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Although this will be challenging for a love affair, if you can make it to marriage, it may sort itself out. But there will be struggle and difficulties before that. There is a natural sympathy between you, but also a competition over who will be the centre of attention. This can be dealt with if each person sacrifices ego needs for the good of the relationship, concentrating on making the relationship itself shine in a circle of friends or family. Thus a divisive tendency can instead become a unifying theme, turning a weakness into a strength. Another example of positive metamorphosis here can appear in the financial sphere, where the two of you (who tend to be spendthrifts, or who are unrealistic about long-range investments), can do a turnaround as a duo, together showing financial astuteness and good sense.
A love affair here is a notable area in which competition for attention can divide you and create open conflict. Needs and demands of this kind can get out of hand, and if the two of you fail to receive attention from each other, you may be forced to seek it elsewhere. This can undermine the relationship’s stability, and in a worst-case scenario, can destroy it. Friendship and marriage are probably the most likely setup between you to be successful in transforming egotistical drives. In these kinds of relationship, the two of you may be eminently qualified to serve as a progressive force for change, a refuge for others in times of need and a dependable anchor in providing economic stability. Your refusal Jsummerbabe to make rules governing the actions of those you live and work with can be helpful in avoiding conflict here, for this kind of attitude is essential for this man's happiness and productivity. But beware of being too permissive with him and letting him have too much of his own way. He needs disciplining because he often lacks self-discipline himself. He also tends to be more comfortable alone than with someone. He can fall passionately hot in love one day, only to change his mind and blow cold the next day. He also has trouble staying calm and in control when things don’t go his way. Given the extremes to which he is prone, this man child needs to receive unconditional love and support from those who are close to him, although he also needs firmness. Once he knows what he can and cannot get away with, he will be much less likely to look elsewhere and will remain fairly stable in a relationship. But he can also have trouble knowing when to stop when he is having a good time and this can cover partying, food, drugs, sex, smoking and drinking.
