@em07 Darn this forum is going to turn me into a Love reader. I'm with Watergirl18 on this one. However, I'm gonna slam the brakes on for a moment. I just want to point out the obvious - food for thought. So the reversed 5 of Swords didn't tell you anything you didn't already know. It caught your attention, just like the dream caught your attention . . . So then you pulled another card. LO AND BEHOLD It's THE LOVERS ! ! ! So let me get this straight. This is the third time you've pulled this Major Arcane card and all you can think about is him? Not once have you thought about what's best for you or your future - am I correct? This is the Card that wants your attention. This is the card that wants you to focus on you. My advise is forget about the obvious, forget about him, shuffle those cards and listen to what The Lovers is really trying to tell you.. Good luck girl