it seems like you really love him and care alot about him but i think you should if its even a bit overwhelming

People born with Venus in Sagittarius live for adventure. They value freedom and are high spirited and candid. They're sensitive to any kind of limits on their movements, and if their partner is more security-minded, they might find that tough to take. There's a defiant edge to Venus Sagittarius, as they move freely and seek variety in love and among friends. They can be a tease at times and can appear light-hearted in relationships. But they also recognize and are drawn to people who are purely motivated and will be turned off by potential lovers who are somehow sketchy or non-committal. It's easy for other people to be with them since they're so jovial and fun. They're very social, and want to experience everything firsthand, preferably with other free spirits. Sagittarius is a sign "sans frontiers," and anyone with this sign in Venus will want to broaden their horizons through travel, and they enjoy meeting people from diverse cultures. They like to philosophize and explore the world of ideas with other inspired minds. Love and Dating The social calendar of a Venus Sagittarius is often full because they are a collector of friends and lovers. Often they're one and the same since having a strong friendship is important to them in love. They're not into emotional drama and will hightail it out of a heavy or over-analyzed relationship. Play, travel, soaking up the nightlife, discussing world cultures - these things bond them to a partner-in-adventure. It may take a while before they commit to one person, and their experimental side means they'll be curious about all things sexual (especially for a Scorpion). They'll play the field for a long time, as part of their overall quest for experience. Jovial Friends They are likely that person who waves to all their "friends" as they're walking down the street. And they're always meeting new ones, because of their outgoing, curious nature. Friendships enlarge their world, and with their global focus, they could end up with friends in every port. They're idealistic, and can be a source of inspiration for others. Some might doubt their sincerity since they cast such a wide net, and they tend to singe more sensitive types with their too-blunt honesty. They're compatible with those on the go, ready for adventure, without the need for a whole lot of emotional bonding. The Big Attraction They've got a friendly demeanor that opens doors and makes people take notice. Usually, they're joking and having fun, and people want to be part of that. It's easy for them to get to know people, and this often leads them to make romantic liaisons quickly. They're someone who can make dating fun since they're so light about it all. They may be quick to get intimate, but that doesn't mean they're ready for one partner. Some might not understand their need for complete freedom, mostly from emotional entanglements. The right partner will have their own 'joie de vivre' and be as active as the Venus in Sag person. Creative Expression There could be many outlets for their spontaneous style - music, comedy, storytelling, theatre, etc. They'd make an engaging teacher since their students would appreciate the mix of intellectualism and humour. Winning Their Heart When Venus in Sagittarius is looking for love, they're looking for someone who can expose them to new experiences. Their travels might be where they find many of their lovers. In fact, they may even end up with someone from a different culture entirely. They have a tendency to idealize their mate, but it's a long, hard fall for the lover when they turn out to be less than perfect. It's not hard to win Venus in Sag as a casual partner, but getting them to commit is usually a matter both of timing, and the other person having most of the right stuff. It's important for Venus in Sag to seek out those also looking for adventure, variety, freedom, or they're liable to unwittingly break a few hearts along the way.

This makes a better friendship than a love affair. The strongly sympathetic and understanding attitudes that appear in this relationship can give it an atmosphere of trust. Private matters can be kept that way without threat of revelation. The downside of this is a heightened sensitivity to betrayals of confidence in any form, so that as trusting as it is, the relationship simultaneously contains a suspicious undertone. Certain tendencies will have to be monitored carefully, notably those leading to excessive privatization of feelings and consequent isolation from social interaction. Widening the circle of relationship to include others is essential here, not only to enrich the primary relationship itself but to learn the lesson of sharing in a wider social and universal sense. A love affair, although understanding, may fail to ignite flames of passion or touch deeper layers of emotion. Marriage may not be that successful either, partly because your love interest needs to nurture and you are self-reliant and can have difficulties accepting his nurturing. Having children is not recommended here, either.

@OzzieLou The Fool can talk also about it being a risk, it could mean that you could take a risk within the situation... For me my first thoughts when I looked at these cards ... Of maybe a situation that was inherited, or it felt maybe the relationship with you was a pattern from the past on some level... He may of thought it was a relationship that was tempered , it may have not felt like it was one way or the other... Moderate on some level ... The Biggest challenge maybe about the youthful creative energy on some level of the relationship , maybe the messages he felt from within. so he felt the relationship maybe a risk to be taken or maybe it could feel as though the relationship is risky ... The outcome could also speak of a reminder to have fun, be free-spirited... maybe it is time for some laughter in your own lives.... Some thoughts into what the cards could speak of .... What deck do you use?

@Tauruslily This is a challenging relationship for marriage. A love affair here can be physically satisfying, to say the least. This relationship however will not be without combative elements, which, however, are not completely negative in effect; instead, they can heighten the intensity and raise the stakes - victory can be an important theme here. Strangely enough, although this kind of striving generally asserts a priority over kindness, love and consideration, it does not preclude them. Should the relationship break up as a consequence of one of these struggles, the two of you may show true compassion for each other, and sadness rather than exultation will likely be the dominant feeling. Marriage here is likely to lack the intensity of the love affair, but it can certainly be more relaxed and pleasant enough. You TL will suffer terrible bewilderment when power struggles do arise, since you likely haven’t yet built up anything like your husband's tough, enduring and resilient attitude. An unspoken truce should therefore periodically be put into effect at such times. But it will be time to end this relationship if power struggles cannot be brought under control.

Other than friendship, I’m not sure where the two of you stand. Are you dating or co-workers spending time together? If you are pressing for a relationship and he is resisting, that’s not a good sign. Something is holding him back, whether it’s past hurts or if he has doubts. If this is it, then imo, don’t wait for too much longer. If he knows this is what you want and he wants it too, then he wouldn’t take that long to initiate.

Birth Dates please?

@Elke hi I actually asked a professional reader and I got the outcome just recently I had a new spread. So it was there interpretation . I am not picking the cards myself as I figured I am too emotionally invested. I remember you did a reading and informed me there is someone in his life and it appears there isn’t but that time I picked the cards.So it’s becoming very confusing. These set of cards have as well been picked by a professional reader and she advised me to go with my gut , my gut says wait

@thecaptain Being with my friends during the time he left aligned at a perfect time and I’m accepting the fact I deserve way better, sorry but Aquarius are not for me.. never again.

@lshtd update, she started to post replies again to her story, and it was more direct and she literally said "i love you" in one post and another saying "im going to have to love you from a distance" and then samg a song about being in pain but being in love... and i guess those were her closing remarks about how she felt and then she stopped stalking the account... I don't know if that was a signal to say something, or that she was done, or that shed say something...

Hi @Stardust95 It could be that one of them is having 'romantic fantasies' about the other and may be considering pursuing it further.

Can I please get a love reading for me and my partner. The date are June 21 81 and May 11 69 thank you

@nellau58 So you just pulled 3 cards? If the last card was outcome, what did the other 2 represent? Also, do you allow for reversals or just upright? Lastly, what deck did you use? My interpretations are based on Rider Waite imagery..,

@rochelle Journey to the Crossroads Tarot .... Ace of Cups , Three of Wands and Six of Swords ... Together they speak of new relationships, a sense of acknowledging the journey you are now taking and moving onto the unknown as you leave behind the chaos (Mental perspectives ) While above .. Knight of Wands, The Sun and Five of Swords .... These three cards speak of observation, hesitation, getting all the info first before action is taken, A sense of finding inner peace, a vulnerability as things are exposed into the light .... knowing as battles may be won you may find it is a hollow win within .... a win with no real satisfaction... And what ties it together is the potential of self, your own possibilities .. What is your own potential at this time in either path you take ? What will have happen within the potential of this relationship? will it be the same as before or will there be a potential for something quite different ..... We begin with the Flag, the Soldier and the birds ... This is about standing up for your own beliefs, knowing there may be battles to be won... as you speak your truth ..... Next we have ladder, child and pine trees Reminding as we can move ahead with small steps , Celebrating each time we achieve results ... Next watermelon, frog and Cello ... Things are not always as they seem, is there doubt to validity of the situation? overall ... this is about your decision, I can advise you but it is up to you ... Hope this reading gives you insight,, with reflection and contemplation you will find your answers ....

@mp3190 lol ... ok .. thanks, will check it out.

@cece190 you are not alone is feeling like this. take care of yourself

@cece190 You deserve better than to be his shoulder to lean on and emotional comfort while he sorts himself out, while you hurt in the process. Distance and space is important for your healing, as much as you care about him. Maybe you two can stay friends after some time has passed and youv'e had some distance.

i see it as more of a friendship or a buisness relationship... exchange... maybe not about love but more about important life events or achieving something for personal growth that you both shared. it is a come and go relationship maybe one that you learned from or created something from that you keep with you somehow.