@thecaptain Thank you for response, based on this reading which one these scenerios will be most likely outcome? What does this r.ship/situation look like in 3 months from now? Do we marry? And if so, what is most likey time frame
@TheCaptain Thank you so much for your reading. I really appreciate.
He is a very loyal man. He loves his family more than anything else but the stress is killing him. I know I can be a bit demanding and clingy at times but from now on I will keep your suggestions in my mind.
Thanks a lot TheCaptain .
Hi @Black-Hatter-W Please give me a reading. Could you please help me? !!
I just need some help regarding my love life. I am a Cancerian woman and my husband is a Taurus. We are going through a lot lately. Like lot of stress regarding buying a new house ,changing his job etc. This has taken a toll on our sex and intimate life. Its becoz of him we are not doing it. His health issues and stress are a factor also. I am getting frustrated day by day. What's going on? I can't really understand. I want intimacy but he is not giving it.
He was not like that before,It all started after buying a new house and his job change. Other wise he is a very affectionate person.
We are looking forward to have children in future.
Will this situation ever change? Will I be happy with him? Will our intimacy improve?
When shall I become a mother?
My D.O.B- 22 / 7 / 1984
My husband's D.O.B- 30 / 4 / 81
@blmoon oh my!! U have removed a milestone off my chest regarding this man... As i got done reading your msg the first thing I did was I went and deleted him off my contacts ... Coz all these years he just made me question myself as to where I stand in his life ... He kept telling me that he wanted a future with me n things like that but he always acted aloof making me wonder where I stand in his life! So anyway m glad I finally got this over n done with.... This gave me such a good sense of peace of mind already like I don't have to wonder anymore coz now I know where to place myself n I don't need him to do that for me.... I had become so emotionally dependent on him.... My God!! N no it's not about mating at all... We hardly met 4 times these 2yrs... So u were right when he said he actually does not exist.... For me it's not about that it's alot more that I was looking for in him.. like a serious committment and companionship like a forever sort of a thing ... If I was only looking to mate I would have never been in love with him so deeply n moreoever tolerate all that drama that went on in our relationship ...
So anyway I don't think m ever gonna be in love with anybody for that matter or maybe it's just my current state of mind that's doing the talking I don't know... But as u say I might get someone when I least expect it... Then the reason I may would want to accept him in my life is only coz of Shan ... I doubt it wud be for love anymore..... And maybe the lil boy would be from him I don't know... wouldn't wanna assume .
I mean whatever happens I just hope they r all for the good of my daughter ...
Thank u so much for all the readings yes I will concentrate just on my family now ....n from now on m just gonna be looking forward to a better life for us.... May all odds be in my favour....
BTW I did have plans to go abroad to America.... Could u help me find out if I would be successful with that??
Thank you Captain,
Right After I wrote the last comment two ideas came to me and they both hit the spot, both fit my unique interests of creativity.
I will jump into it without further thinking lol
Light bulb moment!
I'm so excited ...
Thank you Captain as always
That is true. In that case that is what I will suggest that she should take the lead and speak out... So that maybe it starts something or puts it to bed.
Appreciate your thoughts.. Thanks again!
I may update this to let you know what happens for them.
I would think the overall impression is positive. I think the Moon card indicates he is not sure how to proceed in particular. After all, there is an ultimate Nine of Cups in the future position, so everything is fine.
I doubt if he has already taken any action to show his interest in you (and vice versa)? From you account and the card results, I can see that both of you are connected very closely. However, I have not yet found if both of you have taken any action to move on to the next level. This is especially true when all the 3 cards are of water elements (very timid, yet very understanding). I think he is more scared to lose you than anything else.
I would say if there is one being active, then this relationship will be complete!
Bless you and good luck!
@black-hatter-w said in Could you guys help me with the reading??:
I hope I can help you and I would interpret this card as this way:
Current situation: Hanged man/ 3 of cups Rx, 10 of wands Rx:
The current relationship is stuck in which none of you can proceed to develop as a couple. Sadly, there are restraints that you cannot control over (e.g. Do you know if he is ready for love, or if you two are ready for a relationship?). That's why both of you are currently upset with this kind of ambiguous and distant relationship. Even worse, someone may try to give up as well. After all, this hanging relationship is too tiring.
I am sorry to put the meanings to be this negative, but there is evidence:
Hanged Man means restriction. What he can do is only changing his perspective. The problem remains a problem he cannot handle.
Sun Reversed is a positive card, but, in your context, is a bit negative: Right now this relationship is pessimistic. If only you can try to bear the hardship (correspond to hanged man), then it will become a bit better.
7 of Cups Reversed is actually a neutral card. Specifically, it simply hints that the client(s) can see the truth and what options there actually are, but whether or not he will pick the right one, it is still up to him. In your context, that does not mean it is a sure positive, but rather both of you have to think if you two are compatible and available. Then you will have the result. Hanged man actually gives you the time to do so.
Overall, I would say the impression is not so good, but there is a chance. After all, there is The Sun card. However, I would suggest you to think about both of your and his situation. Sometimes, the time has not come and you cannot force it. Besides, 7 of cups reminds you there are issues you (and him) has not thought through. Therefore, the tarot suggests you to be patient and think.
I hope my information can be of any use of yours. Bless you and good luck.
He is currently dating a girl now. So there is nothing between us, and I see that we should be just friend. Our friendship might grow stronger but that's matter of time. Thanks a lot.
@anamikabhalla said in Could you guys help me with the reading??:
@siarbitu -Hi! Since you asked HOW HE THINKS OF YOU, and The Hanged Man, Reversed 3 of cups and Reversed 10 of wands is the answer, it clearly means that from his point of view, his communication with you started sometime after you joined that workplace, not immediately. He likes you being around but you guys haven't socialized much outside work according to the 3 of Cups Reversed. If you ask him to go grab a beer or 2, the answer won't be a No as the friendship is very clear here.
And if your friendship grows stronger with him, there is a strong possibility of happy times in the long run according to the 10 of Wands Reversed. You both can never be in a power struggle ever!
You just took the question from his point of view but ended up answering things for yourself. That is where you went wrong. Now if you look at those cards again from the perspective of what he thinks about you, you will clearly see through!!
This is very accurate! I met him a long time before actually talking to him. (I mean really talking, not hello and hi) Yes we haven't socialise much outside our works. And yes about beer. In fact, he actually asked me to drink with him once at party. Anyway, I see your point regarding that. And it's accurate. Very.
Thanks for the insight about reading. I did take on my perspective when reading his. I shouldn't have done that. Thanks!!
I just picked up three swords cards (10, 9, 5 of swords) for daily reading lately!
The advice was also a swords cards (6 of swords)!!
In reality, I was teased by others and I felt very saddening, still I just let that be and continued my life.
A scary day I must say.