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@black-hatter-w said in Could you guys help me with the reading??:
Greetings Siarbitu,
I hope I can help you and I would interpret this card as this way:
Current situation: Hanged man/ 3 of cups Rx, 10 of wands Rx:
The current relationship is stuck in which none of you can proceed to develop as a couple. Sadly, there are restraints that you cannot control over (e.g. Do you know if he is ready for love, or if you two are ready for a relationship?). That's why both of you are currently upset with this kind of ambiguous and distant relationship. Even worse, someone may try to give up as well. After all, this hanging relationship is too tiring.
I am sorry to put the meanings to be this negative, but there is evidence:
Hanged Man means restriction. What he can do is only changing his perspective. The problem remains a problem he cannot handle.
Sun Reversed is a positive card, but, in your context, is a bit negative: Right now this relationship is pessimistic. If only you can try to bear the hardship (correspond to hanged man), then it will become a bit better.
7 of Cups Reversed is actually a neutral card. Specifically, it simply hints that the client(s) can see the truth and what options there actually are, but whether or not he will pick the right one, it is still up to him. In your context, that does not mean it is a sure positive, but rather both of you have to think if you two are compatible and available. Then you will have the result. Hanged man actually gives you the time to do so.
Overall, I would say the impression is not so good, but there is a chance. After all, there is The Sun card. However, I would suggest you to think about both of your and his situation. Sometimes, the time has not come and you cannot force it. Besides, 7 of cups reminds you there are issues you (and him) has not thought through. Therefore, the tarot suggests you to be patient and think.
I hope my information can be of any use of yours. Bless you and good luck.
He is currently dating a girl now. So there is nothing between us, and I see that we should be just friend. Our friendship might grow stronger but that's matter of time. Thanks a lot.
@anamikabhalla said in Could you guys help me with the reading??:
@siarbitu -Hi! Since you asked HOW HE THINKS OF YOU, and The Hanged Man, Reversed 3 of cups and Reversed 10 of wands is the answer, it clearly means that from his point of view, his communication with you started sometime after you joined that workplace, not immediately. He likes you being around but you guys haven't socialized much outside work according to the 3 of Cups Reversed. If you ask him to go grab a beer or 2, the answer won't be a No as the friendship is very clear here.
And if your friendship grows stronger with him, there is a strong possibility of happy times in the long run according to the 10 of Wands Reversed. You both can never be in a power struggle ever!
You just took the question from his point of view but ended up answering things for yourself. That is where you went wrong. Now if you look at those cards again from the perspective of what he thinks about you, you will clearly see through!!
This is very accurate! I met him a long time before actually talking to him. (I mean really talking, not hello and hi) Yes we haven't socialise much outside our works. And yes about beer. In fact, he actually asked me to drink with him once at party. Anyway, I see your point regarding that. And it's accurate. Very.
Thanks for the insight about reading. I did take on my perspective when reading his. I shouldn't have done that. Thanks!!