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  Is this Typical Cancer Man Behavior? Help!
  help cancer man break up virgo woman • • ToriDori  

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  @ToriDori - man this Cancer dude has really dug his claws into your heart huh? I'm so glad you're standing your ground, and making him come to YOU if he wants to talk through this in person! My Virgo and I have text a few more times since my last update. However, it seems like it's a little one sided when it comes to questions. I will typically ask him something, and then he'll reply and we'll keep the conversation going. He has yet to ask me ANYTHING. Is this normal? He sent me photos from his camping trip, which I thought was sweet. But again, is he just trying to be nice or does he like me? lol this sounds like high school, but I just don't want to scare him off.
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  Dear Captain, a reading? Possible love - Scorpio and Virgo
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  @Mim - Hi there! Thank you so much for the insight! Super helpful, in my weird situation with this Virgo man. He does reply, sometimes immediately and sometimes after a day or two. I am your typical Scorpio, so I absolutely do not ever reply immediately LOL. Sometimes it takes me a few hours, other days it takes me a day or two. However, it seems that I am the one who is always asking the questions and we branch into conversations from there He has yet to ask me an actual question to keep the conversation going further. Do you think that's a bad thing, or is he just trying to feel me out? I did remember to ask him about a few things, so I hope that was a step in the right direction. He sent me photos of his trip out camping last week, so I guess I'm just super confused on what he wants. Is he just being really nice, without any other intentions? When it comes to work, school, and life, I typically will choose my priorities over any boy - I made one too many mistakes in my younger years! The last text he sent to me was a statement, not a question. I'm going to leave it as is and see if he reaches back out at some point...?
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  I need help can’t handle this anymore
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  @segment my feelings want to be with him soo badly! My heart does too! But my head says you need to figure things out, stop obsessing over analysing! And then my gut says do you trust him?! So I need all of them on the same page before I can make any decisions on what to do in this situation! And if he is the one he will wait for me to figure it all out! Time to turn the pages and start testing the cancer man for once ️
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  Relationship breakdown
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  But.... I think you need to let it go and move on and look for a new relationship. Even if you return it it will be temporary and this relationship will bring you only torment and suffering. I've been in a relationship for three years. I dreamed of a wedding, a house, children... And then one day she just left... I call her. We met again, but it wasn't that relationship anymore. Then on kismia.com dating I found a girl with whom I began to communicate and this communication gives me a lot of energy and joy. First we corresponded. Now we're calling by video. I hope to meet soon. I like that girl.
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  The heart of a Virgo man
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  @Mommy-Crab nah, if it was accidental he'd cancel it. I've always wondered why they come back. Virgo still owes me an explanation for that . I'm done with trying to understand behavior of men I had my share of sleepless nights and tears because of it so I'm officially done. My pumpkins are almost one month old and I'm in oblivion how time flies.Virgo is a truly amazing dad and I'm grateful for his dedication and hard work. I agree on bleeding, it's exhausting. I hope it stops soon. Virgo is really gentle and supportive when I'm overly moody. Men really go through so much with us. Are you and Taurus OK now?I hope all is behind you and that you're stronger than ever.
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  Aquarius man and Gemini woman
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  @Alaureb, this relationship is a challenging one for love. The two of you may have problems living together day to day, though you are well suited to engaging in enterprising, even groundbreaking projects together. Overall, then, the relationship is likely to be connected with exploration and investigation. This guy has an aggressive and success-seeking side that will probably meld well with your energies. He may, however, be too complex for you to understand, and his need for silence and privacy may be disturbed by your need to talk about everything. Thus, a love affair or even a friendship here is not highly recommended. This guy's emotional depth and sensitivity is unlikely to be acknowledged or even perceived by you, as you find it hard to handle strong feelings, and thus you may take this guy’s silences as rejection when they are simply his continual need for isolation and distance. The fact that you may well be very attracted to such a deep individual does not make this relationship the best choice for either of you. You will simply be unable to 'get' each other.
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  Do cancer men just not call you or text you? I am so confused
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  @Taz honestly. I'm a cancer woman and I can tell you that he's not that interested. Sorry to say this. He will keep doing this until you leave on your own. And if you don't, he will tell you (maybe in a harsh way) to leave him alone, that they just wanna be friends or they will come with all kinds of excusses.
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  Taurus/Leo is it going anywhere
  relationship taurus leo • • Leo Laura  

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  This makes a better friendship than a love affair. The strongly sympathetic and understanding attitudes that appear in this relationship can give it an atmosphere of trust. Private matters can be kept that way without threat of revelation. The downside of this is a heightened sensitivity to betrayals of confidence in any form, so that as trusting as it is, the relationship simultaneously contains a suspicious undertone. Certain tendencies will have to be monitored carefully, notably those leading to excessive privatization of feelings and consequent isolation from social interaction. Widening the circle of relationship to include others is essential here, not only to enrich the primary relationship itself but to learn the lesson of sharing in a wider social and universal sense. A love affair, although understanding, may fail to ignite flames of passion or touch deeper layers of emotion. Marriage may not be that successful either, partly because your love interest needs to nurture and you are self-reliant and can have difficulties accepting his nurturing. Having children is not recommended here, either.
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  Love reading
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  @TheCaptain thank you so much
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  Capricorn Man and my Taurus Heart
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  @findingheart112, to those who know you two as individuals, this relationship will probably be somewhat puzzling. Its purpose isn’t always clear, even for the two of you yourselves, should anyone ask you; you are often too busy giving structure to a family, career or business to be concerned with self-understanding. In fact, if a shared activity around which the relationship is built ends or falls apart, the two of you may find little in the way of an emotional or spiritual bond to hold you together. An intimate relationship here may be the hardest to figure out. Usually intensely private, the relationship may not be deliberately hidden from the world, but it won't be actively exposed, either. The two of you may have been thrown together in the oddest and most unexpected circumstances, perhaps necessitated by the fact that you travel in such different circles, and have such mutually exclusive activities, that you might otherwise never have met. Yet you may have an immediate sympathy or fascination for each other, one that demands further interaction. The neglect of an existing relationship of some standing is often demanded here, increasing the level of tension, suspicion and mistrust all around. It may all be worth it, for this is seldom a quick fling; it is a serious, karmic relationship that must be thoroughly and laboriously worked through before it can be ended, with one lifetime perhaps not enough. A love relationship here will be enhanced by honesty and a shared sense of tradition, but you Findingheart will find this man’s authoritarian attitudes oppressive, both to yourself and to any children or younger relatives in your family. Wisely, you should rarely try to oppose his need to take the lead, but in a subtle and diplomatic way, you must seek your own areas of concern and control within the relationship. Problems and power struggles can arise however if this man's intolerance assumes a prejudicial tone, for discrimination, or even small jokes or assumptions about other people, can have a very bad effect on you. Try to break down any walls of mistrust between you if you want to better the relationship.
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  Missing my Cancer Woman, How can I win her back?
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  Excellent!
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  May 6 & December 27
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  Pschyic reading
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  my dream man
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  @hafsa-mubashir Everyone has dreams. Some dream big while it's small dreams for some others. But when we are talking about dreams related to relationships, it can be seen that both men and women do love give dreams a chance. In your case, you are dreaming about a partner who can please the way you wish him to be. But let me tell you something, you will get married to a person soon or later whether it's the person of your dream or not is totally remains connected to various factors. Firstly, you should study well the background of the person you are going to tie the know with. Know the person, his character, his profession and such important things. Once you evaluate all these things and find him a good person give it a go. Secondly, do not be an over expecting person and do not be a stubborn girl to think that you should get a person the way you really dreaming of. Understand, it's our dream and it differs from the reality of life we are in. Once you are married to a nice and lovely person, there begins your dream. You can dream to build a strong relationship with him You can dream of having a beautiful family Start to realize these things and then the life will be quite wonderful for you and your loved ones. I'm not a great person to advice you on these things, but what I have shared above is just out of my experiences. I'm working as a full time professional housemaid in Dubai in a housekeeping company known as Housekeeping Co (look for reference) and my profession helped me to watch several couples and see through their relationships. Some keep it a strong bond while some others life shattered due to various issues, mostly due to misunderstandings. In a relationship and in a family life, the couples require to understand each other, share things each other and be ready to adjust, forgive, etc., at required times. Being stubborn means the end of some beautiful chapters. So, please care my words and may God bless you with your dream partner
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  How can I win Scorpio man back? Does silence mean it’s over?
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  @Aries242 From a Scorpio to u, never underestimate a scorpions love and forgiveness. The silence is Hard for him as well. Let him gather his mind. He is thinking of u right now, guarenteed
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  Advice
  relationship horoscopes reading please • • Tauruslily  

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  @Tauruslily This is a challenging relationship for marriage. A love affair here can be physically satisfying, to say the least. This relationship however will not be without combative elements, which, however, are not completely negative in effect; instead, they can heighten the intensity and raise the stakes - victory can be an important theme here. Strangely enough, although this kind of striving generally asserts a priority over kindness, love and consideration, it does not preclude them. Should the relationship break up as a consequence of one of these struggles, the two of you may show true compassion for each other, and sadness rather than exultation will likely be the dominant feeling. Marriage here is likely to lack the intensity of the love affair, but it can certainly be more relaxed and pleasant enough. You TL will suffer terrible bewilderment when power struggles do arise, since you likely haven’t yet built up anything like your husband's tough, enduring and resilient attitude. An unspoken truce should therefore periodically be put into effect at such times. But it will be time to end this relationship if power struggles cannot be brought under control.
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  Confusing Pisces male, need advice!
  help confused pisces • • Jsummerbabe  

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  Although this will be challenging for a love affair, if you can make it to marriage, it may sort itself out. But there will be struggle and difficulties before that. There is a natural sympathy between you, but also a competition over who will be the centre of attention. This can be dealt with if each person sacrifices ego needs for the good of the relationship, concentrating on making the relationship itself shine in a circle of friends or family. Thus a divisive tendency can instead become a unifying theme, turning a weakness into a strength. Another example of positive metamorphosis here can appear in the financial sphere, where the two of you (who tend to be spendthrifts, or who are unrealistic about long-range investments), can do a turnaround as a duo, together showing financial astuteness and good sense. A love affair here is a notable area in which competition for attention can divide you and create open conflict. Needs and demands of this kind can get out of hand, and if the two of you fail to receive attention from each other, you may be forced to seek it elsewhere. This can undermine the relationship’s stability, and in a worst-case scenario, can destroy it. Friendship and marriage are probably the most likely setup between you to be successful in transforming egotistical drives. In these kinds of relationship, the two of you may be eminently qualified to serve as a progressive force for change, a refuge for others in times of need and a dependable anchor in providing economic stability. Your refusal Jsummerbabe to make rules governing the actions of those you live and work with can be helpful in avoiding conflict here, for this kind of attitude is essential for this man's happiness and productivity. But beware of being too permissive with him and letting him have too much of his own way. He needs disciplining because he often lacks self-discipline himself. He also tends to be more comfortable alone than with someone. He can fall passionately hot in love one day, only to change his mind and blow cold the next day. He also has trouble staying calm and in control when things don’t go his way. Given the extremes to which he is prone, this man child needs to receive unconditional love and support from those who are close to him, although he also needs firmness. Once he knows what he can and cannot get away with, he will be much less likely to look elsewhere and will remain fairly stable in a relationship. But he can also have trouble knowing when to stop when he is having a good time and this can cover partying, food, drugs, sex, smoking and drinking.
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  Cancer Man Distanced Himself
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  @Soo I know how you feel, been there too. Mine was away for 3 weeks without me hearing anything from him. But then he came back and acted like nothing happened. Most of the time when they are having problems they retreat themselves. I am an cancer woman, and I have to say that now that I'm dealing with my own zodiac sign, I have realised how difficult we are. But you need to stop calling and texting, he will get fustrated and maybe that's one of the reasons he stays away that much. When things ain't going well with me, I don't like people blowing up my Phone. I just want to be left alone. Let him miss you. If he comes back oke, but if he doesn't move on. Do your own thing is my advice to you.