@OJ thank you so much for your advice, it really helps me to keep going. He had ask for space and i let him be, after a week, he finally asked me to video call him and since then we are progressing i guess. In a few months after this covid lockdown I'm really rooting to see him in person, and i hope that will help us both. Thank you for your support! Best wishes to you!

@OJ I was just looking here. My boyfriend is a cancer. But I think it seems like this guy you have been seeing, maybe he is insecure and not sure about how serious he wants to get in the relationship? My boyfriend isnt hot and cold with his feelings. But when he wants to do some work he wants a little space so he can work on a project. Which I do things for myself then or hang out with my kiddos. But we still talk and hang out. Cause we live together. When he is done with his work then we reward ourselves with a movie or dinner, like a date night. I am sorry I feel like I am rambling...Good luck with it all. I hope you can figure out where to go. I saw you wrote a letter too. That's good cause that will help you to organize your thoughts. Good luck with everything:)

Birth Dates please?

@thecaptain thank you Captain. What you're saying makes completely sense. Even though it is hard, I have decided to move on. I could never understand his behaviour and his indirect ways, but regardless I tried my hardest and being understanding. And knowing I tried my best with this men gives me peace at the same time. Thanks once again.

Cancer men are notorious for this sort of behaviour and it usually means that he doesn't want to commit to you, likely because you don't resemble his mother closely enough.. That is who he is really looking for - a mother.

@jayann why are you answering for leolady?