@TheCaptain for now I’m working on myself. I needed to do it along time ago. I even thought of in the starting of my move up North. I got to fix certain things and I got to help myself. I will be his close friend and I’m there for him. I care and love him a lot. I have a strong love for people I care for. Wait for him? yes but even right now. I’m not even thinking of relationships or anything about that right now. That’s not my goal, my goal is to help myself first. I love him but I have to worry what’s next for me. Health/Work/Money… I’m here as support like he is with me. He told me bad news about his friend disappointing him about not being a roommate anymore. He wanted to save money and try to balance out his financial stuff. The only advice I gave him was.. live alone and find a studio. I can help him find one if he likes me to.

@OJ thank you so much for your advice, it really helps me to keep going. He had ask for space and i let him be, after a week, he finally asked me to video call him and since then we are progressing i guess. In a few months after this covid lockdown I'm really rooting to see him in person, and i hope that will help us both. Thank you for your support! Best wishes to you!

@ToriDori @ScorpVirgo Thank you for giving me all these insights about a cancer men .I could see the similarities in them . I’m dealing with a cancer man myself for 5 years . Been together for one and a half years , best time of my life . On n off later , i am aware that it is super toxic but I’m still unable to let him go I was given a silent treatment because he said was being pushy ( because I was trying to understand what was in his mind ) . It seemed like he is still holding a grudge on things I did bfr we broke up. He told me that he won’t be engaging with me because I was pushy. It was almost 3 weeks now and he is still upset. I don’t know how much time I should give it . I’m getting tired

Birth Dates please?

@thecaptain thank you Captain. What you're saying makes completely sense. Even though it is hard, I have decided to move on. I could never understand his behaviour and his indirect ways, but regardless I tried my hardest and being understanding. And knowing I tried my best with this men gives me peace at the same time. Thanks once again.

Cancer men are notorious for this sort of behaviour and it usually means that he doesn't want to commit to you, likely because you don't resemble his mother closely enough.. That is who he is really looking for - a mother.

@jayann why are you answering for leolady?