Sun sign/moon sign compatibilitys?

  • My sun sign is Cancer, with a moon sign Taurus, & rising Gemini

    My friends sun sign is Scorpio, with a moon sign aquarius, & rising unknown

    Astrology wise, what is said to be our best matches?

    How would a relationship between me & my friend go?

  • Hi Sweetie

    its a common misconception that a relationship healthy good bad sgtrong weak is based on sun n moon signs alone. Its not. Its based on personalities. Yes one can he she has this or that trait of this n that sign BUT it always comes down to personality, heritage, upbringing etc.

    If you want a compatability read on ur sun n moon signs u oughta try google for it, but ive heard astrologer say the best compatability chart is a composite one. To do one of those u need time of birth city country as well. not alone sun n moon sign.

    It also still just give one picture of the whole, a small tiny bit of the whole.

    As we´re individual there is also indicual astrologers and trust me, having scavengered the net for all kinds of compatability charts for this or that man, they all differed. Some went very compatable will be very unique fine excellent rewarding relationship, while others litterary warned its doomed n u enter hell.

    So i´d say caution on laying too much on the astrological angle, bc its a small bit of the whole. In end you wont be with a scorpio who at times shows as an aquarious or whatever sign. No you´ll b with a man who has this or that flaw but a whole slew of good in him. When asked u will not say im a cancer n at times a taurus n a gemini. You´ll go, im so n so bc this n that formed me.

    What i am saying is that we´re far n by wide more than a sun or moonsign. N i think no matter how many compatability charts u do will predict how it will go between u and the guy at all. Only in person it will.

    Its what u put init n how to handle it. Any relationship is a delicate special tender flower plant that needs special care. a balance.

    Sorry to have burst ur bubble my dear but better u know now than in a few weeks. Besides i doubt even u have heard when someone was mad they yelled OH URE SUCH A CANCER TAURUS GEMINI, SCORPIO AQAURIOUS or YOURE SUCH A LAME NARROWMINDED NITPICKING VIRGO SAGGITARIOUS HILLBILLY PISCES.

    cheers cwb

  • Dont worry you didnt burst my bubble at all. We're fully aware that relationships are based more than on astrology. This was more of a "see what you get" ordeal, but that's for the answer. It was....some what informing.....?

  • Youre welcome. if u need links to great places for a composite chart reading. I just hope admin will allow me. They are strict these days on their TOS. I dont blame em

  • Can you help me with afew of my recent disgussions?

    One is addressed to the Captian, but I'm hoping to get other inputs on it.

    Thank you!

  • Sure what are they my dear?

  • One is

    Which date goes with your personality?

    Content: I was originally supposed to be born on july9th, but was born late on july14th

    Does this mean I'm really a july9th baby or 14th?

    I've read alittle about both, and all though there are some things that sound like me with the july14th, the july9th sounds more like me.

    How does the "Babies born late" ordeal work when it comes to astrology & numberology, ect.?

    I know astrology isnt going to determin your personality completely, but I'm not sure weather to use my due date(july9th) or july14th.

    And the other is

    Need some input here Captain!

    Content: I just had a reading from someone about my birthdate

    They basicly said I was a saint on the outside & a volcano on the outside

    In other words, EVIL.?

    Is this true?

    Can your birthdate really make someone evil?(Or a VOLCANO as they put it.)

    What does my birthdate really say?

  • Hi sweetie

    Ok ill try. Im no astrologer BUT i did see a documentary of how babies comes along from conception. Inthe documentary scientist found out its the baby itself that chooses when to be born. First births tends to often go over times as they say. I think its bc the calculating conception date is a gamble. A gussing game, like do we get a white christmas, will the earth quake tomorrow. Will i get kissd tonite? Will i land that job promotion get that grade.

    I think you urself chose ur birthday when ur was in ur momma´s womb. I do believe not only do we unconscious choose our parents but we also choose when we wanna be born. Instead of asking which date i ought follow more, ask more which date do i feel more as. Which is deep down fully me?

    On the topic Volcano, i feel its more u as a warm steady force personality but when wronged, corned u erupt like one.

    I as u, dont like the evil hint. I mean come one, who the h terms who n what is evil or good anymore? Can one even from a date of birth deem any evil or good? would be like using the old terms born in or out of wedlock. if out of wedlock ur mom is a sinner n it will befall her kids, n ur kids kids until 3rd or 4th generation to ourdo deem make it good right paid sins made.

    Now i dont know how strong u believe in the good book the bible, the preachings of it n by priests n people that are very religious n in tune with it, peace with them, but again ask how can any use n say it based on numbers?

    To learn of the 14th of july google july 14th n see what comes up. astrologically lemmi see what i get googling it, ill copy paste for u:

    July 14 Cancers are quick-witted, highly verbal, and prone to react in a haughty manner when crossed. Although social and fun-loving, they are more serious than they appear. They understand the structure needed to maintain tradition.

    Cancer Information

    for July 14

    You should embrace: Distinction, dedication to duty, acceptance

    You should avoid: Feelings of inferiority, inertia, doubts

    Friends and Lovers

    July 14 people are likely to feel especially close to someone who has acted as a mentor to them. In love, either they met their partner through an unusual set of circumstances or they persevered through difficult times in order to keep their marriage or relationship together.

    Children and Family

    Whether they are aware of the fact, July 14 folks have a desire to constantly reconnect with their upbringing. They have great respect for their parents. As parents, they are often far too permissive. They believe a child should have maximum freedom to develop his or her own potential without interference from parents.


    July 14 natives are hard workers and may suffer the effects of stress as a result. They often complain of severe headaches--usually the result of too much work and too little recreation. During periods of calm, the headaches generally disappear.

    Career and Finances

    With their gift of gab, July 14 individuals make good lawyers, professors, and journalists. Money does not come easily to these people--they may have to work hard to achieve financial security. Yet once they do, their situation is likely to remain fixed.

    Dreams and Goals

    As long as July 14 people have a means to express themselves, they're content. If they do receive some measure of praise or acceptance for their beliefs, it's just frosting on the cake.

    The Crab

    June 22 to July 22


    Cancer Traits

    Emotional and loving

    Intuitive and imaginative

    Shrewd and cautious

    Protective and sympathetic

    On the dark side....

    Changeable and moody

    Overemotional and touchy

    Clinging and unable to let go

    Cancer! About your sign...

    The Cancerian character is the least clear-cut of all those associated with the signs of the zodiac. It can range from the timid, dull, shy and withdrawn to the most brilliant, and famous Cancerians are to be found through the whole range of human activity. It is a fundamentally conservative and home-loving nature, appreciating the nest like quality of a secure base to which the male can retire when he needs a respite from the stresses of life, and in which the Cancerian woman can exercise her strong maternal instincts. The latter tends to like and to have a large family. `Nest like' is an appropriate adjective for the Cancerian home, for its inhabitants tend to favor the dark, mysterious but comfortable type of house which has something of the air of a den about it, a place which belongs to the family rather than existing as a showcase to impress visitors.

    That is not to say that the Cancerian is unsociable, just that for them there is a time to socialize and a time to be solitary, and this is part of the apparent contradiction in their nature. Outwardly they can appear formidable - thick-skinned, unemotional, uncompromising, obstinately tenacious, purposeful, energetic, shrewd, intuitive and wise, sometimes with a philosophical profundity of thought verging on inspiration. Their intimates, however, may see a very different character, one with a sympathetic and kindly sensitivity to other people, especially those they love. They are able to identify with the situations of others because of the keenness of their imaginations. They are often over-imaginative and prone to fantasy, sometimes trying to shape their lives to fit some romantic ideal. They are appreciative of art and literature, and especially of drama, where the spectacle and ebb and flow of action and feeling particularly excite them. They may themselves possess considerable literary, artistic or oratorical talent. Their sharp ears and talent for mimicry can sometimes give them success on the stage, though their tendency to be emotional may make them overact. Interestingly - because they give the impression of being down-to-earth - they are often fascinated by the occult and are more open to psychic influence than the average. If they can reconcile the personal conflict of their urge to be outgoing with the reserve that causes them to withdraw into themselves, then at best they can inspire a generation, especially the youthful part of it, by their idealism. A job in which they can express this, and in which they can do well, would be as a leader in a youth organization.

    In their personal relationships they are mentally a mixture of toughness and softness, often emotional and romantic to the point of sentimentality in their fantasies; but in real life and in marriage, their loving is not so sentimental but tenaciously loyal. Even if they have affairs (and they may do so, for the male in particular is open to sensual stimulation), their first loyalty remains to spouse and family, of whom they regard themselves as the protector. Both the

    Cancerian man and woman love unreservedly, giving much and asking little in return - in fact, one of the most important lessons they have to learn is how to receive gracefully. They are too easily influenced by those they love and admire, and swayed by the emotion of the moment. They are also loyal friends, the negative side of their faithfulness being clannishness, the narrow patriotism of "my country right or wrong"; and closing ranks in suspicion and coldness toward outsiders.

    Cancerians have a retentive memory, particularly for emotionally laden events which they can recall in detail for years afterwards. they are strongly governed by childhood memories and since they live intensely in the past in memory and in the future in imagination, a chance meeting with someone for whom they had an unrequited love, even if they thought they had conquered the feeling, will easily rouse the emotion all over again.

    The Cancerian has many potential faults. They can be untidy, sulky, devious, moody, inclined to self-pity because of an inferiority complex, brood on insults (very often imagined), yet are easily flattered. They can be tactless and difficult yet, because they are normally ambitious, they will curry favor by floating with majority opinions, outlooks and fashions of the day. As a result they often change their opinions and loyalties and, indeed, their occupations, and lack stability. They are easily corrupted and, because they are convincing romanticizers, can make successful confidence tricksters. Their romanticism in another sense make them ardent supporters of causes, for example a football team with whose heroes they can identify in a world of fantasy.

    Their abilities fit the Cancerian for a wide range of occupations. As they are interested in what people are thinking and able to judge what they can safely be told, they can be good journalists, writers or politicians, though in this last capacity they are more likely to remain in the background rather than attain prominent positions of power. They may, indeed, change their party affiliations. They can serve in other departments of public affairs, especially those which involve looking after others, for example in any kind of service from welfare and nursing to catering - their own love of comfort and good living makes the Cancerian an excellent chef or housekeeper. They sometimes have a penchant for trade or business and are often successful as a captain of industry. This is because they are excellent organizers with a good sense of value and economy which they may combine with a flair for inventiveness and originality. The romantic side of their natures make them enjoy grubbing about in places where exciting discoveries may be made (old stamp collections in attics, etc.), and if they can do this professionally as a secondhand dealer or specialist in antiques, they will be happy. More common occupations which suit some subjects of Cancer are real estate broker, gardener and sailor.

    Physically they are average to below average in height, with a fleshy body and short legs in comparison with the rest of them. Their hair is usually brown, their faces round, their complexions pale, their foreheads prominent, their eyes small and blue or gray in color, their noses short, perhaps upturned, and their mouths full. They sometimes walk clumsily.

    Possible Health Concerns...

    Cancer governs the chest, breasts, elbows, stomach and digestion, womb and female reproductive organs. Cancer, which can affect any part of the body, is sometimes said to have taken its name from this sign, which can therefore afflict its subjects with imperfections anywhere. This is incorrect, however, the derivation of cancer being the Latin cancer meaning gangrene as well as crab. nevertheless, Cancerians are said to be liable to breast cancer and to suffer from pleurisy, dropsy, piles and varicose veins. The excitability mentioned above can lead to weak digestion, gastritis and other stomach ills, and there is a tendency to coughs and weakness of vision.





    Home and Country



    Aggravating situations



    Being told what to do 😉

    Advice (good or bad)


    As with all sun signs, we all have unique traits to our personalities. When these traits are suppressed, or unrealized, problems will arise. However, with astrology we can examine the problem and assess the proper solution based on the sun sign characteristics. As a Cancerian you may see things below that really strike home. Try the solution, you most likely will be amazed at the results. If you find yourself on the receiving end of the negatives below, it is because you are failing to express the positive.

    PROBLEM: You can be oversensitive and something of a clinging vine which may cause you to harbor imaginary hurts and slights, this can make for highly unsettling conditions with your spouse.

    SOLUTION: Be sure that the love you are expressing is not simply your need to hang own to someone for moral support, and if necessary, you should seek professional help in order to overcome this negative, clinging aspect of your personality.

    PROBLEM: One of your biggest personality flaws, next to neediness, is the habit of being so self absorbed that you sometimes fail to notice what others are doing and accomplishing in their lives, you feel shut out and jealous if a family member has more success than you do.

    SOLUTION: You should make a special effort to change this in yourself by forcing yourself to rejoice over their good fortune and when you do this you find that it will eventually become a habit and you as well as they will be happier for the change.

    PROBLEM: Your inability to take orders without getting angry or upset may be another one of your problems and this one could be very serious as it affects your chances of earning a good living for yourself and/or your family, since you are quite apt to walk away from any job where you feel 'picked on'.

    SOLUTION: Try keeping an ear out and find out how the ones who have been on the job for any length of time gets along with the boss and coworkers. If you follow his lead or simply decide that you will simply keep quiet and follow orders you will soon see how well you can be really liked by all concerned.

    PROBLEM: You also have a problem with putting things off until the last minute which upsets your family and friends. This also has a tendency to make an unpleasant matter even more unpleasant when you procrastinate.

    Solution: Make taking care of the business at hand your prime objective from now on for, when you do not have all those worries in the back of your mind you will find it more pleasant to be around people, and you will also find that life goes smoothly for you from then on.

    Your ruling planet is the MOON



    Mean Radius (km) 1,738

    Distance from Earth (km) 384,400

    Period of Rotation (days) 27.3217

    Some more interesting facts about your sign:

    The crab is a nocturnal water creature that is well equipped with its massive claws to defend itself and survives very well in the 'wilds' of the underwater world in which it thrives. They have also been prized for food throughout the ages. Crabs come in a variety of 'styles' and species and are found in most of the oceans of the world, as well as in many inland waters. Being a sea scavenger, the crabs help mankind by keeping our waters cleaner.

    The color for Cancer is all the shining colors of the moon SILVER

    Your starstone is the beautiful, translucent, PEARL. The Pearl can be all the silvery colors of the moon and not just white. The pearl takes on its silvery, shimmering, colors from the color of the linings of the mollusc (oyster) in which it is grown. A beautiful, perfect pearl can sell for as much as $250,000.00, so speaking of a 'pearl of great price' becomes readily understandable. This precious stone can be harmed if subjected to hair spray, acids, perspiration, and some types of cosmetics.


    There is, and always have been, a controversy over "starstones". Starstones are NOT birthstones. I give you here in these pages the stones that are called your starstones, (planet stones), which viberates the strongest to your planet or sign, NOT to the month that you were born. I would also like it if those who think they know precisely what their stone is to go to the library and reference some good Astrology books such as 'Parkers Astrology'. Sorry for the confusion, but confusion over this topic has raged for hundreds of years.

    I hope this gives u a small insight and i´d love to advice on what i learnt myself, dont let anyone say tell hint mark label u what freaks u out. I sense this has u troubled n saddened.

    U´re unique n ure not not not ever evil.

    to such do as i say, it shows more what u are as person than what u claim i am. Its an limited view n has no validation whatsoever. Sad u need to make other people feel bad in order to feel good in ur own miserable life. One feed no hunger stops.

    I hope sweetie this helps

  • I sense this has u troubled n saddened.

    Since I'm no expert on the birthday readings ordeal, it really creaps me out having some random guy say my birthday means I'm evil & miserable, when I'm always laughing & being sarcastic with jokes, & have good friends & family that I've known for nearly my whole life.

    This did help a lot though 🙂

    Thank you so much!

    I could not figure out the ending though:

    to such do as i say, it shows more what u are as person than what u claim i am. Its an limited view n has no validation whatsoever. Sad u need to make other people feel bad in order to feel good in ur own miserable life. One feed no hunger stops.

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