Hi PesceanHealer. I will try to make it short and explain my situation. I recently have got separated from my husband after 17 years of relationship and marriage because he is an alcoholic. I tried for 17 years to make my marriage work but at the end i got tried of not been listened too. After my separation i met this wonderful man which he has chased me and wanted a some sort of a relationship with me. I fell in love with him at first sight..He is a very busy man with his work and he has no time for a serious relationship. If you have time and the will can you do a reading for me as at this stage of my life i am very confused. My life hasnt been easy with me. Should i keep trying for this wonderful man? Please your help will be much appreciated. My date of birth 10/9/68 and his 26/3/69. thank you.
What other issues are bothering him? Please.
Thank you for the question. I drew the Wheel of Fortune, The Moon and The Chariot cards for you.
You've had a very low period in life, but things are going to start looking up for you soon. Life is going to be much better for you. Pay attention to your dreams, I feel they have a lot of answers for you and take charge of your life. Steer it in the direction you want it to go in.
Start with this new man. To be perfectly honest I think he was only after what he couldn't have. He was in it for the chase. Confront him. Tell him he's the one that pursued the relationship, now he has no time for one? It's entirely up to you, but if you want to be with this guy then tell him he needs to make time for a relationship or to leave you alone.
It's all about you now gino26, take control of your life.
Love & light to you,
Thank you Marc. You are a sweet heart. What you are saying is that you don't see that i have a future with this man? I'm so lost ,confused and hurt that i cant even see my dreams. I have reached 42 years old and i still don't know what career to follow as i didn't have the chance to do that as a child. My parents stole that opportunity from me. If you are kind enough can you help me a little bit more with my questions. That will be nice. Thank you. Take care.
I'm 33 years old and I'm still working on my career/vocation. I've known a few 50 year olds who decided to change their careers. So you have nothing to feel bad about. Look back on your life as a series of lessons. They made you the person you are today. They've prepared you for your future. What have you learned that you can now pass on to others in the form of a career/vocation?
Regarding this man, I don't see a future for the two of you no. I'd apologise but I really do feel you're not losing out! I honestly see you learning from this experience. Getting a real confidence boost from kicking this guy into touch so to speak. It's almost like you decide to appreciate the attention, but decide he's not worth it/not your type!
Is that something you think you could do?
Yes Marc i have learnt a lesson from him."Dont be so giving to a person". I give alot. I am planning to see him on Tuesday and tell him a bit of my mind. If that was your question? Should i? I feel that i have to do that because he has hurt me. I dont know if that is right or wrong? but after that i hope i will move forward in my life. It will take me a long time to get over him but that doesnt matter. One good thing is that at the end he didnt get what he was after. Thank you for sharing you career "in decisions" with me. That made me feel a bit better. Ill try to find out what im good at as i have no clue. You will always be in my heart because you have helped me. I appreciate that very much. My name is Effie. Take care Marc!