Hanswolfgang...I would LOVE to hear what your thoughts are if you have a moment.
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Hi,
I have a friend I think I may have hurt. Good friend, long distance, started creeping towards being closer. I freaked out, too emotional (going through a divorce), didn't realize I wasn't ready, and went way too fast with it all. I think I scared him away and myself. I ultimately asked why he was pulling away, told him to "not contact me" I needed time to get back to a friend place. He replied, said he wasn't wanting to do long distance, for my sake, thought maybe I made some of it up in my head, and that he wasn't in a good place for more. Then nothing, no contact at all now.
A month now and I have since calmed down from my other very stressful personal and career issues. I miss him, even as friend. Just wondering if he will reach out again? Should I wait for that. I feel I owe him an apology? Should I apologize? Was he pushing me away out of fear (he kept saying stuff about rebound)? Does he think I am crazy or does he understand the stress affected me? Was he playing games? Do you see us returning to friends again, staying in regular contact? Did I hurt his feelings? Did he just move on from me completely? Is there a chance we will meet up this summer, overseas?
3/1/74- Me- born as CMH, change at ten to CMB
7/15/73- Him (EIR)
If you are able to offer insight it would be much appreciated...I would be very grateful.
All the Best,
MarieGrace
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