Why can i meet so many men but cant keep them wtfff help!!



  • I need a reading 6/5/87 is my bday i ,meet tons of guys they all say the same thing your so pretty blah blah blah ..!! Im looking for a deep connection a soul mate someone who understands me but also someone i am really attracted to why is it so hard to find is there a karmic meaning to this what have i done so bad that I cant keep a man ...????



  • I hear ya....somehow you keep attracting the same shi&..I understand...its alomst a curse....usually relationships are reflections...what inside could be causing abandonment? I feel ya..its me too; I attract only love triangles



  • Maybe you seek ur future partner in the wrong circles and i sense age group also. I sense the men u have dated so far has but one agenda n that is to cram as much laids as possible until they also fall for the mark dead line goal of now its time i get serious find a gal n settle down.

    Another is u feel for the Friend alone mark. Which means ya is a guygal who is into what they are into, be it cars, engines, ballgames, superbowl, beer n burps n marking turfs.

    It happens.

    I hear u need to write down each man u was with n if u can recall what u did n what the outcome was. By it u get a PATTERN of behavior. NOT that its wrong, BUT it can explain a whole lot. Next i hear u need to get the insights on men behavior n that u can get by google askmen which is a part.

    Im pounded on my head that "the bigger balls the bigger a scoundrel" So in finding the right one they say u shouldnt go for one with a huge set but more a normal medium sized.

    ye i get ur puzzlement, im puzzled too. I hear its bc these men rest more in themselves, as in we aint got nada to prove. is like huge balls comes a stupid idea to b larger than life obknockious n so forth. Mind u big balls doenst equal big all else.

    As for age group i sense u need to look for someone a bit older. 5 years ur senior n up. all from ur age n 5 years ya senior and u get another like ur ex´s.

    So what does this message bear down to?

    1. dig inti ur own past find replies by listing what u did

    2. 5 years ya senior n up new group to seek the one

    3. medium sized balls mellow resting no need to prove anything men. ur best bet i hear

    Also in my experience is seeking looking haunting for the one makes the bad apple squirm out from the wood works. so u may consider how u approach "operation find soulmate"

    They often show when ya aint llooking at all. I can sign that times 3 n i have pals that can sign it also, n all those i have advice regard the one since 1999.

    Just know that ure a very loving person but ur rush n seek may sabotage ur grand attentions. See if this doesnt fit the pattern of past. Once u know it u can change it.

    best of luck sweetie.

    cwb



  • 6/7/89 HERE! and I have that same problem. But very different I tend to mess it up.Gemini moments. You know what I am talking about lol. Maybe you should date older men, that are more mature, but age sometimes does not mean they are mature. Or maybe its you.. I know we can be very picky sometimes.. So look at everything. Analayze it. You will figure it out.

    Omg am I having a miss cleo moment lol j.k

    Nailah



  • @CwB yes i hear you thanx for the advice and reply im very appreciative you have been really helpful since i first got on here 🙂



  • @ Omg .....You dont know how much your reply affects me !!! Thanx I am a really compassionate person I never mean to hurt people im so concious in everything I do to the point that I worry alot when I know deep down inside that I could never really hurt anyone I always have felt as if people can do anything to me and but as soon as I react im soooo bad then I feel guilty when usually when I do ruffle someones feathers its honestyly always a misunderstanding!! I am glad to hear that I have no bad karma because I have been trying so very hard to keep my mind and actions pure Ive been trying to see the higher soul in everyone ,to not judge ,to see the good in people ,to help them ,to show them my looks are not everything to me when i say looks I mean overall dress style everything ,to show that im down to earth but I must admit it has not got me far I have not seen a reward in my good behavior .... maybe I shouldnt look for the reward but it seems i get worse treatment from people the nicer I try to become....in a nutshell your comment uplifts me makes me feel good not to mention this wonderful day i had lol this put the icing on the cake thanx!



  • @ Cwb Im gonna give your suggestions a try someone older because ya know i really have been dating youg guys recently because its like they approach me so much 19 ,20 ,21,22,23, I am talking (just talking ) to two guys over that age tho one 29 one 30 maybe i will take them more serious



  • Hon u´re welcome.

    naila i noticed ur picture, and i know this may sound Vicktiorian and old fashioned, maybe stuffed. BUT if u dress like that u attract wham bam thanx alot guys. U attract guys who aint serious on anything but fun horizontal if u get my gist. I know when one looks hot n all one wanna dress hot also, but it doesnt work.

    over all if we want to attract the right kind of guy we need so to say "clean" ourselves up first. Often what we show dresswise act wise thought speech wise, we think it will get the man we look for want desire wish for, but after time we ask why do i attract all the wrong ones?

    In my book and i learnt this also, once i dressed as i preferred the better guiys started to take interest. Ahm maybe u need a friend who knows u well enough to say her mind on hiow u dress. not ur mom bc mom n daughters useally get too hurt n miffed n wont speak for days. No a friend whom aint scared to say listen that outfit makes u look hoochy needy desperate.

    im NOT trying to change you, but alone ur picture says im easy. That is because ur dress is down showing quite a cleavage. Now if ya had let the dress stay on shoulders u´d get a Hmmm interesting woman, nice dresser, kinda serious. She has brains.

    i know u dont think u portray that at all. You could google askmen, join forum post this picture u have here and ask men to comment on it. you can also post a thread here n ask people to say what they think. It will take guts, it will smart but i think u´re tired of having the wrong dogs haunt ya ? Im right no? i know i am.

    Another idea would be consult a fashion advisor. You could also look into "get a make over" by specialist. However if ya like most of us, the best friend is the cheapest n nicest way.

    please consider this.

    cwb



  • Oh Dear your still young if you can read my threads here I felt like I have all the curse in this world I can easily attract my opposite . I am not trying to shop off but I honestly a burden to me over the year. All my life I never had experience to make a first move. But I felt bad cos they after on my appearance or just for fun or ssometimes I'm to hard and if they nearly give up or nearly turn back on my that's the time I will beg him to stay . I do have problem my personality is quite strong and I'm a bit afraid cos now a days I wanted to be alone and sometimes someone keep me company . I honestly felt strange on myself now. And since then my man or used to go out always younger than me never had a chance to date older than me. And now I am seeing 23 yrs old for sometimes I felt bad cos I'm a bit bossy and I am afraid to show my feelings I usually go and seeing guy now and stick with him when I need company but we both knew that we can't work it and not expecting any relationship . I dont like doing this but I am sorry this is the easiest way for me to have someone to talk and stay with me for sometimes . I'm so sick off my drama that in the end I'm the one can't let go till they took advance my weaknesses just now I am dealing with this cancerian that I used to go out and he only nice when he want me . For all I know this cancerian was totally unpredictable all day where arguing and swearing while talking on mobileb phone.This guy was to hard to read he said he has no gf and just wanted to alone and now having gf and girl knows him said that he have had one mOnth ago and now mad at me and I'll try to win him far out all of the nasty word in come out in his mouth and I told him. Why he can't talk shit on me always complaining over the phone . I do admit I had to do some effort for him but he said he doesn't care nor need to see. But his words was silly and make me confuse .But I'm all good but missing out sOmetimes my family . Kisses



  • Oh Dear your still young if you can read my threads here I felt like I have all the curse in this world I can easily attract my opposite . I am not trying to shop off but I honestly a burden to me over the year. All my life I never had experience to make a first move. But I felt bad cos they after on my appearance or just for fun or ssometimes I'm to hard and if they nearly give up or nearly turn back on my that's the time I will beg him to stay . I do have problem my personality is quite strong and I'm a bit afraid cos now a days I wanted to be alone and sometimes someone keep me company . I honestly felt strange on myself now. And since then my man or used to go out always younger than me never had a chance to date older than me. And now I am seeing 23 yrs old for sometimes I felt bad cos I'm a bit bossy and I am afraid to show my feelings I usually go and seeing guy now and stick with him when I need company but we both knew that we can't work it and not expecting any relationship . I dont like doing this but I am sorry this is the easiest way for me to have someone to talk and stay with me for sometimes . I'm so sick off my drama that in the end I'm the one can't let go till they took advance my weaknesses just now I am dealing with this cancerian that I used to go out and he only nice when he want me . For all I know this cancerian was totally unpredictable all day where arguing and swearing while talking on mobileb phone.This guy was to hard to read he said he has no gf and just wanted to alone and now having gf and girl knows him said that he have had one mOnth ago and now mad at me and I'll try to win him far out all of the nasty word in come out in his mouth and I told him. Why he can't talk shit on me always complaining over the phone . I do admit I had to do some effort for him but he said he doesn't care nor need to see. But his words was silly and make me confuse .But I'm all good but missing out sOmetimes my family . Kisses



  • @nailah LOL LMAO yes i know all about those gemini moments hehe and yeah im gonna start dating older ...thanx for the reply;)



  • @ annielan Omg this i can relate a little plus i kinda talk to a cancer man too but im thinking of ending it I thought it was a deeper meaning to him staying I now think the deeper meaning was a lesson for me to learn to just let go to let him go ...why do i keep letting him come back he means me no good I think the lesson is for me to learn to let a man go because maybe he was suppose to just pass thru my life so why am I letting him stay in it .....



  • Hotvirgorising

    I was surprised to him when his telling me that we been arguing for 7months and till now I was told by him that why I can't leave him alone and all he want was to left him alone. This cancer man was rude and so mean but as I read to some threads here they didn't mean to hurt u, He is just like that and it was proven to me .He is flirty, cheeky man , sensual and really carrying person but I just found out the he has an issues but never once admitting and accept his fault, I always telling his committing mistake and can be bother to say sorry ,He is right down now. Every time were having argue I just realized he comparing me that I am always traveling and he comparing that I am really lucky cos I can see his trying protect his shell .


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