we wouldnt have this problem, we would be the ones dating” or “im sorry i know this isnt fair, but we have to do it” and he also wanted me to move with him so we would just talk about the future or just times where we would be able to be together and i would forget about her. he also told me he didnt really like her (less harsh, but that was the jist) or she didnt really like him or anything that told me they were not that serious. he also would indirectly tell me that when he moves to his new city after graduation we would be together and he wouldnt be with her, it would be us and he’s just with her for the time being bc it would be weird to live next to each other and “breakup” for “no apparent reason” to her (meaning, he didnt want to tell his gf he has been cheating and just go off to be with me “randomly”). well, fast forward again and virgo man moves to new city (july). i come to find out that he never broke up with other girl and so i had to call her and tell her that he has been cheating on her the entire duration of their relationship thus far (emotionally and sometimes sexting through the phone). then, virgo man comes to me and i apologize for “ruining their relationship” and now i assume man will not talk to me anymore, but he says no, i still want to talk to you i am not mad at you. at this time he also told me that he was sorry if he ever made me feel like he wanted a relationship from me when “he did not” he told me, “i was honest with you in january when i told you i only wanted to be friends” but that is bullshit considering all the (apparently empty) future promises and plans we made. i called him a narcissist and a compulsive liar at the time, but still tried to keep my cool and stay strong willed. and then now, i dont know what happened, but after that conversation, he ignored me for two days and then straight up blocked me on all social medias (after he told me he wanted to continue our conversation “later”). now, we’ve been in no contact for 15 days and im just confused. i want to say that i still feel this connection and energetic pull to him like i did in the past, but to me it just feels like hanging on, i just want to try to move on from this feeling. i do definitely still feel like he wont be gone though and i definitely still feel an energetic tie together, but i dont want to put false feelings into my head and make me think something that isnt there. to me, i almost feel like me and virgo man were a karmic relationship in that he taught me 1,000% how to love myself, he showed me my self worth, and he showed me that i can be loved and that i am worthy of a partner and he is meant to be gone. but i also think the lines are a little blurry. during the entire 11 month relationship i had with virgo man we had a lot of highs and lows, but i would attest that to him pulling away from me and then coming back, making me extremely confused and thrown off balance. i also get confused because he literally tried to date another woman, but couldnt let me go. he never did not NOT talk to me any day that he was dating her, and its not really like he got anything out of doing that, we just talked about our days and life and anything under the sun while flirting and being close and whatnot (sexting maybe once or twice a month). its just, i have this similar feeling from christmas that like, he is not gone but it seems like on his part that it is over. it just doesn’t FEEL over, but i cant tell if im giving myself false hope or not. I also get extremely angry bc I know he knew how i felt about him and if he “only wanted friendship from me” he should have been more clear and not have lead me on for fun. it took me a very long time to realize that he was playing a game with me, keeping me around for whatever selfish need he needed fulfilled, or a nice stroke of the ego or i dont know, but it was extremely hurtful. he is a narcissist, compulsive liar who has a deep seeded fear of being alone. he doesnt even know that he is his worst enemy in love. i told him i feel very sorry for him because he doesnt know how to value people and he keeps ruining his own connections by his selfish ways. I also want to point out that he had EXTREMELY toxic relationships with all of his ex’s- there even is a twitter hate group dedicated to just a whole string of women and men who have been either directly (women) or indirectly (men who’s gf’s cheated with him) affected by him. they all state similar things that i had encountered. his ex was constantly being cheated on by him and he would always have other girls that he was sexting during their relationship too. I dont know how i actually encountered the worst human on earth, but i am very upset i did. I loved him a lot a lot, i would always tell him that, but apparently we were only ever “just friends”. This man lead me on so hard and I just dont know why. I am so mad i want to hurt him, but i have let that thought go since I know he will ALWAYS hurt himself more than i ever could. It felt very bad this whole relationship (i am a cancer so) but i have my aquarius moon that kind of kept me grounded in all this, it was very hard, but i guess i will use it as a learning experience. Virgo men are something else. I will NEVER try to date another virgo man agian.



  • @Mommycrab
    Financial problems are hard. Have you seen a financial advisor to see if you are getting all the help you are entitled to?
    Create and work out a budget. Money coming in. Essential bill to pay, rent utilities and food. What another bill can be paid, how much etc.
    Where you stand can you negotiate a lower amount for a longer period for you loans etc
    I hope Ricky and you are in good health.
    You need to visualize how you see your and Ricky future. Be positive when you do this and make sure you do not include the negative you have for Taurus, how do you see life in 6 months, a year, and 5 years in the future. Dream the impossible with everything rosy.
    I wish I could do more than just provide advise which might upset you.
    I am sending you a bear hug.
    As for me I dreamed then hit a wall or should I say a cliff and nothing nothing I do will move it.
    Please take care and stay safe both yourself and baby Ricky.



  • And I have just moved to California and am looking for some new acquaintances. I have no other idea than a dating site https://rentmen.cc/. But the thing is I am not looking necessarily for dating, I just need friends for communication and occasional meetings. Do you think online dating sited are a good place to look for new people? Do you have any other suggestions?



  • @mskenhi Hello dear welcome to this thread.



  • @Jayann I dunno gurl I am facing problems in all things including my health. Having severe back pain and right hand pain ,also pain in foot thumb bone. My bones are wearing away and I am losing bone density which is not good at all. If something happens to me what will happen to Ricky? I am so tensed. 2021 is f*king me hard in all aspects of life. I am standing strong only for Rick. Financial problem is getting better now as I have started a budget until I get a job. Taurus and I am on good terms and he pays for Rick which is a great relief for me for now. My health issues have started from January this year. Please pray for me and my family.:( People are still dying of covid around me. This year is bad bad bad. 😞
    Pls pls pls stay safe. Love you. ❤



  • @Mommycrab
    Because of Covid most people in UK being prescribed Vitd3
    "Vitamin D helps regulate the amount of calcium and phosphate in the body. These nutrients are needed to keep bones, teeth and muscles healthy. A lack of vitamin D can lead to bone deformities such as rickets in children, and bone pain caused by a condition called osteomalacia in adults.
    Half an hour in the sun if you are blond and blue eyed going to 2 hours for olive and brown skinned. just arm and legs out will do in direct sunshine will do.
    I am glad that your finance is better, one thing on the back burner.
    Winter has arrived here and I am cold,
    take care and stay safe Ricky mum.
    xxooxx



  • @Jayann Hey gurl sup? Yea Dr. has prescribed me some calcium and vitamin d3 along with iron tablets. I had asymptomatic covid last year and from then now I occasionally get body aches and unknown pains .
    Rick is suffering from viral fever dunno if 3rd wave of covid has hit or not.He is on meds and me too have mild cough and cold. Time is really going bad for me. Hope to get better soon.

    You too take care. ❤



  • @Mommycrab
    So sorry to hear that you had/have covid.
    Vit D3 is very good as we are not spending enough time outside in the sun. This year if I get 15 min every three days I am doing brilliantly. I am glad that you doctor had prescribed all the above, Did you have a blood test, I was told that you should have orange juice for the vit C when you take the iron tablets to aid absorbance,
    I think both you and Ricky are run down.
    Take care and stay safe,

    "The vitamin C and iron combine to form an iron chelate complex, which increases the solubility of iron in the small intestine, resulting in increased uptake across the mucus membranes of the duodenum. For this reason, the vitamin C must be consumed at the same time as the iron in order to be effective."



  • @Mommycrab
    When I was a child my mum use to make the following when I had flue or a cough.
    put into a small pot
    add a bashed piece of fresh root ginger about 1" long and 1/2" diameter.
    add two sticks of cinnamon
    add the three cloves
    final add about 1/2 litre of boil water.
    bring to boil and simmer until te water is a nice rich cinnamon colour.
    sweeten if required
    drink with paracetamol if have flue
    or just drink to sooth for cough
    put in thermos to keep hot. Leave ingredients in pot as you will be able to reboil at least once more.



  • @Jayann Ricky's fever is gone for now. I am feeling well too. Thanks dear for your valuable advice about meds and homemade remedy. I have have done it all and it really works. Covid is still lurinkg around and I am so much worried for Rick.Hope this gets over soon. I am planning on divorcing taurus. Lets see what happens.
    You take care . 💕❤



  • @Mommycrab
    It is nice to hear that you and Ricky are feeling better. Understood why you are worried about Ricky and covid. Take everyday one day at a time. Take care and stay safe.
    😚 😙 🤗 💞



  • Virgo men don't have a heart imo

    I had a virgo friend (his sun+moon+mercury+venus in VIRGO), we liked each other and started dating. But after 4 months i got the feeling he didn't want to commit but i did so i left. I told him that its not working and blocked him on most things but he managed to contact me after 1.5 months and we talked then started dating again.

    I was still antsy I guess bc he would tell me how he committed to his ex-gfs within 2 weeks. But i felt like he didn't want to be with me at all so I leave and try to move on, i blocked him on everything. He comes to my place of work and says he wants to be friends. I was like ok which ended up leading us to dating again. This man will not leave me alone. But this time, after a while I expressed how drained and tired I am of this unending dating stage.

    He responded with: "Do you want to know the truth, I am waiting for you to change, as you are, you are not the girl I want to date, I feel like you have so much room left to grow, I’ve already been through my beginner stages and it feels like going backwards when I talk to you cause it’s like I’m teaching you how you should be acting. I’ve already been through my growth stage, I realized recently after our last discussion more than ever that you have absolutely no experience when it comes to dealing with another person, and you have not hit that point in your life where you are matured to where I can say I want you to be my partner, I believe that I’ve been staying and talking to you in an attempt to help you grow faster but i don’t think this is the way". I left for good this time and made sure he can't contact me. I also switched jobs so he can't see me there anymore. But WH do this? Why not just leave me alone if im not the girl you want to commit to?



  • @aftershine welcome to the thread! You did well, you distanced from him and try to keep that distance. The question is what do you want? When we get that answer, then we'll know what to do. Nothing shameful in admitting you want him, even though he acts shady. We've all been there.
    @Jayann @Mommycrab ,my lovelies, I hope you are both fine. I need time to catch up on all your posts. Sad to see beautiful boy Rick was ill, hope all is well now. Sending you both lots of love from life in boxes (we're still settling in the new house). Hope we manage to do that till 2025 😂.





  • so i know this virgo men for 13 years now. we spoke on and off. he lives 3 hours away from me. he made me belive virgo men are insane and got no heart
    we met as teenagers and this relationship was a mess. i was a shy and insecure teen and the constant manipulation and critiques really hurt.
    in my yearly 20's he reached out to me again. it was mainly sex, i was really bored at the time and was looking for excitment LOL. at the end he told me he loves me and he wants us to date. we dated for a few weeks until i realised how unhappy i was. he would do silent treatments any time i did or said somthing he didn't like, the constant critique and the fights were to much. i thought that if he loves me the relationship would look diffrent- i was obviosly wrong.
    i broke up with him and he was mad. he tried being emotional, cursing, silence and begging. i just didn't want it anymore.
    a few month ago he text me again. i was happy to hear from him. he messaged me daily, we talked for hours. i was 100% he wants a friendship- thats also what he told me. problem is after a few month of talking thing between us became sexual. we did some zoom talks and we talked about meeting again. he would also text all those sweet compliments and how much i he cares about me..then i had a moment of clarity and realized it would be stupid, i'll start feeling somthing for him again and might enter a failed relationship with him-again!
    i told him i rather be friends since i can't do casual sex. he started talking about how he wants it to be a relationship. i said can't do that. first he tried to change my mind. now he disided that he won't talk to me anymore, unless we meet up.
    did anyone here take her virgo ex back and didn't regret it? do they all act like that or did i date a psycho?



  • @Totitoti I have decided to never involve myself with a virgo man again



  • @aftershine
    Astrology is like the shades of grey, Have your ex chart done and see what other influences there are in the chart. This will allow you to meet and enjoy the company of Virgo Males in the future before deciding on their worth. A Virgo with Scorpio rising might be just the person who rocks you world and commits to you. Please do not close the door on opportunity. Best of luck.


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