@PeťaKubi Hi I hope you don't mind if I see if I can try and sort this problem out for you. I would just like to ask you a question, “why ask the cards about your partner” when you can ask your partner directly? Either you are sensing or know that something is wrong in your relationship or because suspicion has raised its uggly head and you need answers, then confront them and leave the Tarot cards for more important issues in your life. The Tarot cards will always answer in a truthful way because they sense our subconscious memory and just by thinking they will pick up on those thoughts and react accordingly. When doing face-to-face readings and the client asks what they think is a fair and typical question about their partner, they don't really understand how their thoughts are influencing the cards. I have done a full reading using your cards and the theme is love and emotions, with five cup cards in the reading. That must indicate something, you have to look at the whole picture which includes a story which you need to be able to interpret. I think you may have got yourself a little worked up when the 5 of Cups appeared. It doesn't always mean doom and gloom, when the tall dark, shadowy figure turns up, no! If I was to take the divinatory meanings literally:- It is a card of loss, but something remains over; three have been taken, but two are left; it is a card of inheritance, patrimony, transmission, but not corresponding to expectations; with some interpreters it is a card of marriage, but not without bitterness or frustration. What is the panic about? You have the Ace of Cups which is going to wipe all the negative cards away in one sweep. There isn't even a Major card on the table and so most of what is being shown to you is all everyday stuff. Just like you would get any kind of partnership/relationship. Everyday ups and downs and nothing more. If you really do need to ask this kind of question then try a different spread that will give you a more understanding of the relationship. Something like a (Needs and Wants) spread. Nine cards, arranged in 3 columns. First column=Needs, middle=Outcome, last column=Wants. Lay the cards, left to right, 1, 2, 3, then 4, 5, 6, and 7, 8, 9. Or turn it into a (My needs versus Their needs) spread. If you are still not sure then the only thing I can suggest is, ask your partner the question directly. I nearly forgot! The 7 of Cups, it generally depicts CHOICES. So make your choice. I hope you and your partner have a very long and happy future together.

Too fast, too soon - this is headed for disaster if you don't pull out. Are you sure he isn't married or otherwise partnered?

If you, and not the cards, are creating your future (if that is your perspective), then what about focusing more on what is good in your life? So that you can get more of it. (That's not too easy sometimes, I agree.)

@magicstar999 The Devil card could remind you that you could be repeating habits that may not be good for you , this could be an addiction for you on some level ... There is a need for transformation, changes , moving quickly ahead, there may be a block or delay in seeing the truth, speaking your own truth ... Some quick thoughts , there may be layers you may need to meditate on ...

From a psychological stand point, it sounds like he's trying to hide things from you when he is upset. He doesn't want to burden with the things going on his personal life, and he may even fear commitment. I can recall before my boyfriend and I got together, he was terrified of commitment, and he claimed that he was afraid that he'd scare me away with all the problems that he had at the time. It sounds like you two just need to sit down and have a chat with each other. It sounds like both of you need to have a long serious talk and tell each other nothing but the truth. (Almost like a little therapy session) I guarantee that you two will learn a lot about each other. Tarot Reading You are wallowing in your own sadness. (Reversed Five of Cups) You are allowing yourself to feel guilt and pain in this situation. You are allowing him to hurt you without thinking about it. What you can do to try to fix it is by finding an equal balance for both of you. (Reversed Temperance) You both seem to lack equality in this relationship. This could be due to you two feeling differently about each other, or one of you is not putting in the same amount of effort that the other is. Find this balance in your relationship because if you don't then this can cause your relationship with this man to crumble more, and it can make it even more difficult to build new relationships. (Reversed Three of Cups)

Sometimes the cards don't always answer our questions but show how we feel about the situation being asked. I think you might have some anxiety about the pregnancy and that might be showing in the cards with the seven of swords, the reversed sun, and the page of swords. You just need to relax and enjoy the pregnancy and handle whatever bumps might come in the way.

Hi MelanieJadee, Be aware of what you are feeling even the small things. As you practice and learn you will get the same feelings again...this way you can learn what they are telling you. It takes time and as you learn, and you figure what works for you... so have fun, but also learn to let go when it is over... other wise it can be draining.

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@OzzieLou said in 2 options- check my interpretation: Option 1: A card representing it: tower Positive aspect: empress Challenge: chariot Outcome: ace of wands For me I see Option 1 as the option that seems to say everything is all shook up, it asks you surrender and be given the opportunity to rebuild things as you desire, to bring things into fruition bringing abundance, the challenge maybe because of the direction you must move in, whether you feel like you are moving too quickly or slowly? or are you still in contemplation. Is there the possibility of Success.. There is possible outcome of a breakthrough, a new venture, enterprise to the situation.... Option 2: A card representing it: page of cups Positive aspect: 3 of pentacles Challenge: knight of cups Outcome: 3 of cups I look at Option 2 as being one that you may feel easily wounded, hurt by what others feel about the situation, you will be recognized as being part of team but yet do you really want to accept the news that could be received, we have no idea whether positive or negative news but yet the outcome does speak of a reason to celebrate ..... Ultimately the decision must be yours to make .... Which deck did you use? as imagery can hold clues for the reading..

Although this will be challenging for a love affair, if you can make it to marriage, it may sort itself out. But there will be struggle and difficulties before that. There is a natural sympathy between you, but also a competition over who will be the centre of attention. This can be dealt with if each person sacrifices ego needs for the good of the relationship, concentrating on making the relationship itself shine in a circle of friends or family. Thus a divisive tendency can instead become a unifying theme, turning a weakness into a strength. Another example of positive metamorphosis here can appear in the financial sphere, where the two of you (who tend to be spendthrifts, or who are unrealistic about long-range investments), can do a turnaround as a duo, together showing financial astuteness and good sense. A love affair here is a notable area in which competition for attention can divide you and create open conflict. Needs and demands of this kind can get out of hand, and if the two of you fail to receive attention from each other, you may be forced to seek it elsewhere. This can undermine the relationship’s stability, and in a worst-case scenario, can destroy it. Friendship and marriage are probably the most likely setup between you to be successful in transforming egotistical drives. In these kinds of relationship, the two of you may be eminently qualified to serve as a progressive force for change, a refuge for others in times of need and a dependable anchor in providing economic stability. Your refusal Jsummerbabe to make rules governing the actions of those you live and work with can be helpful in avoiding conflict here, for this kind of attitude is essential for this man's happiness and productivity. But beware of being too permissive with him and letting him have too much of his own way. He needs disciplining because he often lacks self-discipline himself. He also tends to be more comfortable alone than with someone. He can fall passionately hot in love one day, only to change his mind and blow cold the next day. He also has trouble staying calm and in control when things don’t go his way. Given the extremes to which he is prone, this man child needs to receive unconditional love and support from those who are close to him, although he also needs firmness. Once he knows what he can and cannot get away with, he will be much less likely to look elsewhere and will remain fairly stable in a relationship. But he can also have trouble knowing when to stop when he is having a good time and this can cover partying, food, drugs, sex, smoking and drinking.

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@kris23 Ace of Wands. 8of Wands, Reversed. Knight of Swords. Knight of Swords Guy. He is a intellectual type, who doesn’t mind a smart argument. very socially oriented. loves to be mixing With his group of friends. Always on the go. A type of take it or leave it guy. 8 of Wands, Reversed. The relationship seemed to be not going anywhere in the end. Things seemed to slow down. The fire had died between you both.There was no more joy, enthusiasm and spark in the relationship. Ace of Wands. The potential for a feel good relationship and a possible future was there to begin with. In Summary: The relationship started out good to begin with, but then the disagreements started and things went south from there. The Feelings you both shared before had changed and the relationship was going no where.

@lshtd update, she started to post replies again to her story, and it was more direct and she literally said "i love you" in one post and another saying "im going to have to love you from a distance" and then samg a song about being in pain but being in love... and i guess those were her closing remarks about how she felt and then she stopped stalking the account... I don't know if that was a signal to say something, or that she was done, or that shed say something...

@taurusssun a quick summary .... Which deck did you use for the reading as the imagery can hold clues to the message also? The World- speaks of farewell, moving into a new cycle.... can also be moving to a new house, a new place..... King of Pentacles ... yes an Earthy Male ... but can also speak of practical business application on some level.... Death - transformation through endings ... letting go, surrendering, releasing ,,,,, Five of Wands can speak of battles, fights...... on some level Wheel of fortune- lives ups and downs,,, acceptance of what may be in that moment..... going round and round. decisions yet to be made.... Three of Swords can speak of heart broken ..... betrayal ..... causing a sense of self growth .... Knight of Wands can speak of hesitation, observation before action taken... can also speak of a youthful player, a passionate youthful man ..... without seeing the cards and knowing if you actually used a specific spread (cards in certain positions) these are suggestions to what the cards could mean ....