In love with a Scorpio man... a little insight please...



  • Hi, I was wondering if you could help me, please give me insight on what this scorpio of mine is thinking and doing please tell me.

    Well here it goes.... i have know this scorpio guy for many years but he was married and has two little boys but knew him through family and hi hello and that and we know all his family, well lest year his wife died which was very upsetting... this year end of August we were at two weddings we were both attending he was being very friendly with me and started to get close but i didnt think anything of it i didnt realise what he was doing to be honest and then he started texing me and after that we got involved how it happened i dont know we also see each other every week at this congregation we go to, well he was on text to me 24/7 on my case asking everything where im going, who with, why and all that and even asking me if i ve ad breakfast lunch and dinner every day and said he wanted to get to know me i said fine as i started to like him..... he then asked me if down the line we wanted to get married would it bother me as he has two kids I said NO and then he said what about my parents (by the way i am an indian and our parents have to agree to marriage aswell) I told him they would never accept. Even after that we still continued as i couldnt back off and he was still on my case and when he wouldnt see me he would be missing me and saying this on his texts he would also say to me " you will end up falling in love with so be carefull lol" also what was strange when he was swimming lessons with his kids for few hours and i wouldn text he would say "did you not miss me"and things like that then he wanted to meet up and we decided a day, day before we were going to meet up he cancelled it saying that " i dont think we should meet as if down that line we want to get married we cant coz of my parents and we would both end up hurt" so he broke it off I said fine, he didnt text me and i didnt text him after a week we saw each other at the congregation that we go to and he then sent me a text afterwards saying " it was nice to see me today and that he didnt realise how much he missed me" we started off again with texting and that and getting close we then finally met up and were trying to find the solution of what to do with my parents and the situation but werent able to solve it after that on the 31st october it was his wife's first death anniversary and i saw him that congration i was feeling abit embarrased because day before i went out with my friends and drink and that i texted him sayin " I love him" but he was responding very well on that day as i wasnt to sure how he would react as he hasnt told me he loves me. The next day he didnt text and i didnt as he was grieving coz of his wife and taht i though not good to text plus i dont think he wanted to either .... eveentually taht nite i texted himto ask if he was ok, he started to ask me if i was drunk when i sent him that text of i love you and i told him i wasnt he said okay, i then changed the subject after that for few days we werent in touch he wasnt in the mood to text then he texted it was baiscally on and off last week aswell, he had told me he was going away on holiday for 4 weeks so he said would be nice ot meet up before going he were suppose to meet me this monday as he was flying on wednesday this week, well just before that on text he started asking me that he wants a mother to his kids who treat them as there own and someone he can relate to as i asked what he wants......... to which i told him i will and he can judge for himself he then said " he knows i will" I then said to him as what situation hes goign thorugh my dad went through the same I also lost my mum and he knows that, i can understand very well what the kids are going through and him. well just for my reassurance and said to him end of the day i need to have a place in his heart he said " YES I DO" which i was very happy about, but i had to ask him he then just said that " I have to get your parents to agree and thats it". In his texts it always seems as he is aksing me qusetions to see how i feel and think about him WHY? cant he see it in my actions?. he als came around my house on saturday for tea with his cousins, generally as my family and his family know each other, but the reason he came over was just to start getting close to them if you know what i mean coz its my parents that will have the issue, which was very nice of him...... next day on sunday he cancelled the meet up for monday sayin hes busy and has alot of things on his mind, i was upset as you can imagine. I didnt text him on monday and tuesday, late on tuesday nite i texted him as he was going away next morning saying wish him safe journey and all that he responded to that, the next morning i didnt text at all and he texted me saying " Hey u okay, we about to take off, will see you when im back, you take care" and then another texted message saying " be good lol, bye " what did he mean by be good lol?????????. he has gone away now for 4 weeks.

    Could you please tell me what his going on thorugh his mind, what his feelings are and what he is doing exactly? i cant understand???

    I know it is bad phase at mo as its his wifes first death anniversay and probably having flash backs and that but still woudl be good to know what his going throught this Scorpion males mind and heart, as I have fallen in love with him.

    Oh also my parents and his family basically no one knows we seeing each other but if we wanted to get married his family would have no issues just my parents that is the problem.

    xx

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  • To Searching Ashes, your story sounds almost exactly the same as mine.

    I found an old 'friend' on Facebook this time last year. I had known him for 35 years and hadn't seen him for 14. We chatted everyday night and day sometimes til 6am in the morning. He old me how much he had thought of me all those years ago but was always afraid to approach me. (We did get intimate once when we were a lot younger) He became besotted with me and I him. After 6 weeks of this we met up and it was the most perfect day. He adored me and I adored him. I was in a very unhappy relationship at the time which was already ending. After 6 weeks of seeing each other, him telling me how he loved me etc. He very quickly cooled off telling me that because of past hurt he shied away from commitment. I understood this. By this time my partner and I had split. After 2 months of this cooling off (he still kept in touch, I always waited for him to make contact). All of a sudden he was back - wanting to do everything for me, help me, made excuses to come and see me. There was no love talk. We went out together but only at my suggestion he could never actually bring himself to ask me to go anywhere with him. Whether this was considered too much of a commitment to him or whether he saw it as a weakness, asking me to go somewhere with him I don't know. This all started in September and all was fine up until 6 weeks ago when he cooled right off again. We are still in touch but it's nothing like it was.. This has been a year of turmoil for me. I love him more than I have ever loved anyone and we had a real connection. I'm sure he loves me but is afraid of getting hurt. He says he's coming over to see me and then makes excuses not to. When he does come over he spends all day up until the early hours of the morning but we have not been intimate since this time last year. I know when he's with me he wants to be but it's like he gets closer and then scares himself and backs off again.

    I can't cut myself off from him. I wish I could but I can't.



  • Searching Ashes - would you please be able to do a reading for me regarding a man who is Scorpio ?

    Regards

    Jane


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