Other than friendship, I’m not sure where the two of you stand. Are you dating or co-workers spending time together? If you are pressing for a relationship and he is resisting, that’s not a good sign. Something is holding him back, whether it’s past hurts or if he has doubts. If this is it, then imo, don’t wait for too much longer. If he knows this is what you want and he wants it too, then he wouldn’t take that long to initiate.

@lshtd update, she started to post replies again to her story, and it was more direct and she literally said "i love you" in one post and another saying "im going to have to love you from a distance" and then samg a song about being in pain but being in love... and i guess those were her closing remarks about how she felt and then she stopped stalking the account... I don't know if that was a signal to say something, or that she was done, or that shed say something...

Good luck in whatever path you chose! I hope you find the happiness you deserve Xx

@cece190 You deserve better than to be his shoulder to lean on and emotional comfort while he sorts himself out, while you hurt in the process. Distance and space is important for your healing, as much as you care about him. Maybe you two can stay friends after some time has passed and youv'e had some distance.