A Chance To Heal Time
You can not control his path or his healing of his issues but only your own.
Extend your olive branch but with no attachments of your own. You do this for you and your path if it is what your desire but you can not make him do the same. So release any desire for how this will turn out. He may take it up or ignore it or even be angry about it. You do not know and you MUST not care.
What is stopping you?
You care about the outcome.
Do what is in your heart and keep it in your conscious mind. Forgive him ahead of time for whatever his response will be. If you can do this...you will have acepted release.