From a psychological stand point, it sounds like he's trying to hide things from you when he is upset. He doesn't want to burden with the things going on his personal life, and he may even fear commitment. I can recall before my boyfriend and I got together, he was terrified of commitment, and he claimed that he was afraid that he'd scare me away with all the problems that he had at the time. It sounds like you two just need to sit down and have a chat with each other. It sounds like both of you need to have a long serious talk and tell each other nothing but the truth. (Almost like a little therapy session) I guarantee that you two will learn a lot about each other. Tarot Reading You are wallowing in your own sadness. (Reversed Five of Cups) You are allowing yourself to feel guilt and pain in this situation. You are allowing him to hurt you without thinking about it. What you can do to try to fix it is by finding an equal balance for both of you. (Reversed Temperance) You both seem to lack equality in this relationship. This could be due to you two feeling differently about each other, or one of you is not putting in the same amount of effort that the other is. Find this balance in your relationship because if you don't then this can cause your relationship with this man to crumble more, and it can make it even more difficult to build new relationships. (Reversed Three of Cups)

Sometimes the cards don't always answer our questions but show how we feel about the situation being asked. I think you might have some anxiety about the pregnancy and that might be showing in the cards with the seven of swords, the reversed sun, and the page of swords. You just need to relax and enjoy the pregnancy and handle whatever bumps might come in the way.

Hi MelanieJadee, Be aware of what you are feeling even the small things. As you practice and learn you will get the same feelings again...this way you can learn what they are telling you. It takes time and as you learn, and you figure what works for you... so have fun, but also learn to let go when it is over... other wise it can be draining.

@ToriDori @ScorpVirgo Thank you for giving me all these insights about a cancer men .I could see the similarities in them . I’m dealing with a cancer man myself for 5 years . Been together for one and a half years , best time of my life . On n off later , i am aware that it is super toxic but I’m still unable to let him go I was given a silent treatment because he said was being pushy ( because I was trying to understand what was in his mind ) . It seemed like he is still holding a grudge on things I did bfr we broke up. He told me that he won’t be engaging with me because I was pushy. It was almost 3 weeks now and he is still upset. I don’t know how much time I should give it . I’m getting tired

@OzzieLou said in 2 options- check my interpretation: Option 1: A card representing it: tower Positive aspect: empress Challenge: chariot Outcome: ace of wands For me I see Option 1 as the option that seems to say everything is all shook up, it asks you surrender and be given the opportunity to rebuild things as you desire, to bring things into fruition bringing abundance, the challenge maybe because of the direction you must move in, whether you feel like you are moving too quickly or slowly? or are you still in contemplation. Is there the possibility of Success.. There is possible outcome of a breakthrough, a new venture, enterprise to the situation.... Option 2: A card representing it: page of cups Positive aspect: 3 of pentacles Challenge: knight of cups Outcome: 3 of cups I look at Option 2 as being one that you may feel easily wounded, hurt by what others feel about the situation, you will be recognized as being part of team but yet do you really want to accept the news that could be received, we have no idea whether positive or negative news but yet the outcome does speak of a reason to celebrate ..... Ultimately the decision must be yours to make .... Which deck did you use? as imagery can hold clues for the reading..

Although this will be challenging for a love affair, if you can make it to marriage, it may sort itself out. But there will be struggle and difficulties before that. There is a natural sympathy between you, but also a competition over who will be the centre of attention. This can be dealt with if each person sacrifices ego needs for the good of the relationship, concentrating on making the relationship itself shine in a circle of friends or family. Thus a divisive tendency can instead become a unifying theme, turning a weakness into a strength. Another example of positive metamorphosis here can appear in the financial sphere, where the two of you (who tend to be spendthrifts, or who are unrealistic about long-range investments), can do a turnaround as a duo, together showing financial astuteness and good sense. A love affair here is a notable area in which competition for attention can divide you and create open conflict. Needs and demands of this kind can get out of hand, and if the two of you fail to receive attention from each other, you may be forced to seek it elsewhere. This can undermine the relationship’s stability, and in a worst-case scenario, can destroy it. Friendship and marriage are probably the most likely setup between you to be successful in transforming egotistical drives. In these kinds of relationship, the two of you may be eminently qualified to serve as a progressive force for change, a refuge for others in times of need and a dependable anchor in providing economic stability. Your refusal Jsummerbabe to make rules governing the actions of those you live and work with can be helpful in avoiding conflict here, for this kind of attitude is essential for this man's happiness and productivity. But beware of being too permissive with him and letting him have too much of his own way. He needs disciplining because he often lacks self-discipline himself. He also tends to be more comfortable alone than with someone. He can fall passionately hot in love one day, only to change his mind and blow cold the next day. He also has trouble staying calm and in control when things don’t go his way. Given the extremes to which he is prone, this man child needs to receive unconditional love and support from those who are close to him, although he also needs firmness. Once he knows what he can and cannot get away with, he will be much less likely to look elsewhere and will remain fairly stable in a relationship. But he can also have trouble knowing when to stop when he is having a good time and this can cover partying, food, drugs, sex, smoking and drinking.

Hi .. Learning Tarot can be such a process and can be different for all of us as we all learn very differently.. Choosing a deck that speaks volumes to you is important. For me I started with the Native American Tarot by Magda Weck Gonzales. I began by learning 2-3 keywords at a time per card and started by working with no more than 3 cards at a time in a spread. and slowly was able to increase to larger spreads. By practicing I was able to do readings for others in a variety of environments.. This was a very slow journey and it took time to fully understand how the cards merge together in a reading, depending on layouts, spreads used, questions asked etc ... The best book was a companion book with the deck, or even the LWB can be a great starting point to begin the journey fo self-discovery... Another great way to learn the cards is through meditation, reflection, in a journal describe the image of the card.. let the card tell you a story.. What does the character look like, what does the character say, what does the character do before, during and afterwards? Or take a moment to Write down the Fool's Journey through the Major Arcana then through each suit ... This is one way to get to know the cards personally ... There are so many amazing books to read and work through the exercises.. discovering what works for you is so personal.. There are amazing resources available through this site, with the meanings available to read. and lots of people who can answer questions ... Some recommendations include any books by Rachel Pollack, Mary K Greer, Melissa Cynova, Benebell Wen (with Holistic Tarot a great resource manual ) , plus so many others . Depending on what your purpose for reading Tarot is and how much time and study you want to put into it ... even after 20+ years I am still learning to improve my readings for others.. There are some incredible channels on Youtube that share a wealth of info as well ... Take your time, keep a journal and build your knowledge slowly over time ... Take care

@kris23 Ace of Wands. 8of Wands, Reversed. Knight of Swords. Knight of Swords Guy. He is a intellectual type, who doesn’t mind a smart argument. very socially oriented. loves to be mixing With his group of friends. Always on the go. A type of take it or leave it guy. 8 of Wands, Reversed. The relationship seemed to be not going anywhere in the end. Things seemed to slow down. The fire had died between you both.There was no more joy, enthusiasm and spark in the relationship. Ace of Wands. The potential for a feel good relationship and a possible future was there to begin with. In Summary: The relationship started out good to begin with, but then the disagreements started and things went south from there. The Feelings you both shared before had changed and the relationship was going no where.

@lshtd update, she started to post replies again to her story, and it was more direct and she literally said "i love you" in one post and another saying "im going to have to love you from a distance" and then samg a song about being in pain but being in love... and i guess those were her closing remarks about how she felt and then she stopped stalking the account... I don't know if that was a signal to say something, or that she was done, or that shed say something...

@taurusssun a quick summary .... Which deck did you use for the reading as the imagery can hold clues to the message also? The World- speaks of farewell, moving into a new cycle.... can also be moving to a new house, a new place..... King of Pentacles ... yes an Earthy Male ... but can also speak of practical business application on some level.... Death - transformation through endings ... letting go, surrendering, releasing ,,,,, Five of Wands can speak of battles, fights...... on some level Wheel of fortune- lives ups and downs,,, acceptance of what may be in that moment..... going round and round. decisions yet to be made.... Three of Swords can speak of heart broken ..... betrayal ..... causing a sense of self growth .... Knight of Wands can speak of hesitation, observation before action taken... can also speak of a youthful player, a passionate youthful man ..... without seeing the cards and knowing if you actually used a specific spread (cards in certain positions) these are suggestions to what the cards could mean ....

@lavender Hi .... Sorry took so long to reply to this .... took time out for self healing now back and am able to take some time to share my thoughts ..... Wheel of Fortune can ask us whether we believe in destiny or fate? Do you accept we have ups and downs in our lives? what decisions can we make to stop going round and round? 6 of Wands can speak of success, victory after a lot of battles and struggles... we have finally got the chance to be proud of what we have achieved, even when others do not believe in us.... we can hold our head high as we walk ahead....... Ace of Wand reminds us of our own inner spark, that creative fire waiting to burst forth ... it is up to us to believe we can take action.. at this moment it seems dormant within us, it is a thought, an idea waiting to burst into a creative project on some level ..... Hoped this gives you some ideas to what the cards can mean.... What deck did you use? as the imagery can give clues to other messages within the reading...

Good luck in whatever path you chose! I hope you find the happiness you deserve Xx

I think they mirror the situation you describe fairly well. You are wondering whether your decision was a rash one and are presently feeling oppressed in your current position, which contradicts your expectations. Although, the reason for this feeling is somewhat unclear. I am wondering if you are worried that this is confirming that you made the wrong decision? I don't think that is what I would take away from this. I would suggest being patient during this time of transition, and doing a little soul searching until the reason you are feeling unsatisfied becomes apparent. Metaphorically, you are waiting for the night to pass. I hope it all works out for you. Take care.

Can I please get a love reading for me and my partner. The date are June 21 81 and May 11 69 thank you