Is there really a soulmate?
I truly believe that there is someone out there for you, I believe that as we are all created for relationship, the right person will eventually come. It's a case of being open to receive and someone recently said to me that we carry past experiences and make judgements about them and they become our core beliefs which hinder us from receiving what we want. For example if i was to say all my past relationships ended with my partners cheating, then I will carry that into future relationships and my core belief would be that all men cheat, which could lead to self fulfilling prophecy. You block off the good that would otherwise come to you.
Perhaps you have a core belief about finding your soulmate that you are unaware of?