Captain, Please I need some insight!!
You shouldn't be surprised to hear that this relationship is an astrological disaster for love. Your husband is a persuasive person who could sell a saleman back his own product and you are totally sucked in by his lies and manipulations. Power struggles are common here. You both lack the shared traits and concerns that would hold this relationship together emotionally and physically, and also you lack the ability to handle the independence required here. A lasting love affair or marriage is thus highly unlikely between you - it would have been better for it to remain a friendship as you two can enjoy good times together, as long as your partner keeps his judgmental, bossy side under control and you don't get carried away by selfishness or vanity.
The only relationship that really works here however is a strictly business one.