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Daliolite, your advice card is -
The Card of Commitment
This situation exposes a need to show more commitment and responsibility, either from you to another person or another person to you or to projects you are engaged in. There must be more concentration than usual on the fulfilling of commitments. Every promise that is made must be fulfilled and every task undertaken has to be completed - this can extend deeply into personal or non-personal issues. Push yourself to succeed. Experiment with the situation and how you approach it. Causing problems or delays may be your subconscious’ way of telling you something wants/needs change. Demonstration of loyalty will likely mean a lot to those on the receiving end of your devotion. Pay attention to the people in your life and, when something seems to be upsetting them, don’t wait for them to tell you - ask them what’s wrong and they may appreciate your concern. If not, learn when they need their space and tell them you are there for them if need be. Stay committed and faithful for as long as reasonably possible. You must all treat others the way you want to be treated. Loyalty and devotion is being there for someone when they need your help and support to keep them going; it’s being faithful to those who may depend on you. To really understand a person, to be able to see their direction, actions, desires, strengths and weaknesses, you must actively contain all of your thoughts and feelings without pushing them down or acting them out. Receptivity isn’t about action, but it is very, very active. When you’re receptive, something magical happens. People shine. They literally light up and start wanting to be in your presence more because they see themselves reflected with no judgment, interference or prejudice. So next time you’re in the presence of another person, be they a friend, family member or stranger, practice the art of receptivity. Really, really listen to and be aware of them - not just to their words, but to their body language, their actions, the tone of their voice. And don’t try to change them, since you would also hate to be changed. You either accept them as they truly are or you walk away, grateful for the lesson you learned about yourself and your relationships and satisfied you gave your very best.
This card suggests you keep trying to connect with this man as he may need your help.