Cancer Male and Mixed Messages



  • I also think he is trying to gage how much you feel about him. It sounds likes he’s feeling pretty insecure and the more he lets out the more insecure he feels until you reassure him each time. Each time he pushes you away, he wonders if/when you’ll break and when you don’t he pushes again. He’s testing your limits. More importantly, my feeling is that he is now setting the pace for a more sustainable relationship, because quite honestly, texting “everyday all day” is not realistic for long term; not if you both have jobs and personal goals to work towards. He is revealing his moods, he is setting the pace and all in all I do think he really cares about you otherwise he wouldn’t hold on so tight. However, if you hold on so tightly that he can’t breathe then he might feel that it’s not sustainable.