Captain can you help me with 2011, relationships and love life?
Can you help me?
My DOB is 10/21/1976
Sonnie, your astrological profile indicates you have a very powerful nature and a strong need to assert yourself and control most situations. Integration of the mental and emotional aspects of your nature will be key to your developing the awareness demanded by this karmic path. Blessed with a keen sense of responsibility and fine social skills, you may nevertheless become rather overbearing and even downright preachy at times, to the detriment of your further development. Alternatively, you may turn away from others and become isolated in cynicism. You must dig deep into your great reserves of strength to find the courage to transform yourself, activating your passion through a more spiritual connection to the world. Opening and broadening the channels of communication between your conscious and unconscious drives will help you find the balance point between them. If you are careful to keep your views fresh and your performance genuine, the stage of life will present you with rare insights and a fine understanding of eternal truths.
You are an attractive magnetic person who may be fated to have more than one partner in life. Most of your important lessons will be learnt in the areas of love, sex, and romance. You may have an inability to remain faithful to just the one person, but this will be an educational process for you, although perhaps a painful one. Not everyone is suited to living their life with just the one person. You may feel victimized by poor partner choices throughout your life, not realizing that you may in fact have created the perfect environment for your own spiritual education.
Because of some addictive tendencies, what is best for you in life is not usually what you most desire - in fact, what is best may be the very opposite of what makes you feel good. Awareness is the key to keeping yourself healthy and rejecting the whole gamut of dependency-producing drugs, relationships, and sex. Self-discipline must be practised studiously, and surrounding yourself with those who are also working actively towards greater consciousness and spirituality will prove invaluable. Such friends will be the voices of reason when you slip up. Feed your subconscious in healthy ways such as through deep sleep, daydreaming, relaxation, prayer or meditation, periodic laziness, and generally just letting go. Probe deeply into any obsession you may have with beauty, or any fear of being thought of as greedy or insatiable so that you will be able to more easily form bonds of loyalty and imtimacy, gain control of your appetites, increase your prosperity, and live happily. Examine your feelings over sexuality versus marital fidelity. Sex and money can sometimes become linked in your mind so that you get drawn into liaisons with all the wrong people. You may have developed deep empathy and emotional depth, but you also may have created an emotional 'fake persona' to compensate for a more mental approach to life. Only you can tell for sure.
The key in relationships for you is to let go of your thoughts and enter a world of feeling, untroubled by the turbulence of your mind, your beliefs, and your opinions. Your relationships offer you the chance to experience vulnerability wherein the lesson of trust is learned. Relationships are not in themselves so important to you as to finding a partner, but more as a means of growth and communication - the issues that arise become necessary life lessons. What you really want from life is to accumulate money and all the creature comforts, stability and security it provides so that you can 'really live'. But in order to do this, you must let go of self-concern and form real partnerships with others, sharing your values, talents, and resources to enhance the other person's energy (be they a lover, husband, friend, or business partner/colleague) so that you work as a real team for the benefit of all.
2011 for you about hard work and slow, but steady progress. Your thoughts and energy need to be directed to career opportunities, business, work, and security. This is a year to build a foundation, make important connections, keep your nose to the grindstone, and save your money. Expansion in this year will be slow but positive. Try not to feel too restricted. This is an opportunity to consolidate and retrench, as your life will become very active and expansive in the year to follow. Build firm friendships and strive toward balance in family relationships. This is a good year for engagement and marriage, a good year to follow a routine, pay off debts, start a diet, or quit smoking. In other words, you are well advised to get your house in order in terms of relationships, body, mind, and spirit. It is possible that long awaited opportunities will come your way before the end of this year.
This is a year of hard work and effort when you must knuckle down to the task at hand. A year of digging in and hoeing, a reestablishment of self-control. This is an organizational period and you must look at your current and past performance in a very hard light. It is a time to get organized and bring yourself down to earth. Responsibilities will increase, magnifying the effort and hard work needed to maintain a reasonable level of existence. Health and diet should be carefully scrutinized this year, as physical resistance might be low and you may become more susceptible to ailments. A tidying up of affairs is now in order, as you must make ready for a very hectic year in 2012.
This year represents organization, continued development, and focus. You may feel a bit restricted in some ways this year, but keep in mind that rewards from your applied efforts lie just ahead. You are asked to be resourceful and to expand your preconceived limitations. This is a foundation year, so you may actually complete many of the "loose ends" (uncompleted projects) in your life. You are also creating a solid personal inner foundation. You may want to do some weeding and feeding in the belief department. Write a long list of all the beliefs you have about yourself. Make one list for the positive beliefs and one for the negative beliefs. See how many you can come up with. All of the work you do this year and all of the subsequent soul searching may guide you to take an entirely new direction next year. In any case, as a result of your hard work, there will be much satisfaction and feelings of accomplishment. Just be careful not to get into any kind of rut. Listen to your soul and be willing to entertain the possibilities. The challenge of 2011 is to be aware of limitations but to not let them 'drive the car'.