Will he come back to me? Tarot interpretation plz!



  • Hi,

    My BF of nearly 2 years finished with me on 5th of May saying that he did not believe that I trusted him with other women & that I emotionally blackmailed him when I got hysterical after being dumped. (he had stated he wanted to go out with his male friends a few times a month and I has answered that it was fine as long as he didn't stay out all night - so he dumped me)

    He has not contacted me since, even though he knows I have lost 2 close relatives during the time we have been apart. He has not however come to move his stuff out of the house. Being without him is tearing me apart, but I am not contacting him and allowing him his space as I know that he loves me.

    Anyway, I just did a 3 card love and relationship sample spread asking "will **** come back to me?" and the cards were as follows: 1. Five of Coins, 2. King of swords, 3. The Emperor. Can somebody give me an interpretation please.

    Thank you very much



  • don't read tarot sweetheart, but angel cards!! just reading your question,I feel you are bordering on obsession,sometimes we need to release love set it free,and if things are meant to be they will return,this does not seem to be the case here honey!!if you follow the path you are on you will find yourself losing a lot of face and self confidence,find the road back harder to walk along! cut your losses and move on it is finished,dead in the water,do not waste anymore time,learn to rely on yourself and peace will come,do not feel you have to be part of a couple to be whole,watch out were your dreams are supplying you with answers but you have to let go of the past,or your loss may not be only one friendship honey.you have brighter times ahead so get on clearing the clutter and unwanted items from your emotional life and see what is an ending to some is a bright new beginning for others! you have lost two real loves in your life,concentrate on your greiving for them,and don't see this relationship as a loss but a way to move forward with answers you can use to your benefit in future relationships,learn from mistakes and stop playing the blame game. hope this has helped.

    fe mac



  • From what you are saying it looks to be that, either he has found someone else, and doesn't have the guts to face you to get his things back, he is probably waiting for you to get over him and then he will come to get them or possibly not even then. Love is a giving thing not a taking thing, so when you were going through your loss and he never showed face, that shows there is something other than love, I am sorry to hear that you invested so much time in such a selfish person, but you must LET GO, because as you know actions speak louder than words, I know I have been there not long ago. This guy is toxic and self-centered, so forget him (it does take time) and start working on your inner self so that you can start the healing process. And next time be sure to guard your heart just a little, until you are sure the man you are with is a giving person and not a taker. Good luck



  • From what you are saying it looks to be that, either he has found someone else, and doesn't have the guts to face you to get his things back, he is probably waiting for you to get over him and then he will come to get them or possibly not even then. Love is a giving thing not a taking thing, so when you were going through your loss and he never showed face, that shows there is something other than love, I am sorry to hear that you invested so much time in such a selfish person, but you must LET GO, because as you know actions speak louder than words, I know I have been there not long ago. This guy is toxic and self-centered, so forget him (it does take time) and start working on your inner self so that you can start the healing process. And next time be sure to guard your heart just a little, until you are sure the man you are with is a giving person and not a taker. Good luck



  • He probably hasn't come back to collect his bits and pieces because he doesn't want to build up your hopes of a reconcilation. I would collect his bits and put them in boxes, perhaps text him & tell him that there will be boxes of his stuff to collect by, for example, Friday...and say you'll leave the boxes...in the front porch, by the garage etc. Tell him that if they're not collected by then you'll donate his bits to charity.(Make sure you are out when he comes by) Then go round the house & remove any prominent photos/reminders of him. Try and indulge in a bit of "me" time...pursue hobbies or interests or activities and socialise with friends ....that helps the healing process. Learn from this relationship and look to the future. All the best.



  • Hi, Leaving his things behind is not an indication that he plans on coming back in the future. I agree w/ and think r n r chick gave you wonderful advice.


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