Online romance scams
Ahh yes, good ole' Pisces Evelyn Sophia got involved online for the past 6 weeks with what is probably a Nigerian or Russian romance scam. The person found me on Facebook..At least I got some nice roses and a cute stuffed puppy out of the deal before he asked for money and I told him to go to hell. My problem with all of this is that the supposed person was a Cancer, my best mate sign, and so loving and caring, and his numerology worked with mine..."he" was an 8 and I'm a 4. And better yet, a psychic reading I had in February of this year described him to a "T" and when I would meet him and all of that. I don't get it...how could something coming across as so atrologically perfect be a huge scam? Are the psychics in on it too? And my forever Pisces question, how do I finally find the right man and when already? I'm not getting any younger.
Readers read the ENERGY and we aint always able to pick up a scam or lie. When we read u my dear, its UR energy we pick up upon, NOT his. Astrologically seen its based on dob´s location and a generakl view, nothing in depth. Same goes for numerology.
My advice in such is, yes astro compat and numerology compat is a start a small view of what can be, it is by NO MEANS the ENTIRE PICTURE.
In end effect what MAKES A REKLATIONSHIP WORK GROW EVOLVE N SUSTAIN ARE THE PERSONALITIES THAT CLICK. NOT ur star sign or ur numbers.
Ive helped many in this choise n they like u didnt get why it looked so awesome astrologically n numerologycally but it turned to be a disaster. Sad to say like u they based it all on a small portion of the whole, n placed astrology n numerology equals to eternal love happiness and bliss forever. Totally disregarding that those 2 aint TRUELY what makes it work,
Its the PERSONS INVOLVED that MAKES IT WORK.
Im certain u have visited COUNTLESS astrology n numerology sites, asked astrologers n had numerology done, and as such im certain u as many others have NOTICED that not all astrologers n numerologist has the same to say of a given combination.
Here many AGAIN forget that astrologers are humans like we are AND most importantly they are as we are DIFFERENT INDIVIDUALS. One astrologer or numerology will say this n that signm n this or that number has a HUGE potential to make it as a loving longterm healthy wellbalanced relationship, while another will be vague and not be forthcoming enough. A 3rd may bomb it by saying it has no future whatsoever. another mayb say friendship is all i see in this combo.
I did see u got from it n said F u to that man, u used ur COMMON SENSE, ur INSTINCTS n ur INTUITION. In short ur used ya gut! Very vital.
Next time u get a mail from such a one no matter where it enters a mailbox or stuff, google the email n see if it no show in a scammers list. Last one i got was listed on several scammers lists. Lovet female senegal broad.
So Eva plz plz for ur hearts sake ............... dont rely on astrology n numerology alone. As for psychics, no we are NOT in on the scam. As STATED earlier, we read UR energy, NOT his.
On the when u get a guy, well stop looking and do ya thing. trust me it works.
best of luck
Thanks cwb. I had a bit of a time reading some of your English but I do understand what you're saying. I think a lot of people don't really know how to read what psychics give them or astrology or numerology reports. I think a lot of people think they are a bit fool-proof. Not so. Anyway, thanks for the help.
Your need to have a man in your life is actually hindering the very potential you have of finding a mate.
Well I think if we want to have a partner in this life we have to "need" it as well. I don't sit here and put my life on hold...I hever have. I am quite an accomplished musician etc. I have lived well this whole time (not rich or anything) doing "my thing." But we do need to make an effort to find a love if we're going to have it. Don't you think? In fact, when this scam happened, I had almost given up, wasn't looking on any dating websites, just doing my thing, quite happy about it, and then boom! This guy found me. I'm still wondering how he found me but that's over with now. But I do understand what you're saying. In fact, with this situation, I did tell some people (trusted people) about it. This is the first time I've ever made my "want-to-have-a-partner-in-this-life" a bit public. I've always been pretty private about it. Maybe that's what I needed to do too. And this situation, these scammers are very very good. They DO break down your defenses little by little. I'm a tough cookie to romance but somehow this guy knew how to talk to me and yadda yadda! I succumbed for almost 6 weeks. Glad it wasn't any longer. But again, maybe this situation made me make myself more open to receiving love from a partner. I have to admit...I was getting pretty closed-minded about it and giving up. I AM appreciating the responses from everyone!
EveSophia, guys peeps like that send all that bs out to many. u aint the only one. the last i had she had done it for years n to thousands. joins this n that to mail members n perster them with i need to find ladiya n i see from ur profile yaddaya n from it i believe un i can make a ladiyo thing. this gal lovet i took her email n googled it n whammon i found her on a spammerlist. to wit i mailed the newest moves of hers to the spammerlist holders to warn of others.
i suggest u dothe sasme.
all in all u learnt such approaches r not to b trusted. 1 major alarm that has to go off is country they come from. there juss some countries u instinctly know cant b legit n its all a scam.
n the trick to find it out is FULL HEADERS in the email, copy paste ip addresss n look it up in an ip look up link, thats what i do when i get scam n spam sent. that way i have a small chance of having the peep banned n kicked off by their REAL provider. '
another is reporrt em as spam even if its past. i say this bc allspam reports helps in the fight against em,. its an sick twisted plot to scam u out of money, kinda like teh dear friend i lost my husband im the queen im the yadya my husband subcumioed, im sergenat tittat u nanme it or the useral but still existing scam u have won our lottery, to win send so so n money
scammers has no conscious, all they want is to wipe u clean n they dont giver a hoot on how as long as they get their main goal. So Eve pat urself 4 not being so infatuated to handing it all over based on emails n chats alone.
i recall one, he thought he had me reeled in when he said not much to do where i am, city in desert n all i csn do it watch porn, chat n njoy myself.
i asked come on must b more to do than that even if u live in a city ion a desert, he replied no not really nothing i wanan do.
One of many who thought we western women r all rich like the Hiltons or trumps n that we´re only here to help such people from such countries.
it turns me off that peeps aint got smarts enough to change their lives n conditions they have to do it, no amount of money can help it. So b happy u turned the tables good for u. that shows smarts n guts. so dont loose that ever.
"Well I think if we want to have a partner in this life we have to "need" it as well."
Want, need is all the same. You shouldn't want or need. That was my point.
Need and want comes from spiritual emptiness. You mention you have achieved many things. Well done. Try to achieve spirituality then you will meet him, because we meet soul mates when we are in tune with the universe not the material. You can be the President but if you have not nourished the Spiritual in you, you will always be running on empty and always "needing" "wanting" someone, something to fill this hole up.
But we do need to make an effort to find a love if we're going to have it. Don't you think?"
No, no effort is needed, Put the effort in YOU and then when you are full and knowledge is yours this person will appear because he will see you don't need fuel, and he will feel comfortable in just being with you.. together, floating along.. not filling each others emptiness.. thus no disappointment will come.
THE RIGHT ONE SHOWS WHEN U AINT LOOKING WHEN URE PAST WANTING N NEEDING. I FELL FOR ONE I ONLY HAD IN MIND TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH N BADABOOM BADABING HELLO, THE SECOND WHEN ALL I WANTED WAS FUN FUN FUN HELLO N WHOWSAAAAAAA
N THIS IS WHAT I SAY, WHEN U AINT LOOKING WANTING NEEDING THE RIGHT ONE SHOWS N TRUUUUSSSTTTTT ME IVE HAD MANY RETURN AFTER THAT ADVICE N SAY CHARMED HELL GUUUURRRLLL U WAS SOOOO RIGHT. I MET THIS GUY N I WAS SO NOT LOOKING N NOW I ASK WHAT NOW, N I SAY TAKE IT EASY GO SLOW N LET TIME SHOW. IT WORKS U KNOW.
CWB...you are hilarious...very helpful but hilarious as well! And Dangala, I am actually very spiritual. I pray a lot and talk to God many times during the day, plus I am very involved with my church as well. And beside meeting the person when you least expect it, they also say to "make room" for the person in your home, even if only symbolically. So I have been throwing stuff I don't need, putting up those new drapes I was letting sit in the package for too long, cleaning like a woman-possessed...there has been a positive affect, scam or not! Maybe THAT'S what I needed in order to meet the "one." The Spirit works in strange ways! Thanks everyone for the dialogue! I really DO appreciate everyone's advice.