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  The heart of a Virgo man
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  Oh my boobs hurt like hell.
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  Are you sabotaging your love life? Love Laws of Attraction...
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  @horsefly143 Oh sweetie ...thank-you. It was very hard for me to "finalize" the relationship and to admit to myself that it was not working. The first 5 yrs were fabulous ...but the last 5 were not. It got to the point where I was not getting even 1/2 of what I should have been in all respects. That made me sad. Not to mention feeling betrayed and used and neglected. I had many lonely hours to sit and think DEEPLY about everything. I knew it couldn't and shouldn't go on like this ..what would be the point? I had to accept and admit to myself that HE needed and wanted and freedom because he wasn't happy any more. I also took a long hard look at all the years together to see how he was before and now. I realized that I was there to "heal him" and then let him go to work on the next phase of his life. AND that I was was also ready to release him and begin my own new journey. Yes, I had tears and my heart was breaking ....but I knew I had to do it. My soul gave me that feeling. I miss him at times now ...but if I get an urge to contact him ...I stop and remember some of the hateful things he had said or done that deeply hurt me ....and I get back into my "its done and over with asshole" attitude. I learned some VERY good lessons in this relationship. YOU CAN DO IT.
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  6 months on still heart broken doesnt feel like the end
  confused break up will he come ba • • Tinkerbell

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  will be get our relationship back on track?
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  @thecaptain Another straight to the point reading. I hope it helps @etarvin
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  Witch Problems
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  @tarot-comwildwhiskey revolving_hearts:
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  What is written in the heavens?
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  Gemini man advice please.
  love relationship relationships love relationsh gemini man • • Cece190

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  @cece190 you are not alone is feeling like this. take care of yourself
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  Calling all married forum members who are married - How did you find your partner?
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  Help with the Gemini man.
  love relationship relationships gemini man cancer woman • • Cece190

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  Will Aries man come back to Libra lady?
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  @jana-star good luck
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  The Journey of Finding a Relationship
  • TheCaptain

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  Wise words. Those wise words were very available when I was younger and yet wisdom didn't manifest until much later in my journey! I would call my past full of mistakes but how else did I learn this wisdom? Came down to being alone with myself, even if you ARE in a relationship but still searching. Attractions and compulsions are part of our "pathology" our personalty and our SHADOW. We also accommodate a spiritual time table that brings people into our lives as an opportunity to heal and grow. Sometimes relationships are painful yet golden when we are open to the lesson. I get it when women come on here feeling totally possessed by feelings and emotions and literally addicted to a love interest. This person who both has the power to give them moments of bliss also has the power to inflict pain. They insist when apart the lover invades their dreams, their space and they can't escape. Unaware that their shadow side knows how empty they secretly are of SELF they are and that any love interest can not help but totally posses them. Complicated brain work to find yourself. You have to sit in your empty place and face your wounds and the consequences of wounds. What adults showed you about love as a child has everything to do with how you behave in the presence of love. Can love be trusted? If the message was no than you will not attract full commitments of vulnerability. Where you emotional abandoned? If yes than you will repeat that pain over and over until it no longer hides in your shadow and you will stop self sabotaging love because you expect abandonment So bottom line is yes our journey of getting it right and healing towards love is really more about US then others. Know yourself. We can not change who we are....we CAN manage our wounds. We cannot change abandonment but we can rise above ourselves take a good look and say, whoops my wound is showing and I'm about to do that THING I do that worked as a child but keeps me stuck now. THEN you can choose your actions. As a child you had little choice just survival skills. As an adult who knows themselves comes CHOICES. Relationships are good practice and yes everyone is both universally connected by spiritual passages but each of us has a very unique journey.
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  Traveling as a good option to keep relationships strong
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  two quotes comes to mind and
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  pisces dude confusing me
  pisces guy tinder what to do libra girl • • matcha_teahyung

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  @badgerwoman It's easy yay!
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  I want to know the truth about our relationship
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  Hi there ....just checking in to see how your doing now??? Would love to get an update. We care about you.
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  Cancer bf broke my heart so I wrecked his car bcuz I was drunk
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  hello again ....checking in to see if your still here. How are things going now in your life? Need an update. We care about you.
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  So unsure
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  @broken-heart Need an up-date. How are things going now? What have you found out. We care about you.
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  emergency request
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  @thecaptain awesome!
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  Healing wheel
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  Ok ...am keeping notes on who lives where. Do what you can for now until we can get more organized. I do my best work late at night here when everyone goes to bed ...usually after 10 pm my time and afternoons when roommate takes a nap.
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  Myself and My husband are that’s right there I libra him a aquarius
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  not sure if your asking me or not ...but I don't have a weblong....and am also not internet smart ....post a new topic ... others will see it and offer advice. best of luck