@vmaseyk Regardless their sign, emotionally unavailable men are never a good option for relationship. It is much better and fulfilling to be single. You will be fine no matter what happens. Self love is the main skill all of us need to learn. People get overgrown, people get attracted to other people... Human nature is unpredictable. That is why there is self love to protects us. We can't escape to be hurt. But, our pain doesn't have to blow all our lives away. Unhealthy attachments need to be rid off. We are born alone, we die alone, we fight our battles alone. Even with kids, spouses, parents,..., we are alone, we escape into ourselves when we need to recharge. Embrace yourself and love yourself with all the love you gave to him. You deserve it more.
I've been married 47 years so looks like I must have NOT encountered my deal breakers! Actually, marriage shifts in closeness and distance. So there are benign little deal breakers along the way. Partners grow at different paces and have separate journeys. I've been attracted to many men in my life. Of course no affairs. I'm married to a Scorpio! But I have been blessed to have always had some very sexy intelligent talented men friends who find me just as sexy. My world is mostly filled with professional writers, artists and musicians so I know a lot of free spirits I think a deal breaker for marriage would be a man who doesn't in some capacity WORK. Even if I was a bread winner He better have a work ethic. That situation really rocks the boat for me. I'm a very hard working person who can be ambitious and goal orientated. so once I lose respect for my man I'm inclined to start belittling him. It ain't pretty. Intelligence is very sexy to me. Cheating definitely would be a deal breaker and I'd probably need bail money Are these Taurus traits? I know I have an Aries moon. Security and possessiveness? Loyalty?. Fidelity? A lot of these traits are human and universal. Oh Ms Administration. You made me laugh! So your Scorpio snooped in your phone? Don't they all?!! At least once? I know some of you are saying, no not my Scorpio , he would never do that. No, you just got one smart enough not to get caught! Scorpios deserve to fall in love with a psychic!
I’ll admit I think all the men I’ve dated were sexy! A man, willing to do his best to be open and be vulnerable, is sexy! Of the significant relationships I’ve had, Taurus and Capricorn rank highest in sex appeal. Both have a raw uncomplicated, earthy hot sensual thing that’s...wow.
So what exactly are you having trouble forgetting about this guy, since it all seems to be disgraceful treatment from him? Are you holding onto a slim hope that he will suddenly turn into a considerate person - because that is not going to happen as long as you allow him to get away with behaving like this. You have to realize that you are responsible for how any other person treats you. Are you afraid of losing the loser if you stand up to him? You need to raise your self-esteem if you think this is for any reason acceptable behaviour in a relationship. He is just using you for sex and money.
Sounds like the blogs are about to get real busy? As it is, relationships are the biggest psychic query. Love and money. I read my Taurus prediction. An ongoing theme for sure this year. And had to laugh at the last line suggesting a Taurus know when to let go!!!! HAHAHA! Yep, we can be a hold on tight bunch. But when we DO decide we had enough it's FINAL and nobody moves forward with a thunderous stomp like a determined Bull. Venus retrograde? Bring it on cosmos! OH big PS. If you thought that drama six months ago was all settled. Here's that next chapter. BLESSINGS!
I have been having some issues with loving myself I guess your right there. But at the same time i believe i am trying to believe in myself especially in the difficuilt times. I dont know but i try to treat myself with loving kindness.I think that is the best way sometimes. I love the word Nitpick dont you that's just interesting to see what that word means. I am guilty of letting myself down sometimes. I guess I have a few things to work on.
I really appreciate your advice and help especially if you have any insights or thoughts.
I would try and work things out if possible. Though it depends on what level of understanding you get to each other.
I know there this was a few days ago now, but whatevers happened betwween you too, i hope you can work through it.
@sunshine7959 Yes, very well put. And I agree -- I think it has so much to do with the environment you were raised in.
I was cheated on by a Taurus who exerted loyalty in many aspects of his life, except his love life. And yes we can absolutely look at the other aspects of his chart and draw conclusions from that as well... but I always found reasoning by looking back at his childhood that lacked some serious love.
You attract whatever you are inside. Thus if you are attracting men who say they are ready but are in fact the opposite, it means that you also have subconscious reservations about committing to love. Find out why you cannot commit or are afraid of love and you will then attract a long term romantic relationship.