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Hello. I was hoping you could help me with a few questions. Can you tell me if I will be a mother someday and if its a good year to start trying? If not can you tell me about this year. My b-day is 2-25-1983. Thank you. I'm sure you are busy.
Firstly, you need to identify if the creative urge you feel is going to be satisfied by having a child or whether you really need to express yourself through other creative avenues such as painting, music, writing, teaching, healing, counselling, public speaking, acting, or other media. Your wonderful gift of being able to nurture and support others may be of use to other people before you consider becoming a mother. You have an inherent drive to express yourself creatively, though it may not come easily at first. Your innate emotional sensitivity may make it hard for you to put yourself out there and risk criticism and disapproval but once you really get going, little can stop you - even the depression and self-doubt you may feel from time to time. Your deep need to be in control in every area of your life all the time may never allow you to feel safe enough to be yourself so you have to be willing to risk going with the flow. You must acknowledge your insecurities, so that you no longer have to fight yourself by trying to hide or suppress your feelings.
2011 for you is more a year to learn about yourself than to make time for another human being in your life. It promises to be a very introspective year, a period of some pause and reflection between very active years in your life. This year should provide you with time for gaining some understanding of yourself, and you are apt to spend a good bit of time in contemplation. It will be good for you to spend time alone or in quiet activities, as free from outside responsibilities as possible. You should try to get away from business pressures. This is a good year to reflect on the past and plan for the future. One of the most profitable activities in with to engage during 2011 is that of study and writing, for your ability to think clearly, analyze, and integrate your thoughts is peaked now. Your capacity for research and understanding is at its very best.
It would not be unusual for you to take on an appearance of coolness and detachment during 2011. Certainly, it is best for you to focus your attention on your talents and your skills in an effort to use the time you have now to refine them. This year, more than any other year, is a time for inner growth. Social activities and material needs will be put on the back burner to give your spiritual and mental presence the attention they need. The desire to improve your inner life through quiet, meditation, connection to nature, and soul retreats will be very strong. You may find that you will be led to dig deeper into fields like psychology, philosophy, neuroscience and metaphysical topics in order to get a better understanding about what is going on with you. It’s a time when you may be driven to answer the bigger questions in life such as “Is this it?”, “What is my purpose?”, “Is this the best way for me to serve?”, “What is God’s Plan for me?”
Still, while there is a great deal of contemplation and soul searching involved, 2011 is also a time of much enjoyment and reflection. The fruit is there for the picking and it’s a time when you look back and are grateful for everything that’s happened.There will be many strange and unusual events inspiring you to take a closer look at life, and an opportunity is there to experience the joy and beauty of life without any artificial or exterior involvement but purely the growing awareness of yourself. YOU are important now. Rest, recharge and attend to things that create the foundation of your life – your health, your relationships, and your soul.
Through reflection and self-awareness, we are apt to take steps to refine our nature. Solitude is often needed in order to quiet the mind and get in touch with the heart of what really matters.
This is an excellent year to journal, which can assist you in tapping into your thoughts and feelings on a daily basis. A wonderful technique is free-flow writing, where you journal at least three pages a day by writing down an unconscious flow of thoughts without censoring them. This will aid you in self-discovery, as well as help you access your inner wisdom. Another most beneficial daily exercise is taking up meditation. This practice assists in helping you learn to listen to your heart and your inner voice. This will also help you develop your intuition and learn how to ground and centre in the present moment. Taking time out for yourself can provide many benefits and give you an opportunity to become more aware. Examine how much you worry. Worry is a sign that you're not in the present moment. Pay close attention to what your feelings want to tell you, rather than "spinning" in worry. You have your feelings for a reason. They can point you to what is important to you. Make a list of your essential values and needs. Ask yourself which of these are negotiable, and which are non-negotiable. Notice if you are out of integrity with any of the needs and values that you hold sacred, and if so, with whom or what. Then do whatever it takes to clean things up and bring your actions in alignment with your unique values and beliefs.
This is the year for asking yourself what areas of your life you would like to redefine. What skill would you like to perfect? This is a great time to begin learning a new vocation, skill, or hobby that will enhance the quality of your life. The year also wants to aid you in becoming more self-sufficient. Take a sacred journey and go someplace that stimulates you spiritually. Go on a small outing or take a series of one-day events. You might want to travel to a sacred location. Sacred journeys can provide you with incredible insights and create a shift in your perceptions. Attend a workshop, or join in a group event with others who are in alignment with your spiritual interests. In 2011, this can really assist in creating a greater degree of self-definition and self-trust. Examine your sleep habits and make sure that you are getting enough rest. Your dream state may heighten this year, and it is important to give yourself space to explore your dreams. Also evaluate your health and nutrition, and make sure that you are taking steps towards preventative care.
It is a good year to carry out plans that don't require involvement from others, and a year to guard your personal "alone" time, so as to avoid feeling irritable. A time to get "centered", you may find that at times during this year you feel lonely and left out. The main lesson with 2011 is to learn to be alone without being lonely. Having a baby is not the way to heal your loneliness or fill an empty life. Look to other ways to fill the void. By the end of this year if you have done the work, you will likely be in a position to handle life with greater insight and efficiency.
Wow I have been thinking about meditation a lot lately and never have before.You are very right about the strong urge to express myself. And I am alone a lot. I thought maybe I could get a break from the constant self analysis but I guess that there is a time limit on that. I began really trying to face myself in 2009 but not as much last year. I have been journalingeverything from prayers to my dreams at night. And so far in 2011 I have been experiencing so many strange things I stopped telling people because I don't want to seem too crazy. I want to do something with all of what I am learning but Idk how your right. I want a career but I would rather be a mom if I had to choose. I have been trying to plan it so much that it feels unnatural. I know tomorrow isn't promised a.d I want to have a baby with the love of my life. But I also didn't get to have a mom but I am nurturing still and have a lot of love to give. Anyway just letting you know you hit home. It couldn't hurt to wait and get more experiences under my belt. Thanks for all the insight. Happy 2011!
Good luck to you!
You know, love is unlimited - you can nurture others and your own family too.