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would you like it if I talked to your partner and gave them a judgement without your testimony?
Do you like that one would give you accusations wityh out asking you questions first?
Do you honestly go with what is said because you may feel confused and low self trust? So you go along with it becuase you may not have that self trust abnd faith..anything one tells you you may take serious, its a whole different ball game when you got it first for your self, then allow one to try to counsel that is not a professional....Try it.
Its when we are not aware of higher self and confident that we may fall or take in anything.