@Gemini0602 You're right with your decision.STAY PUT. This man sure have his baggages from the past and cancerians tend to dwell on the past. You better move on with your life. Always remember MENTAL HEALTH comes first no matter what. ️

@TheCaptain that is true. I don’t want to lose him and he has come back before and if he does it once he’ll most likely do it again. I’m just confused with all the things he is doing. I’ve been researching about using signs and why he does the things he does but I’m not sure what to do and I’ve been giving him space and when I do that he comes back which is even more confusing

@Gemini0602 I do not do readings so used other websites You can be a harmonious couple if you pay attention to leave enough free space to each other when you are striving for your own careers. You have much in common, such as strong personalities, stubbornness, perseverance and challenge. Your common life goals bring you together. Both of you are intelligent, energetic and have strong desire for dominance. Even the female dragon is willing to make the decisions on her own instead of being shielded. https://www.travelchinaguide.com/intro/social_customs/zodiac/compatibility-test.htm?u1=Cancer&u2=Gemini&d1=2000-06-27&d2=2000-06-02 I have someone else does the reading for you. Please remember that there is free well in everything.

It sounds like he has really lost interest and when a Cancerian does that, he rarely comes back. Gemini and Cancer are not usually a good match.

@Gemini0602 this relationship’s search may ultimately be for personal values that the two of you can share. A love affair can start off well, but may quickly nose-dive when you fly off to your next adventure, leaving this man bored and unhappy. When you finally call, his reply will be full of guilt-inducing pain. Consolation, kissing and making up will work until the predictable cycle begins once again. The combination can work out well in the practical sphere, however, since your efficiency and his money sense are an effective combination. Building a domestic situation together, or seeking value in a religious or spiritual pursuit or success in a mutual career endeavor, can fulfill some of the relationship’s needs. But emotionally the relationship can be a disaster, and all these wonderful plans may grind to a halt as this man falls into a pit of despair and you stand by helplessly, nervous and acutely frustrated. Tensions will rise, arguments and resentments will fly, and painful breakdowns will result. It is not a good cycle to get locked into. This could never be a harmonious romance.

@Leebie23373 thank you for the advice, I will go check it out now

@TheCaptain for now I’m working on myself. I needed to do it along time ago. I even thought of in the starting of my move up North. I got to fix certain things and I got to help myself. I will be his close friend and I’m there for him. I care and love him a lot. I have a strong love for people I care for. Wait for him? yes but even right now. I’m not even thinking of relationships or anything about that right now. That’s not my goal, my goal is to help myself first. I love him but I have to worry what’s next for me. Health/Work/Money… I’m here as support like he is with me. He told me bad news about his friend disappointing him about not being a roommate anymore. He wanted to save money and try to balance out his financial stuff. The only advice I gave him was.. live alone and find a studio. I can help him find one if he likes me to.

@OJ thank you so much for your advice, it really helps me to keep going. He had ask for space and i let him be, after a week, he finally asked me to video call him and since then we are progressing i guess. In a few months after this covid lockdown I'm really rooting to see him in person, and i hope that will help us both. Thank you for your support! Best wishes to you!

Believe it or not, but I also had a hard time coping with cancer. Moreover, I could not accept this disease and I had a very long stage of denial. I thought that I would not be able to recover, but the doctor prescribed me therapy that made me remission. I was also prescribed a prescription for the use of marijuana. It was very helpful. You can check this out to find out what alternatives for your country or state you can find.

Birth Dates please?

@thecaptain thank you Captain. What you're saying makes completely sense. Even though it is hard, I have decided to move on. I could never understand his behaviour and his indirect ways, but regardless I tried my hardest and being understanding. And knowing I tried my best with this men gives me peace at the same time. Thanks once again.

Cancer men are notorious for this sort of behaviour and it usually means that he doesn't want to commit to you, likely because you don't resemble his mother closely enough.. That is who he is really looking for - a mother.

@jayann why are you answering for leolady?